Met a Dream Guy??

[Blackjellybean27]

aw glad to know that
some people are just meant to be! hehehe!

[jodoyz]

@blackjellybean27: lagi, hehe. but at that time. i was really really scared... my sister was still 8! dako na to understand they'll be separating, but bata pa to understand why they should, if they did separate.. we told her na, nagbakasyon lang ako mom...hehe

[Blackjellybean27]

@blackjellybean27: lagi, hehe. but at that time. i was really really scared... my sister was still 8! dako na to understand they'll be separating, but bata pa to understand why they should, if they did separate.. we told her na, nagbakasyon lang ako mom...hehe

hahaha! whatta long vacation noh.. pero ok lang sis. sometimes it's better the little one didnt know at that time k lisod baya kaau. sa case ko gani, my in laws and my mom just tell my daughters i have to work far away (which is true naman). they dont bother to say nalng that i have to leave 'cause of her dad.

by the way, sis.. nako question since i think we have to be back sa topic, k basin kasab-an ta na wla na ta sa topic. LOL.
question: have u ever been with any of your dream guys?
or if not lets say nlang.. you have this dream guy, then find out from other people, ay nightmare guy, unsa reaction mo?

[jodoyz]

@blackjellybean27: ay bitaw sis noh, sorry... okay, m gonna answer that! hehe lol

I actually had one sis. We had Four happy years together. I was still 3rd year highschool back then.
We were really happy. ofcourse, we did fight. but we'd settle it... medyo nasay story before we were on. his family, was not in good terms with mine. i dont know, may history man gud ila family na dili ganahan ako family. but fortunately they said yes nalang, after a year nagkakami, that was when i was n 3rd year..
hahhaaay, He would give me a supply of my favorite chocolates till i ran out, and he'd maintain it..
we went here in cebu together...oh the memories..

not until something came. it ruined us.

[Blackjellybean27]

@blackjellybean27: ay bitaw sis noh, sorry... okay, m gonna answer that! hehe lol

I actually had one sis. We had Four happy years together. I was still 3rd year highschool back then.
We were really happy. ofcourse, we did fight. but we'd settle it... medyo nasay story before we were on. his family, was not in good terms with mine. i dont know, may history man gud ila family na dili ganahan ako family. but fortunately they said yes nalang, after a year nagkakami, that was when i was n 3rd year..
hahhaaay, He would give me a supply of my favorite chocolates till i ran out, and he'd maintain it..
we went here in cebu together...oh the memories..

not until something came. it ruined us.

how old r u na diay sis? if you dont mind me asking...
aw, grabe romeo and juliet ang drama ng families nyo hehehe.
aw di man sya dream guy k nag reality guy na sya! oiiii!
hala noh, what happened?
third party? i hope not.

[jodoyz]

how old r u na diay sis? if you dont mind me asking...
aw, grabe romeo and juliet ang drama ng families nyo hehehe.
aw di man sya dream guy k nag reality guy na sya! oiiii!
hala noh, what happened?
third party? i hope not.

oo. romeo and juliet kunuhay.. hehe lol.. pero di sad in.adto ka grabeh..

i still wasn't open to tell anybody about this topic before but then they said i should share.. to make things easier...
third party? no sis... wala gyud ko nagprobs ana wid him, i dont know, he seems to be contented.. ako ray, burara adto na tym.. and he constantly forgives me..thats why sad na, i really fell in love with him..
what happened was, i of all people was the last person he told na he had problems regarding his health.. everybody knew, and i didnt. laen jud kay to para nako. ur boyfriend, diagnosed... diagnosed with cancer! it was a very big deal... syempre na shock ko sis, i wasnt able to grasp it at first. it took me a month to ever face him. a month with sleepless nights.. grabeh, every damn night tears would fall. but i didnt want to talk to him yet. since wala mi contact during ato na month, i didnt knew na it was hurting him too. his sister even went up to me sa school, gikasab.an ko! she even slapped me sa iyang kalagot..ngano kuno i was acting such... (syempre, wala pa to nako nakaya sis uy.. wala pa kay nako na load ang info. it was hard to imagine..)

