Turning point of our relationship

[Scott Bernard]

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Mao nang resulta aning mag ipon2x, magka anak unya live-in ra.

Lahi ra jud nang legally married mo unta, kay dili ka dali2x ug buwag2x.

Advice nako nimo miga, sunod nga magka uyab gani ka, kanang desidido nga lalaki. Ayaw usa pag live-in2x kung dili pamo kasado sa imong future partner.

[THE KID]

kanus a na siya ni graduate miga? kung wala ko masayop kung mag date mo sauna ikaw maoy mo gasto? so diha palang daan sa wa pamoy anak.....kita na unta sa imong tibi2...

[Scott Bernard]

Basta dili pa kasado, pwede pa maka ikyas...

Mao jud na ang reality.... Daghan / common na raba ron ang ipon2x / live-in2x unya patoyang lang ug deposito kung naana sa rurok..

[jerzx777]

Grabiha sad aning lakiha oi. Salig lang sa babaye. Mura love gihapon nimo imo partner kay trabaho raman ang inyo issue. Mas maayo ana mag istorya mo ug balik tapos imo siya sultihan sa imo side. Kung wala gyud chance na magbag o siya aw imo nana decision to move on. Basin naa pa diay lunhawng balili sa unahan.

[xxkatgorgeousxx]

Wow. It took you 7 years to realize that he's not mature and responsible enough? Love gyud nimu sya girl kay kay nakadugay ka og ingon ana. But since nakigbuwag na ka, stand by your decision. Kaya ra kaayo na nimu buhi-on imung anak ikaw ra usa, with the support of your family. But don't deprive your kid of his/her father. Let him visit your kid. Luoy sab ang bata kay mangita man na sa amahan.

[RayGunz]

Single parent is nothing new.
Cheer up! This club is always growing.
Regardless, with the overclocked determination of a mother to raise a decent kid, all options has to be on the menu.
however, prioritization always goes first to the kiddo, mom comes second in line.

[Jasheika]

Just pray & pray. My auntie has same situation with yours. Mas worst pa ang iya husband kay all vices gesudlan nya walay trabaho. But one thing lang jud ang wala nausab ang faith sa akong auntie. Ge pray over nya iya husband everynight. Gradually nausab iyang husband jud. Its a miracle & I believe nga c God najud ang ga work ato . Kay in human side impossible na kaau mausab iyang husband pwo never jud ni quit akong auntie kay iya jud ge save iya family . Karun okay na sila.

[Scott Bernard]

I believe in God, Jesus Christ, and such things...

But let us not put the blame on God, or totally depend only on prayers and going to Church but doing nothing...

Fix yourself first before going to Church... (Matthew 5:24)

[MS.BUMBAY]

Hays kapait ba ana. Grabe pud sa 7 years mo nagka relasyon wala nimo nabantayan na immature ug irresponsable pa imo ka live in.Maayo pa buwagi na lang na oy wala man diay na klaro.

[firestarter]

I don't know what to do! Do i have to settle our relationship?Or to move on?

We've been 7 years in our relationship (not married), and we have a kid. As we go along with our relationship i can sense that he's not that responsible enough. He's not matured to take those responsibilities as a father. He had a degree but he did not work for his family and for his kid. Until such time that I tried to talk to him that we have to cooperate in raising our child on financial matters (to be specific). But nothing happens. Until we decided to separate, he's living on his parents and me and my child is in my parents too.

Until now, he doesn't have a job. ;(

^^ This is where it all started (bolded quote).

Basin you leave it up to yourself alone ang pagdecide nga dili siya responsible and immature siya.
Taga-e sa nag chance sis.

If you think specific basin dili paka specific enough.

Ingna nga pangita na didto trabaho kay ang imong anak nagtubo, unsa nalang atong ipa iskwela ani inig ka dako.
Ganahan baya ni siya maparehas nimo.