In love to a married Man need advice

[granz]

forget it. dont be a family wreaker sis. those kinds of people go directly to hell without any court ruling. please sis, rein in your feelings for the married man. it wont do you any good. you'll just be curse and will be the subject of your neighbors and relatives very constructive gossip, trust me, you'll just hurt. as long as it's still an infatuation, focus it to someone single and uncommited. that way, you'll be happy and will live in peace.

by joannecoralde nga ga nose bleed

[danver2099]

mao na gyud ning resulta bah basta makuha na gani sa laki iyang girl... married man pa jud, sos... dako na ug sexperience.. woot...

[yanong_banikanhon]

every time you feel like falling in love with that married man,
think of his wife, his family and his kids...

Paskang saktoha gyud ani! Congratulation TS nga nakaamgo ka nga sayop ang imong gibuhat mentras sayo pa. At least dili pa dako2x ang damage.

Sa mga naghuna2x nga makig-relasyon og minyo, pugngi intawon kanang inyong kaulag alang na lang sa mahimong mga biktima sa inyong binuhatan. Wala mo'y katungod nga moyatak sa ilang kadung-ganan, wala mo'y katungod nga moguba sa ilang kaugmaon. Mao nay isil-sil sa inyong mga alimpatakan.

[DeepwateR]

ya, i agree with granz, sis. Get out of it nalng while you still can

[locust101]

ang pagbasol naa ra gyud sa ulahi TS.. advice not to continue..

[taks]

di man tingali sala if ma inlove ug married person. it's the things you do with the committed individual that will subject you to harsh words and judgments from hypercritical people who are quick to condemn and do not waste time stoning you for consciously breaking a commandment.

TS, you know what you entered into when you decided to have something to do with married guy. you found your way here and expressed your sentiments because the situation you've gotten yourself into is probably becoming heavy on your heart. let's not talk right and wrong because that's something you can clearly distinguish for yourself.

there's no need to ask if you're wasting your time with him. the fact that you admitted he could never be yours is proof that you know there's nowhere to go if you stick with what you have now. but because you're still truly, madly, deeply in love with him and because deep-rooted emotions are the toughest to conquer, no amount of helpful advice nor terrible words can wake you up from your dilemma. that is, until you find the courage to pluck yourself out of it. in the end, only you can get yourself out of the rut you're in.

may you soon find the strength to do what you gotta do. and whichever way you wanna go, make sure it's a path you know will lead to a place where you'll find peace of mind.

I salute you, Keen. Very nice.

@Missinlove, sakit jud na miss. pirting sakita ug pirting lisura. The whole world will turn against you, but expected naman na. One thing I've learned this morning, love yourself first, and you'll learn to love everyone around you. Follow your heart lang gyud. Kung mupadayon man gali ka ni married man, kayanon lang gud ang consequences. (unya ang problema lang ani no kung pareho tag gilove nga married man, patay. hahaha)

Ok ra man ma in love with a married person. It is the convention in our Philippine context that makes it immoral. Puede lagi sa Europe or USA.

Right! Sobrahan ra ka hipokrita ang mga pinoy gud, always ibase ang life sa ubang tawo sa ilang giset nga standard. "delicadeza" kuno. Well, f*** delicadeza.I call it hipocrisy.

[Scott Bernard]

... komplicated kaayo ni nga topic.. heheh!

Lami man jud nang mga bawal bah... pero ang after effects ang naka bati ani.

Ang advice sa ako mga superiors kay "Okay raman na, basta kabalo ka mo dala ug kabalo pod ka mo gawas mo abot ang panahon"

[heisenberg69]

asa naman ang bayot na TS oi...

[CompTech]

makalimtan rana nimo xa...move on...

[yanong_banikanhon]

Right! Sobrahan ra ka hipokrita ang mga pinoy gud, always ibase ang life sa ubang tawo sa ilang giset nga standard. "delicadeza" kuno. Well, f*** delicadeza.I call it hipocrisy.

Morag supak ko ani, higala. Dili man siguro 'delicadeza' ang main reason nganong gi-consider nga immoral kanang makipagrelasyon kag usa ka minyo. Matod pa sa usa ka bantogang encyclopedia:

The first principle of morality...is the regulative supremacy of social sympathy over the self-regarding instincts.

Unsa man diay naa kun makipagrelasyon kag minyo? Kun minyo ang imong gikarelasyon (or ikaw ba kaha ang minyo), dili lang kamo ang apektado sa inyong 'adulterous relationship'. Ang inyong mga anak, asawa/bana ug uban pang mga tawo nga nagmahal kaninyo ang maoy unang maka-experience sa consequence sa inyong binuhatan. Kamong mga 'performers' ulahi na mo makarealize sa epekto ana kay ang inyo ra mang tagsa2x ka pagbati ang inyong gihuna2x, inyo ng nalimtan ang pagbati sa uban. In short, you are just pursuing your own happiness while the rest of your loved ones are 'bleeding'. That is actually the opposite of what morality is. Each of us has the right to pursue our own path happiness IF it doesn't cost others' happiness.