Would you CHEAT on your partner if you are 100% sue nga DI KA MASAKPAN?

[diablo85]

resulta ni sa teleserye TS....

[Wynna]

Mu cheat man gani kog bisan pag kibaw kong masakpan unsa nalang kaha nang dili

[ondoy]

if you're in a lame relationship and you find someone you like to flirt with, y not magbulag mo sa imo current,ba man mag lisod2 paka,just to have the thrill nga masakpan ky ga cheat ka?

[blaise]

Salamat sa mga responses. Nia kos gawas gatrabaho ron (hence the phrase 100% di masakpan). Timing this officemate of mine is among the roster of new workers og medyo dunvan mig sud. What drew us naturally together was the fact that kami rang duha permi mag English... he's Caucasian while 95% were Indians and other nationalities with heavy accents nga lisod gyud nmo masabtan ila English (and they don't talk to u unless necessary).

Last Friday mi nagka storyaay gyud kay timing nagkauban mig assignment. Pero bag ohay pa lang ko nakasud sa company kay naka crush gyud ko niya, but never made any effort to connect until he talked to me first and asked many questions. Ana pa sya "Are you a Filipino?" Adto na gasugod nga we introduced ourselves hantod lain lain na amo nastoryaan but all these happened while we were working. Turns out he had a Filipina gf too, nga bag ohay lang niya nakabuwag mao naka ila dayon syas akong nationality.

Og sa dihang... niana sya "I know this is weird but you look like my girlfriend". Bang! Bullet to the head. Nahilaw ko, but to hide my kilig/dismay Niana nalang ko "well, all southeast Asians look alike".

Hantod sa amo storya naabot nas akong mga personal experiences about my adjustments here in the new country where I'm at, esp my transportation problem going home after work. way bus masakyan dool sa amo office (rural area ni) so the first few days at work I had to walk home more than 1 hr on a dangerous road and negative degree weaTher. He offered to drive me home every after work, but nauwaw ko (nga nalipay kay naay offer) so I declined. But after a snowstorm here in our place it's impossible and dangerous to walk home, so I accepted his offer out of necessity.

Sige pami storya while he was driving me home, but sa among malas (o swerte) we had to stop for a few mins to wait for a train to pass by sa dalan padung sa amo house. We talked a bit about his life esp regarding his Pinay gf, and he showed me their pic tong nagkauban pa sila. I told him "she's pretty" sincerely, but niana ang animal "she reminds me of you". (my eyebrows raised). Nya pag abot sa house babay na, see u on Monday.

This guy doesnt know I am attracted to him (sa nawng ra, not personality or work habit whatsoever kay gwapo siya haha).

Here's the catch: i am currently in a relationship aNd naa mi anak nga uban nako karon. We are not married so single mom ako labas. We do talk once a week but thats all. Although I love him as he is my bf, I dont see myself getting married to him. For one, he is not supporting our son financially since he is prioritizing his support sa iyang family (tanang gasto iya, not even enough for them iyang salary). no support for years. Im self supporting our child, and thTs the biggest reason why ako gidala ako anak ngare maski lisod, d ko gusto ibilin sa iya then padala lang ko money. Usa pa, he wants nga muasenso sa Pinas, wa syay plans nga muari og muapas sa amo plus if ever he decides to leave, d sya muhawa sa Pinas until mahiluna iyang family financially. but until when? When our child is teenager already? (Toddler amo anak ron). In short we are not in the same page. He wants me to go home and marry him yet he has no concrete plans for our family and the future. He only rants about how kuwang permi iyang sweldo (and di nalang pod ko mangayo maningkamot nalang kog ako tutal usa ra akong gisuportaan).

This new White guy knows I have a son and a bf but not the details sa akong relationship status (i think it's too early to trust and open up sa ako probs to him though he did share his on the first few hours sa among panagstoryaay).


Ang pangutana, with my current relationship status aning new guy (esp him being my new driver), am I already cheating on my bf? have I already cheated sugod pa lang sa akong pagka crush niya sa tago?

[jerkric]

mao ni giingon, "lord patawad"

[takua]

If you are currently in a relationship (nga way klaro) and na crush ka sa usa ka officemate (no flirting involved, casual talk lang and conversations on a professional level and a little bit personal like asking about family, likes and hobbies), and nisugot ka sa iyang offer nga daily rides home (he's driving, nalooy lang tungod sa kalayo sa hike-konon og way public transport nearby) is that considered cheating already?

kani situation TS, nka like nka ani imo crush na usa ka officemate nmo? unya naa namo sa stage getting to know each other...murag naa nka na feel sa imo crush..ok ra mn nah imo hatod ug sa ilaha, mabait ka na tao TS..dli na ingon considered nah cheating..pero khbaw bya ka in relationship bya ka, kng la ka intention sa imo crush ok ra man na cguro luoy pd mag cge hike2 ky lau man ilaha...hehe pero la man kha flirting involved...mau hinuon nah atleast khbaw ka sa imo limitation...

[larisse]

ah okie, thanks sa detailed info ts

i think dili pa na matawag na cheating ts, pero hapit na, basin next week

[blaise]

Hahahaha katawaa nako sa next week oi. As I said na crush ko niya tungod gwapo siya. I'm not dropping hints kay ma turn off unya siya (ang ending I will lose my riding privelege which will force me to walk home or worse magresign ko and look for another place of employment that is transit accessible which is mas kapoy mangapply napod lain). He's not flirting with me either but he's dropping funny hints (or gadamgo rako haha) but that's it. We dont have each other's phone numbers so all our conversations happen exclusively in the workplace.

Anybody have a similar experience?

[princize]

Murag not yet... hihihi but the Intention to cheat is there me reading between the lines, it's really obvious that you like the new guy so much.. it would be very wrong for you to stay in a relationship which you think walay padulngan, at the same time it could be very unfair to the current if you stay nya wala na diay ang tinuod nga feelings. Try to check your tinuod nga feelings TS coz sometimes we love the idea of being in love rather than loving a real person. Also, have you ever talked to your current bf regarding those concerns you have? seems like you already have many issues with your current and these might be the reasons pushing you to "seek something/someone else".

[C'thulhu]

Ahh mao ni ang mu resulta unya sa "one thing that leads to another"...