Dili ganahan makig socialize? Ngano man ko?

[Xian120]

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there is nothing wrong about resorting to introversion., i was an introvert myself, until i found work, and suddenly i found it to be unnecessary..

introversion is okay, but you have to think also of the results and consequences that comes along with it, you're old enough to know them i presume.. when you choose the right friends and learn to balance your time with them you'd find the importance they hold on you, we may learn something from introversion but there are just things that introversion can't provide for us, it's like choosing to eat meat rather than biting fresh leaves, there is just something in fresh vegies that meat cant give you..

i've never been a fan of Spice Girls, but i believed them when they said, "Too much of something is bad enough"..

but for all we know it might be just one of those identity crisis that we all face, if that is so, then like what Scott Bernard said., "it'll pass"



You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist. - Friedrich Nietzsche

[Passport]

Hi, I'll cut straight to it.

I don't want to socialize, hang out, go out, or however it can be put. I used to love, in fact pine after, partying and playing around and having fun, but now I want to be alone most of the time. I find I thrive on solitude now, and while I still enjoy talking to people when I have to, I find I'd much rather avoid socializing in any official way (party, going to a bar, traveling with friends, going to dinner).

Reading this, does anyone see a problem here? I don't really know if this is a bad thing, or if it's just a kind of preference. I find I don't want to end up too attached to people, with too many responsibilities to them, or them to me, and I would rather keep all people at a distance.

I'm not a bad or suspicious person. I'm very close with my family, and nice to the people I know. But I just don't want to have friends. Now... that does sound weird.

perhaps you and i belong to the same flock..

I do not see anything wrong with it. Well, other people might, those who look at society with colored glasses may label us as introvert. But I do not feel anything abnormal. We are just being unique with the main stream.

Don't worry ts, nothing is wrong. Di ka nag iisa.. our kind is rare..but this is what we are.

[Xian120]

those who like to work in solidarity, though they do not appeal that well to the public but are often the most creative, resourceful, imaginative and artistic.. but still we need to appeal to the public to get on with life, for there are only few people who understands them well,.

[<SMILE>]

Maybe you did not have the right persons
to hang out with. Explore further.

[Joseph Ratzinger]

I myself am introvert. I go out alone just to buy something. I drink alone at home. Normal ra na.

[nicka]

Hi, I'll cut straight to it.

I don't want to socialize, hang out, go out, or however it can be put. I used to love, in fact pine after, partying and playing around and having fun, but now I want to be alone most of the time. I find I thrive on solitude now, and while I still enjoy talking to people when I have to, I find I'd much rather avoid socializing in any official way (party, going to a bar, traveling with friends, going to dinner).



Reading this, does anyone see a problem here? I don't really know if this is a bad thing, or if it's just a kind of preference. I find I don't want to end up too attached to people, with too many responsibilities to them, or them to me, and I would rather keep all people at a distance.

I'm not a bad or suspicious person. I'm very close with my family, and nice to the people I know. But I just don't want to have friends. Now... that does sound weird.

so much for a loner...... hehe..joke... bitaw TS, normal rana oi.. talking about suspicious may poruhan pa nga ako na..haha.. coz i'd rather spent my whole time watching animes at home than hanging out with my friends.. so who's weird between us?? its jaz a matter of preferences my friend.. at saka kanya-kanyang trip lang yan..hahaha.. so hail for us!!!

[alykz]

Thanks sa tanang response really appreciate it. Hmm, ani man gud work ko sa callcenter and naay mga Team Gatherings and miskan usa wala pakoi na attendan.. It's nice to know that I am not alone Dili man sad siguro ko Nerd funny ato oiest, I know how to interact people most especially sa work However when it comes to gathering I choose to be at home. Thank you all, sa mga nag post and all salamat jud.

[alykz]

naa kay gibitik ts?

Unsa? Wala tka na gets hehehe

[superidol]

post daw imong picture TS. . pra ma solusyonan ta ni ug tarong. .

[fatso]

TS, maypa order kag buwad gikan ni SUPERIDOL...then mag gathering mo sa balay..oh di ba..socializing daun. pa deliver na ug buwad...hehehe!