i need an opinion...

[Onins]

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The essence of all relationship is trust and respect. If you dont trust your partner there's no point in holding on to your relationship. I disagree with people saying past doesn't matter of course it does, but what's more important is learning to accept the past and use whatever lesson you can make out of it in the present and possibly the future.

If worse comes to worst and your partner chooses to pursue the other girl, then let him at least you know who will he choose, sooner rather than later when wounds are so deep to heal. As the saying goes: Letting go has never been easy but sometimes strength is measured not by holding on but by letting go.."

Im sure he'll choose you!

[zengatsu]

howkies!!! so ayaw na worry worry diha miss kagulo..as bob marley's song goes..

dont worry about a thing, coz every little thing is gonna be alright...

[dakki]

well said guys... :mrgreen:

anyways, be aware also to reserve something for yourself... dont trust in a full blast coz you never know what's ahead of you... i think it would be better to limit that trust so that whatever happends you still have something to pick up...

furthermore, consider the fact that the ability of a women to entice committed men is one great factor why some relationships never work... i think you know what i mean bout "corner thing", do you? hmmm i wonder what you said that the girl had a big crush on ur men...

[chellee]

well said dakki.... always reserve something for urself , give limitation in everythingl ...sometimes we should consider our doubtful instinct pud don't take it for granted.. gurls are gifted with that instinct thats proven.. as what u said u trust this person so much but how about the ppol that surround him or that gurl ??.....men are just human some can't resist to temptation...thats the fact..u'll never know.. ur the only one could tell if u need to worry or not...just listen to ur instinct and what u feel...

[aljoriz]

yes listen to your instict.. and pray for enlightenment.. in times of worry all we can do is hope and pray.

[zengatsu]

bitaw ampo lang..

[nunobone]

kinsay mas sexy ikaw o ang girl?? kinsay mas gwapa ikaw o ang girl ide ikaw!!!

seriously.. you dont have to worry anything if he really loves you... peru still bitaw noh, basin sad bah..

[kagulo...]

ok ra man ta bah..
pro ang nakapait man gud, iya man gud ipafeel sa girl na gnahn pa sad sya nya... mura ba na iya sya paasahon ba...

b4 pa nkahibaw ang girl na kami na, cge cla txt nya iya man sya sendan og mg linya na "mahigugma man sad ta og samot nmo ana..." or "ikaw ra lgi ako lgi..." kbw ko bout ani kay naa man sad ko sa iya side every time mag text cla... pro karon na kbw na ang girl na uyab na mi, wa na man kau cla ngtxt. at least wa ko nahibaw.an.

ingon sya nko na mao kuno iya 2 gbuhat na magpa-as if na gnahn pa sya sa girl kay pra kuno mafeel sa girl ang kasakit na iyang nafeel sauna pagka basted nya.. mao sad matarog jud akng utok. d man cguro ka magdumot sa isa ka taw na gnahn nmo sauna kng wa na ka feelings pra nya d b..?

wa ko kbw unsa akng buhaton..
sure na kau ko sa akng filings nya pro wa ko kbw kng sure na sad ba sya sa iyang filings pra nko...
evrytym mghuna2x ko sa iyang mga nabuhat pra nko, convinced man jud ko na luv kau ko nya... pro kng naa na gni ang girl sa picture, maglibog na ko..........

[P-Chan]

hirs d thIng.....,


gnahn ako uyab sa isa ka grl b4 pa mi nagkaila.. as in gnahn KAAYO sya.... nanguyab sya sa girl pro wa man sya sugta, so wa nlang sya namugos. ka2ng tym na uyab na mi, i've heard na gnahn sad daw kaayo ang girl nya...

i knw my bf loves me. he has proven it a lot of tyms alredy. wa naman sad daw sya gnahi sa girl na. pro the thought still wont come out of my mind. i trust him so much and dats why it scares me. wa ko kbw, 2ngod sa akng salig nya, kalit lng sya og kawa nko... SHOULD I WORRY?

let go but tie a little string along.. (if you know what i mean)

[Rance]

Ay'g kumpyansa! wa ka ka baw underground silang duha.. mag uyab pa mo di mo mag kuyog kanunay wa ka baw while na tug naka ni gawas imong gf/bf then lurking around with others.. reality bites! (this is not my personal experience but I know folks whos doing this) just be careful.