Long Distance Relationships

[twalalyn]

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i really agree!!!its really hard but its really a good test for a relationship on how much you could hold on to each other.my 1st bf i was just in high school and we had a long distance relationship for almost 2 years and we lasted for 5 years then broke up...then i have a long distance relationship w/ my 2nd bf for 1 year and we're still together...and then just this year we decided to get married...hopefully,nana to cya dri next year. di jud sayon long distance relationship kas kaayo foncard cge lang tawag ug cge lang mingaw...hehehehe...i think it really depends sa 2 ka taw kon gusto jud sila sa usag-usa and welling to be patient and wait for the other person and make a commitment for each other.

[jeppoy]

i think it really depends sa 2 ka taw kon gusto jud sila sa usag-usa and welling to be patient and wait for the other person and make a commitment for each other.

sakto....long distance relationship really entails...the big C "COMMITMENT"....pra mo work out....kalas jud foncard....hehehehe.... og load....

[gb]

it rarely works. i give credit to those who make it work..

[batterfly]

i've seen it twice 2 friends of mine...didnt work out for them...the other kay thrice pa jud niya na undergo.

[hahayLAYP]

i've heard lots of LDRs with happy endings and not so happy endings. and i have experienced it twice myself (w/c belonged to the not so happy endings). i still think that the distance problem is not insurmountable. naa ra jud sa couple if they want it to work or not, or if they're both willing to make all effort for it to work out.

[thisbe.ara]

my last relationship? 5 years.. with 3 years LDR.. we tried to make thigngs work pero well, it didn't...it's sad, really...ang nakaapan sa LDR is if naay petty quarrels, dili dayon ma-address...until nga modako na hinuon jud cya maayo.. little did i know nga sa pagpabaya aning little things, na accumulate na hinuon cya..and before i knew it, wala na... haayyyyy....now, m almost over..yehey~heheh

[Archie]

i had that kind of relationship and it does not work for me.

[**julliene**]

i think it really depends sa 2 ka taw kon gusto jud sila sa usag-usa and willing to be patient and wait for the other person and make a commitment for each other.

sakto....long distance relationship really entails...the big C "COMMITMENT"....pra mo work out....kalas jud foncard....hehehehe.... og load....

so far so good for me..and yes!! commitment is really the right word..and be responsible lang sad..you have to respect each others decision kay layo baya mo..

ang nakaapan sa LDR is if naay petty quarrels, dili dayon ma-address...until nga modako na hinuon jud cya maayo

mao ni problem sa LDR..but then again, as what twalalyn posted..if you are willing to be patient then it's really worth a try..i even had that very big problem before when there's petty quarrels happening between me and my bobot kay akong bobot is very silent and dili na gyud na mureply and if magkol ko, dili gyud mutingog.. just be open to changes lang both parties para muwork out...kung pareho mo taas pride then dili gyud na muwork 100%..karon she changed a bit..mutingog na...hehehe...at least she respected my suggestion...ako man sya ingnan na way hinungdan nang dili mutingog...hehehe...better talk things out or else walay padulngan ang relasyon... :P

[morning star]

ldr works...well it really depends on you you know...mingaw gyud tinuod but if you really love him that much then padayon sa gibati oi..just be sure that your both committed sa isat-isa.and yes you really have to talk about it para magkasinabtanay gyud mo. d ba? and yes, im having an ldr,,,engaged gani mi.

[**julliene**]

OT: wow!! congrats and goodluck to you morning star....and best wishes nya puhon2x...hehehe...