She loves me for what i am or for what she thought i would be?

[themanwhocantbemoved]

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Go where your heart is. Kung she's worth fighting for, din humana ang Engineering. Kung feel nimo maka kita pa kag mo pa pitik sa imong heart, then it's time to let her go.

Think about it, kung ma mingyo namo, nya di sya ka gusto sa imong desisyun, pila kaha ka buwan dili ka nya ting-gan.

3 months pa mo and you're acting like this?!? We don't belong to people forever

Bro its a crucial decision mn gd. Im caught between choosing my first chosen career against her. Kay kung di ko mo work karon sa ako BSIT ma ulahi na kog maau sa trend which is very important sa ing ani nga trabaho.

[neversaydie]

hahaha. bag.o ra ko ni mata sis. Kung ma abtan mi ug years sis tungod jd nimo. Murag tanan nako worries and kalibog na cover jd sa imo replies. hehehe

I know wala ka katarong ug sleep kay you're keep thinking about it, right? heheheh well manage to smile now, don't over react to things, just take it simply, para dili madako imong problema.. kung maabot mog dugay nah balikon jud ko nimu hahaha, you can treat me like your real sister, heheh opne ko sa mga bsina unsang butang..have a good day ahead... take things slowly and face whatever may come... happy easter bro..

[beyee]

Do whatever your heart desires and not for others' wishes.
If you feel that you're happy with your first field of expertise,
then go for it bro, don't hold back.
Always remember that a person loves you for what you are.

PERIOD.

She will only support you every step of the way and not dictate
you what is "ideal" for the public to see or even to get her parents'
approval. It's never her position to do so. It's your call bro.

You guys have to talk this out. Tell her what you're sharing to us in
the forum. Let her hear you out. It's helpful in a relationship to have
an open communication between both parties to get the message
across.

Prolly in her end, you're amenable to finish the second one
because you're fond of doing things for her or you have this habit
of always saying "yes" to her. So it's ok for her. But to your end, it's not.

So talk it out with her bro.

If she doesn't see your way, then it just proves that she only loves you
for the man she wants you to turn out to be and that is sad bro.

God bless bro.

[themanwhocantbemoved]

Do whatever your heart desires and not for others' wishes.
If you feel that you're happy with your first field of expertise,
then go for it bro, don't hold back.
Always remember that a person loves you for what you are.

PERIOD.

She will only support you every step of the way and not dictate
you what is "ideal" for the public to see or even to get her parents'
approval. It's never her position to do so. It's your call bro.

You guys have to talk this out. Tell her what you're sharing to us in
the forum. Let her hear you out. It's helpful in a relationship to have
an open communication between both parties to get the message
across.

Prolly in her end, you're amenable to finish the second one
because you're fond of doing things for her or you have this habit
of always saying "yes" to her. So it's ok for her. But to your end, it's not.

So talk it out with her bro.

If she doesn't see your way, then it just proves that she only loves you
for the man she wants you to turn out to be and that is sad bro.

God bless bro.

Di man ko ganahan mo talk ani niya sis gd kay kahibaw na ko sa iya i sulti jd - "ikaw gd, bsta happy ko kung asa ka happy" pero i know dili jd na tinuod. ma feel jd nako ang coldness after.. Love mn gd nako xa, kung mo padayon pa ko ani ako course, it will be because of her jd.

[themanwhocantbemoved]

I know wala ka katarong ug sleep kay you're keep thinking about it, right? heheheh well manage to smile now, don't over react to things, just take it simply, para dili madako imong problema.. kung maabot mog dugay nah balikon jud ko nimu hahaha, you can treat me like your real sister, heheh opne ko sa mga bsina unsang butang..have a good day ahead... take things slowly and face whatever may come... happy easter bro..

Yey! naa koi sister dre. hehehehe. salamat sis. pero i accept na ko oi.

[beyee]

Di man ko ganahan mo talk ani niya sis gd kay kahibaw na ko sa iya i sulti jd - "ikaw gd, bsta happy ko kung asa ka happy" pero i know dili jd na tinuod. ma feel jd nako ang coldness after.. Love mn gd nako xa, kung mo padayon pa ko ani ako course, it will be because of her jd.

