MERGED : All about "cool off"

[Motownkid]

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col oof

[Ljane]

but then to some, asking for time and space na gani, meaning padulungay nana ug bulag...

yah, sakto sad basta makig cool off na gani na, padong nana call off, hehe

[cp103]

so it should be one and the same diba?

[Genocide]

pariha raning duha ei

[cp103]

we all would agree that relationships has it's ups and downs, even in a healthy relationship at some point it will grow through some slump. i guess my questions are, how often does it happen?, how long is the cool off period?, can relationships recover?, and is it a bad sign?

all opinions are appreciated...

since this thread is a merger, then i suppose it's safe to give my opinion about the statement above...when a relationship reaches to point of boiling over, then it'd be natural to hear the words "cool off" to think things over and to reflect on what's going wrong with the relationship for it to boil over, and do something about it before the words "cool off" turns into a "call off".

But the thing is, a lot of people(but not all) have the tendency in disregarding the relationship, particularly us guys, courting stage pa gani, asus, tuara, bahalag ulaw kaayo,basta mapafeel lang sa girl nga love au xa, buhaton jud tanan, sweet au and stuff, but if uyab na gani, aguy, wala na, pasagdan nlng ang uyab, samot na ug mag.asawa na (but some cases, it's the reverse pud, ang girls pud ang naa problema).

My point is, shouldn't it be that regardless what stage of the relationship we are in, that we should always remind ourselves about the reasons why we got into this relationship in the first place? with that, shouldn't it be that we should always reflect about our actions/decisions towards our relationship, and not wait for it to boil over? coz if we are happy in the relationship, I don't think we will ever hear the words "cool off" or "call off" right?

[rics zalved]

karon panahona ang cool off giabuse na siya labi na sa mga laki hehe, which is not supposed to be,

naa na siya nga privilege para lang gud nga sometimes busy mo unya wala kaayo moy time, so pwede lie low lang usa pero wa kay right nga makig date sa lain, so murag kamo gihapon officially, unya love pa gihapon ninyo ang usag-usa, pero wala lang nakita ang evidences nga kamo pa gihapon kay wala nay kita2x

pwede pud gamiton na nga privilege nga kana ganing sige na mo ug away, pero dili mo gusto nga magbuwag mo tungod sa inyo away mao nga icool off sa ninyo para mapreserve ang relationship pero never jud mo magdate sa lain.

pwede pud gamiton sad ni nga privilege kanang moabot ang time nga makapangutana mo sa inyo kaugalingon nga angay pa ba ninyo ipadayon inyo relationship, though wala mo gaaway, walay third party involved, niabot lang jud ang realization kay maybe nakuhaan na ang love or clingy na kaayo ang usa ka partner sa iyang partner, etc. still wala kay right makigdate sa lain

karon man gud giabuso, gamiton ni para makadate sa lain which is not supposed to be unta, then kung dili successful ang pakigdate sa lain, aw balik sa original hehe

[Lamusika]

hmppppp ,, cool - off ? igsuon nman guro na sa break up

[Julie Rhey Golez]

Yes it is. Maybe your partner or you has a problem about carrying relationship. Learning more about relationship can help you minimize the risk of your relationship..thanks

[ghostie2472]

Murag sa High School ra man ning cool off.. Naa pa ni ron? Kasuway ko ani sauna, cool off daw mi then mga pila ka adlaw uyab na sila sa akong klasmet.

[dualbishop]

Girls are all attention seekers.! Di lang gni matagad o magkulang lang gni gamay kaming mga laki..kami na daun ang sayup. Mao ni. Mao na. Cool off2 daun.

Aw buwagan.tagam. There's no such thing as cool off.

tsk.tsk.