then, it came.. i wanted to see him.. we talked.. settle things again.. but after that, everything wasnt the same na.. thats why i said four happy years lang.. although we were together for 5 years.., darkness did fall on the 5th year.. he was sent to america, medyo richness laha family.. but before he did, he was trying to tell me to give him up. to let him go. he said na, at least sayo pa for me to move on. syempre i did not agree. kasayang sa amo years, and then id let some illness ruin it. he kept on discouraging me. he would not want to talk to me. pero i did pursue. i did still want to make things happen. i love him man gud. i really did. i wanted to make things right. when they flew to america na, medyo hinay na amo commu. kay syempre he was busy with his health things. i would email him everyday, saying na its okay. ul be alright. its nothing. he would reply lang once a week, pero okay ra ghapun to nako! i would be the one to call him sis. asking him how he is and all. after 8 months he came back.. dili na cya pakita nako, i would visit him..pero nara cya sa iyang room. kulang nalang i would tell his mom, na i will marry your son now na! hehe...but syempre wala nalang, they myt think it was a joke...

few months running... he wanted to speak to me..
he was pale, bald na, but he still had that smile. the smile that sweeps me off my feet, the smile na wud lift me when i was down... char kay sis noh, pero tinuod.. he told me everything, that he loved me. and he might be gone soon. and he also told me to do him a favor... a favor to let him go... a favor na i really did not want to do, but felt like it was something na i should. cos it was hurting man him gud, to see me daw still there. what nalang kuno mu happen if wala na cya, and m still holding on. but it was hurting me too sis. i told him he could not blame me if i can. gahi jud kay kog ulo, i wanted to still go on..thats just because i love him... so he told me, he'd give me time...

then i had a few talks from our closest friends. and i even went to my mom. and she told me to let go. i was young pa daw to be experiencing such. i should daw let go, but still continue to support him. his mom went up to me, and said the same thing...

and so i did...and it made him happy.. but i was still there.. as friends.. we'd pretend as if walay nahitabo...we did go on.. ni move cya back to the province, since dili kay healthy para nia mu stay sa city.. commu ghapun.. text gud mi everyday..

then it came... he left.. i was at work when that happened! (ga work ko, tas ga school)... emergency call, wen i went to get it. the bad news! as in.. i can still remember.. murag ni hunong gani ang world.. i could not hear anything else.. i felt cold.. and i started to cry.. na shock to ang uban employees, they where all infront of me.. and i couldnt care less. i did not move.. the night, i rushed to get a ticket sa fastcraft, went there! and didto ni continue... i would just lean on a corner, and just be with myself.. and cry... after....

hahaay, sis... murag taas2 na akong natype... ato sa putlon....

[Blackjellybean27]

awwww sis that's so sad...
i can see why you still think he is your dream guy.
i don't blame him as well why he doesnt want you to be around when he was sick.
he was just being selfless. he doesnt want you to be hurt, seeing him like that.
mao to, cge sya ingon nimo na buwagan nalng sya.
i can understand naman how you felt that time when you first learned bout it, pero d sad right ang sis nya with what she did to you. i dont like that part. ako pa to, ambot lang. hehehe. although i knw she is hurting as well. but still wla man sya right to do that gihapon.

[maddox_pitt]

m 23 pa sis. hehe
oo. romeo and juliet kunuhay.. hehe lol.. pero di sad in.adto ka grabeh..
i will tell you, pagkahuman y i think he s still my dream guy...

i still wasn't open to tell anybody about this topic before but then they said i should share.. to make things easier... so here
he was older than me ug 1 year so 24 nata cya run..
third party? no sis... wala gyud ko nagprobs ana wid him, i dont know, he seems to be contented.. ako ray, burara adto na tym.. and he constantly forgives me..thats why sad na, i really fell in love with him..
what happened was, i of all people was the last person he told na he had problems regarding his health.. everybody knew, and i didnt. laen jud kay to para nako. ur boyfriend, diagnosed... diagnosed with cancer! it was a very big deal... syempre na shock ko sis, i wasnt able to grasp it at first. it took me a month to ever face him. a month with sleepless nights.. grabeh, every damn night tears would fall. but i didnt want to talk to him yet. since wala mi contact during ato na month, i didnt knew na it was hurting him too. his sister even went up to me sa school, gikasab.an ko! she even slapped me sa iyang kalagot..ngano kuno i was acting such... (syempre, wala pa to nako nakaya sis uy.. wala pa kay nako na load ang info. it was hard to imagine..)

then, it came.. i wanted to see him.. we talked.. settle things again.. but after that, everything wasnt the same na.. thats why i said four happy years lang.. although we were together for 5 years.., darkness did fall on the 5th year.. he was sent to america, medyo richness laha family.. but before he did, he was trying to tell me to give him up. to let him go. he said na, at least sayo pa for me to move on. syempre i did not agree. kasayang sa amo years, and then id let some illness ruin it. he kept on discouraging me. he would not want to talk to me. pero i did pursue. i did still want to make things happen. i love him man gud. i really did. i wanted to make things right. when they flew to america na, medyo hinay na amo commu. kay syempre he was busy with his health things. i would email him everyday, saying na its okay. ul be alright. its nothing. he would reply lang once a week, pero okay ra ghapun to nako! i would be the one to call him sis. asking him how he is and all. after 8 months he came back.. dili na cya pakita nako, i would visit him..pero nara cya sa iyang room. kulang nalang i would tell his mom, na i will marry your son now na! hehe...but syempre wala nalang, they myt think it was a joke...

