About One's Past: To tell or not to Tell?

[joan624]

it's up to you..
honesty is the best policy
but SOME things are better left UNSAID..

[bir2]

dpende sa sitwasyon... if uyab namu,not important to tell bout it(naa man gud tendency ma insecure).. pero if nanguyan paka,sultii tanan... ^_^

[Soul_Captive]

There is no need to tell at first if it does not directly affect the relationship that you are starting to build..It will be a part of the things you will discover about each other..However, if it is a main ingredient sa inyo relationship, like your own feelings, then it is essential that you are open and honest about it with your partners..An example is when mosulod ka og relationship na di ka sure about your feelings for the person, then you should tell the person about that para kahibawo xa unsa iya gisudlan and makadecide xa if ready ba jd xa motake sa risk..

[lady_yan]

depende jud na kung unsa nihappen sa imong past, and if you're aiming for a long-term serious relationship.. if dika serious with a girl/boy, then you should'nt bother telling him/her, but if you want a serious relationship, aw,, mas maayo jud na he/she knows your past.
but there are still things na you just have to keep to yourself. i guess each one of us has his/her own secrets na you would'nt dare tell even your bestest friend or your mother.. hehe

[-CL-]

..in terms of about you-past, ok ra ka mu-tell. at least naa sad tawn tay gamayng background about nimo ue..

..pero if about ex's and stuff, pls lang! minusi lang kay ma-insecure pd tawn ta, labi na ug puro nindot ang imong i-talk about niya,..haiz...

[Baeybe_Bryce]

what u don't know wont hurt u..but it still depends on how mature both parties are...

[lady_yan]

i agree with the notion of maturity.

[ERomans]

still Honestly is the Best Policy!

[Soul_Captive]

what u don't know wont hurt u..but it still depends on how mature both parties are...

Won't knowing that you don't know something hurt too, lil bro?

(Mura man ni text message ui) lolz

[xxkatgorgeousxx]

okay ra..especially the reason why gabuwag cla sa ex..especially if ang imu uyab nakigbuwag..para makahibaw ta unsa dili dapat buhaton na pareha sa gibuhat sa ex..hehehe!