Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

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[shaxyra]

from wiki.answers.com

Getting Over Someone

Here is advice:

* Ask yourself what might be in his head or his heart; it takes two people to be in a relationship and even though you feel the way that you do, maybe it was meant to be this way. Save your love for someone who feels the same way about you!

* In my case, I know I deserve better. I tell myself "He isn't worth my love, he's too young to realize what he's doing to me so I guess that's that."

* It's not about getting over a person, it's about feeling good about yourself. It's about knowing that you are the most important and you need to be happy. If this other person doesn't feel the same way, it doesn't really matter.

click here for more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you...l_the_same_way

The first few tips are a little too cliche, read further down.

cool lage ni..

[titaniumbox]

cool lage ni..

mao jud.. ako jud gi printout ang article.. pra read2 nako..

very informative and so true.. haayyy..

morag im feeling much better each passing day.. gamay nalang kulang.. then i can totally say i can let go totally and start anew..

[azwethinkweiz]

hala ka murag maka relate lagi jud ko ani doh as in !!!! tsk tsk tsk.

[eiZaN]

jam ko ani bhe kayasa naka relate sad ko.. huh!! lisud jd kaau ui ako gali lisud ko sa pag hunahuna krn cuz wla na communication jd astang frndster nga kahibaw ko sa PW karon kay lahi nah... saonz, dli pjd ko mka adto sa ila kay naa permi iyang uncle nga plahubog.. ang nka lahi lng sa ako kay wla ko khbw nganu ni kalit lng jd xa kawala, ang last text ra nya kay "Auau ha bahala imung migo dha dli mag tker ikaw pg tker jd" dn after ana wla njd nko na contact.. hibong rjd ko nga wla na ug kalit.. dn kanagn tyma nga ng text xa naa mi sa tagayanan sa mr.j naai chcks ako mga barkada dn dli xa gusto naai kuyug mga chicks.. paminaw nko naa ng tell nya nga miga bout ana.. kay mao rjd na ang ako nahunahunaan...

haaaahhhaaaai kapoy ani..

[AnGelicFace_07]

Bro murag padung gyud kag pagka hopeless ani heheheh.. btw, I can relate too with your situation right now even me, I think 2 mos. from now we broke up.. It's so hard to forget a person that you think he / she is the one that you are bringing to the altar of marriage but in the end you are not destined for each other. I can share too my experiences bro... yeah we ended up our relationship because of a nonsense gossip with our neighbors... they always telling me negative feedbacks with my ex-bf like that he is obsessed with another girl and to think of it I'm his girlfriend and we are 4 years and a half of our relationship on that time. When I got home from work, one of my friend telling me that he saw my ex-bf riding with his motorbike with another girl (matching pinagakos hawak ha!) waaaaa.. :-x it hurts so much I felt like the world is hitting on me when I consolted him about it, his reasons are in and out.. I don't know what to do by that time.. I want to slap him but I can't 'coz I didn't saw too what they told me. I have learned to move on. Yeah... It hurts most for 1 week after you broke up especially remiscing those moments that you had.. the sweetness and exchanging lovely thoughts saying you're inlove with each other. You're hoping that you are meant for each other but ends up nothing. So I decided to move on and enjoy myself at work. I think paying attention with someone can help you too to forget him / her .

[limunsito]

apil mo sa HRS

[AnGelicFace_07]

apil mo sa HRS

member nako did2 bro hahahhaa

[titaniumbox]

hala ka murag maka relate lagi jud ko ani doh as in !!!! tsk tsk tsk.

hehehe,, daghan na ta.. the article is really very informative and practical.. makes me ponder,, have no choice but to move on with life..

[titaniumbox]

Bro murag padung gyud kag pagka hopeless ani heheheh.. btw, I can relate too with your situation right now even me, I think 2 mos. from now we broke up.. It's so hard to forget a person that you think he / she is the one that you are bringing to the altar of marriage but in the end you are not destined for each other. I can share too my experiences bro... yeah we ended up our relationship because of a nonsense gossip with our neighbors... they always telling me negative feedbacks with my ex-bf like that he is obsessed with another girl and to think of it I'm his girlfriend and we are 4 years and a half of our relationship on that time. When I got home from work, one of my friend telling me that he saw my ex-bf riding with his motorbike with another girl (matching pinagakos hawak ha!) waaaaa.. :-x it hurts so much I felt like the world is hitting on me when I consolted him about it, his reasons are in and out.. I don't know what to do by that time.. I want to slap him but I can't 'coz I didn't saw too what they told me. I have learned to move on. Yeah... It hurts most for 1 week after you broke up especially remiscing those moments that you had.. the sweetness and exchanging lovely thoughts saying you're inlove with each other. You're hoping that you are meant for each other but ends up nothing. So I decided to move on and enjoy myself at work. I think paying attention with someone can help you too to forget him / her .

lolz! i promised myself that i won't be in that situation.. a hopeless romantic.. as long i im breathing.. there's always hope.. im beginning to realize this.. life is short to be wasted on worry and anxiety.. i'll take things positively and have a positive outlook in life. this would make me a better and stronger person..

basta for me. i have no regrets. i gave my all even to the point of spoiling her.. that was a big mistake. nidako ang ulo, nagasalig na naa lang ko permi. maski dili ako sayop ,ako pa intawn mangayo og pasaylo.. make things up pra lang ma ok ang relationship...

kinda sad she never appreciate the love and care i given her.. taken for granted lang ko.

i deserve someone better.. who can reciprocate back the love and care i give..

yes, your right. mejo lisud jud. your caught up with the what if's.. the good memories together..etc.. but everything happens for a reason right? maybe dili lang jud xa pra nako.. someone better is in store for me.. and that's what my motivation right now.. finding the right person.. only time would tell.. for the mean time, have to live my life again..