If you resort to that then sorry to tell you this,
You'll only be living in a lie and you keep convincing that to yourself
til it feels so real and true... Worst case scenario, you'll resent her for
letting you push thru with the course then there goes your worst
argument... Putting the blame on each other.

If she doesn't mean what she says every time this issue comes up in
your convo, then be BLUNT with her. Don't be scared that she will get
mad. Of course, it's a given that a person will be slighted once their
"suggestion" will not be followed but once you tell her HOW YOU REALLY
FEEL about the whole thing, she will either understand you or still be
stubborn about it and convince you some more.

Dapat ang magdesisyon, ikaw jud bro. Ikaw ma'y moeskwela ana Dili sya.

Karong panahona, Dili tanan higayon sa uyab ang matuman basta future
na nimo ang concern bro, practicalay na ta Ron.

What if things won't work out with you two?
mag unsa Naman Lang ka?
Moabot nuon ka sa point na mag think,
"Maypa wala nalang ko nipadayon ani dah... Wala Naman siya."

So back to square one napod ka?

[themanwhocantbemoved]

If you resort to that then sorry to tell you this,
You'll only be living in a lie and you keep convincing that to yourself
til it feels so real and true... Worst case scenario, you'll resent her for
letting you push thru with the course then there goes your worst
argument... Putting the blame on each other.

If she doesn't mean what she says every time this issue comes up in
your convo, then be BLUNT with her. Don't be scared that she will get
mad. Of course, it's a given that a person will be slighted once their
"suggestion" will not be followed but once you tell her HOW YOU REALLY
FEEL about the whole thing, she will either understand you or still be
stubborn about it and convince you some more.

Dapat ang magdesisyon, ikaw jud bro. Ikaw ma'y moeskwela ana Dili sya.

Karong panahona, Dili tanan higayon sa uyab ang matuman basta future
na nimo ang concern bro, practicalay na ta Ron.

What if things won't work out with you two?
mag unsa Naman Lang ka?
Moabot nuon ka sa point na mag think,
"Maypa wala nalang ko nipadayon ani dah... Wala Naman siya."

So back to square one napod ka?

waaaahhhh.. hasolaaa.. bitaw sd what if mgka buwag mi. wa na jd koi choice ani storyahan na lng jd cya.. haii pareha pa lng ko ka outspoken nimo sis sayon ra jd ni para nako.. mg buhat sa kog script ani.

[beyee]

Hahaha!

It's from experience bro.
You remind me of how I was before with the former.
I let him decide my career path to the point of not pursuing
my work abroad. I was too afraid to tell him how I felt that time
because I was afraid he'll get mad again and look for another.

The inevitable thing happened. It didn't work out. I am stuck here
not too happy with my career. For years kept blaming him then myself
for not pursuing my plan before. Now I'm back to square one.

So be strong bro. Think of yourself first. Besides, she can also benefit
from your plans bitaw. Think of long term goals bro and not what's laid out
for now..

[themanwhocantbemoved]

Hahaha!

It's from experience bro.
You remind me of how I was before with the former.
I let him decide my career path to the point of not pursuing
my work abroad. I was too afraid to tell him how I felt that time
because I was afraid he'll get mad again and look for another.

The inevitable thing happened. It didn't work out. I am stuck here
not too happy with my career. For years kept blaming him then myself
for not pursuing my plan before. Now I'm back to square one.

So be strong bro. Think of yourself first. Besides, she can also benefit
from your plans bitaw. Think of long term goals bro and not what's laid out
for now..

Cge ill tell her na lng jd.. come what may na ni. hehehe. pero kung mgkabuwag gani mi, imoha jd ning sala.. hahaha. jowk sis. . Ayaw lang trabaho sa abroad sis oi. ms nindot mn dre. hehehe. depende ra mn sa diskarte.

[beyee]

Aguyyyyy!

Accessory na nuon ko ani? Hahaha
Btaw ui, here in istorya bro, we don't
dictate on what you ought to do but
we are here with opposing views which
will help shed light on your dilemma.

Sometimes we can't open up to our friends
because we are afraid that we will be judged
or be taken out of context of what we confide
so we get different perspectives from strangers
sans any biases hehehe

God bless bro... hope open-minded imo gf sa imo
situation karon... By the way, keep the faith,
Easter is a season of hope and new beginning!

Toughen up and be a man! Hehehe