At what age sa mga kabataan na dapat ng mo let go ang mga parents?

[cutieara]

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if u want ur parents to trust u then act ur age...be responsible enough of ur actions...

[hyrei]

oist mura lagi inyo ko gitabangan.... huhuhuhuhuhuhu

ngayo ra gani ko opinion bah... 8s not really my whole experience jud cguro partly lang...

@cutieara: hey makasaligan baya jud kaso ang uban lang jud doubt jud sa ila pinalanggang anak.... not all pero na a jud in ana na case divah

[greystoke]

i think wala ka nila tabangan....there just posting andexpressing...nyahahahah

theres really no exact age i guess...pero kung ako pabut on...dili ko gusto na mo let go akong parents......gusto ko naa sila permi.....

[brownbrawn]

Dili pod na sakto greystroke. Parents should let go of their kids somehow. Remember dili baya forever naa imo parents. What if wala na sila?

I guess at some point in your life mo assert ka sa imong kaugalingon. Try not to be dependent on your parents. A good example is mo eskwela ka sa layo. No relatives. No parents. Its a test of how will survive. Para sa panahon na nga mga bagyo sa kinabuhi mo kuso kuso nimo kabalo naka unsaon pag survive.

[dessay]

I was 25 when I decided to move out of my mum's house, 'til then my nanay didn't want me to leave... but I told her that I needed to grow up and to discover the real world by myself. And also to realize the truth of her mga "pangaral". ehhehe...

if ever I'd become a parent, ideal age for my kids to move out from the house would probably be 21..maayo ng bata pa kahibaw na kung unsa ang kinabuhi...

[lindsay]

asÂ* a parent myself,Â* lettingÂ* go isÂ* not a matter of age or maturity, it is a matter ofÂ* respect andÂ* trust that you haveÂ* for your kids.Â* Â*ifÂ* you trustÂ* theirÂ* decisions inÂ* such earlyÂ* age, you help them develop aÂ* goodÂ* selfÂ* esteem and self worth.Â* you mayÂ* notÂ* like their tastes and the Â* thingsÂ* that they do butÂ* you canÂ* respectÂ* theÂ* person that they become.Â* but you also haveÂ* to setÂ* limits andÂ* that there are consequencesÂ* when those limitsÂ* areÂ* tested andÂ* that you meantÂ* it.Â* kids don'tÂ* haveÂ* to beÂ* outÂ* of theÂ* house forÂ* parentsÂ* to let them go.Â* andÂ* when timeÂ* comes that they decided to be on their own then they knowÂ* that you have faith in them asÂ* a person ,Â* that they can come to you whateverÂ* happens withoutÂ* you judgingÂ* them.Â* let them liveÂ* their life the way they want it, afterÂ* all it'sÂ* theirÂ* life.Â* just beÂ* there when they need you.

i don'tÂ* believe that you haveÂ* to makeÂ* kids experience financial hardships for them to know howÂ* it is.Â* Â* instead teach them howÂ* to earn it, that they have to work for it not just take it, and that thereÂ* are thingsÂ* they canÂ* do to make money.

i grow up in poverty andÂ* i don'tÂ* want my kidÂ* to experience what i haveÂ* been through asÂ* a kid, neverÂ* ever if i can help it.Â* but that does notÂ* meanÂ* that everythingÂ* isÂ* easy for him.Â*there'sÂ* a lotÂ* of things a parentÂ* can do without making the kid go though it. talk to them aboutÂ* yourÂ* experiences, teach them howÂ* to appreciateÂ* what they have, teach them howÂ* to share. keep educatingÂ* them aboutÂ* it.

it'sÂ* easy for people to say do this orÂ* don'tÂ* do that to your kids when they are notÂ* a parentÂ* themselves.Â* beÂ* a parent first then you knowÂ* what areÂ* theÂ* do's andÂ* don'ts,Â* and it's not the one's Â* that youÂ* thought they are or the one's that you read in books.


as for my son,Â* he's most likely to move outÂ* at 18Â* to go college sinceÂ* weÂ* are in theÂ* states.Â* butÂ* not for good yet sinceÂ* weÂ* probablyÂ* still help him until he'sÂ* done.Â*

[junenine]

kon naa nay trabaho unya maka afford na sila ug rent or pay their mortgage and all the monthly bills, but if they are not yet ready to move out, well I just have to let them stay on the basement or in the attic.

[Streetcar]

My 23 yr. old daughter still lives at home with me very much enjoying her single life as a christian and youth leader. She is already considered an adult in America from 18 up. That is the legal adult age. Anyhow she lives with me rent free, food free and free everything and she is a very responsible kid. She bought her own car out of her own salary and pays for her monthly car payments and insurance. I always tell her to save money now because she will never have it this good with Mom.

[captpoloy]

its all about stability, how stable you really are. lain man gud na kung mananghid nka na mo gawas sa poder sa imo parents, then mo balik ra diay ka kay dili nimo makaya... my dad for instance, he was still 15 yrs old when he went out under his parents care.

[jd_iceblizzard]

basa naa nay enough strength to stand alone...