few months running... he wanted to speak to me..
he was pale, bald na, but he still had that smile. the smile that sweeps me off my feet, the smile na wud lift me when i was down... char kay sis noh, pero tinuod.. he told me everything, that he loved me. and he might be gone soon. and he also told me to do him a favor... a favor to let him go... a favor na i really did not want to do, but felt like it was something na i should. cos it was hurting man him gud, to see me daw still there. what nalang kuno mu happen if wala na cya, and m still holding on. but it was hurting me too sis. i told him he could not blame me if i can. gahi jud kay kog ulo, i wanted to still go on..thats just because i love him... so he told me, he'd give me time...

then i had a few talks from our closest friends. and i even went to my mom. and she told me to let go. i was young pa daw to be experiencing such. i should daw let go, but still continue to support him. his mom went up to me, and said the same thing...

and so i did...and it made him happy.. but i was still there.. as friends.. we'd pretend as if walay nahitabo...we did go on.. ni move cya back to the province, since dili kay healthy para nia mu stay sa city.. commu ghapun.. text gud mi everyday..

then it came... he left.. i was at work when that happened! (ga work ko, tas ga school)... emergency call, wen i went to get it. the bad news! as in.. i can still remember.. murag ni hunong gani ang world.. i could not hear anything else.. i felt cold.. and i started to cry.. na shock to ang uban employees, they where all infront of me.. and i couldnt care less. i did not move.. the night, i rushed to get a ticket sa fastcraft, went there! and didto ni continue... i would just lean on a corner, and just be with myself.. and cry... after....

hahaay, sis... murag taas2 na akong nasuwat... ato sa putlon....

OMG sis..you've been through a lot... it's easier said than done sis, but you'll get through it.. you have to.. and one day, you'll find someone like him...not exactly like him of course...what i mean is, someone who can sweep you off your feet like your ex did.. it's a sad story... but one day, you'll still have your happy ending

[jodoyz]

awwww sis that's so sad...
i can see why you still think he is your dream guy.
i don't blame him as well why he doesnt want you to be around when he was sick.
he was just being selfless. he doesnt want you to be hurt, seeing him like that.
mao to, cge sya ingon nimo na buwagan nalng sya.
i can understand naman how you felt that time when you first learned bout it, pero d sad right ang sis nya with what she did to you. i dont like that part. ako pa to, ambot lang. hehehe. although i knw she is hurting as well. but still wla man sya right to do that gihapon.

its been two years na. and i can still remember. medyo lisod2 sad i-forget ang tough times. but i do think of the happy times we did together.

yeah, i did understand why she felt that way.. love kay to nia ia brother, pinangga kaau nia.. na shock lang jud ko ato, kay she did that na naa pajud ako mga friends and ol.. i wasnt able to say anything, nitulo lang jud ako luha.. wala jud cya mi tagad nako ever, but after pud she did say sorry man sad with what she did. and now, we often text each other para kumustaay, chikka2.. m still good with his parents though, theyd invite me on sundays para eat together. parang before, pero without him..
her mom would encourage me to, you know, date somebody cos m still young pa daw.
pero, i dont know, i dont feel so pa man... i dont imagine myself with someone yet. thats why dream guys lang sa ko..
seeing that guy sa ako thread, reminds me of him man gud..he'd bring some flowers and give me a teddy.. and the smile..hahay,

but im happy! m happy being single! i get to be with friends, family... im enjoying life! and i know na he's happy for me, wherever he may be...

[jodoyz]

OMG sis..you've been through a lot... it's easier said than done sis, but you'll get through it.. you have to.. and one day, you'll find someone like him...not exactly like him of course...what i mean is, someone who can sweep you off your feet like your ex did.. it's a sad story... but one day, you'll still have your happy ending

yeah...it was a lot, but that was still half of it...daghan pa kay ta ma.experience sis, i hope dili na in.adto... m still young, you're still young... daghan pay mu abot! hehe
i will have my happy ending sis uy, and you'll have yours too. dili selfish ang world, showeran ra tag blessings.. hehe lol

it was a sad story, but i consider it a blessing.. he was a blessing.. and it thought me a lot of things.. it made me a much better and strong person that i am now...