pagbag-o: Kayahon ba nimo?

[vernie]

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Inig gusto ka ug kabag-ohan sa imong palibot, sa mga tao nga imong ma meet, sa ilang batasan ug uban pa - in other words sa tanan around you: Start the change within yourself and the rest will simply follow. Tanang dili aligned sa imong current situation sa imong kaugalingon will no longer exist the moment you shift. Mao nay angay masabtan sa kada usa nato. Di na nato ma usab ang reflection nato sa mirror until we start the change on ourselves. Everything sa atong palibot sama ra na sa reflection nato sa mirror, gusto ka ug naay kausaban, angay nga mag sugod na nimo mismo.

Buhata lang, whatever change you want to see around you, buhata lang gyud ang change nga angay nimo himoon diha sa imong kaugalingon and everything around you will reflect accordingly. Ayaw kakurat nga di dayon instant ang change nga imong makita sa palibot, ayaw pa apiktar diha diha dayon nga wala kay nakita nga dako nga kausaban, hinoon padayon sa angay nimong buhat and the rest will simply follow. It is said one can shift to another reality a billion times a second, shift to the one that you desire and keep it that way.

There is a formula for this, live every moment of your life with your highest excitement, with your highest joy to the best of your ability until it no longer apply and do what excites you the most next. Example, di ka ganahan magsulat karon pero ganahan ka mag atiman ug mga tanom then go pag atiman sa mga tanom until naa na pud kay mas ganahan pa buhaton and focus on it with the best of your ability. What will happen then is every moment of your life will be a series of excitement and joy and everything in your life including those around you will work in accordance to your state of being. Remember, any circumstances does not matter, what matters is the state of being.

[pohpay]

ang mga di lang maayong attitude ang dapat bag-ohon,

[beyee]

If you change into someone you're not just to be
loved back, it isn't true love.
The reason why someone takes a chance on you
because he sees through your imperfections and
appreciates more of what you are inside...

No more, no less...

[gamatoy]

dili lang kay ikaw magbag-o ts kundi kamo duha sa imong hinigugma,pero kana sya optional na....mag depende ra pud na ninyo if buhaton ninyo mag bag-o para sa kaayuhan sa gugma kuno..hehe

[iBerg]

oo.. dependes sabot

[Synthetic]

ang pag panigarilyo na kaya nakog undang!

[carbrill]

both of you should meet halfway kay unfair sad man sa isa ka part nga cya ra ang mo change... compromise things para mo Dagan lang ug smoothly ang relationship.

[crocodile]

lisuda ana oi pero adjust lng jd ka ana mga ing.ana na sports kung passion jd na nmo understand na cya
kung dile cya aw wla ka ma himo ana.if you got nothing to loss

[reeses]

Change for the better, meet him halfway T.S.

[quirkychinita]

From my end, I dont necesarily find it as a need na magbag-o jud para sa gugma kay if he really loves you, he will accept who you are.

However, Ironic kaayo kay Im the type who gets easily influenced by the people important to me.

I used to dress to impress, put on tons of make up and things a common katkatera does.

But then here HE comes in simple clothes, laxed attitude and things I could barely relate to.

I gave it time, it took me a while to let things sink in cuz I was an alien in a strange world.

He showed signs of acceptance, kindness and showed me Cebu in a different way when I was about to decide to leave.

And then unconsciously, I toned down. No more flashy clothes, no more overspending on trinkets, no more drama queen moments, no more katkatera stuff.

I enjoy exploring things his way and until now, I still discover so many things I never knew that made me happier every day.