What do I tell my friend - or keep my mouth shut?

[makoyvelasco]

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I agree..but sometimes we as individuals need to be told ,correct me if im wrong..

yeah, absolutely right! thats what friends are for. but sometimes we have to know the consequences of it. usually, we're blinded by what we feel, and never listen. males are stubborn most of the time, especially when it comes to females. theres no greater teacher than experience

[MALDITA_YLLYZA]

mandhid naman ng friend mo ...

[MALDITA_YLLYZA]

There is nothing you can do. Its something he has to learn himself. He has to come to his OWN realization that this girl may not be for him. Thats not even for you to decide either. You may not see something that he sees, because you are on the outside looking in.

Nothing good will come from you trying to get involved somewhere you have no place in. Your friend will be offended and annoyed that you're making his personal business, your own. From experience, you cannot tell a friend that the person they are dating is no good. They WILL NOT listen. They have to learn it for themselves, you can't tell him how to live, who is good enough, who isn't, who he should be dating, who he shouldn't. You are his friend, therefore your responsibility is to be there for him to lean on when he is hurt, be happy for his happiness, listen to him when he wants to talk, and offer advice when he asks for it. Your place is not trying to change his mind about someone he is seeing.

Do not say anything. I guarantee he will resent you getting into his personal life, and will be very offended and will shut you out completely. Just keep your opinions to yourself, because they won't do anyone any good. If this girl is truly a mismatch for your friend, he will come to realize it in his own time... its a learning experience for him, so you have to allow him the chance to learn from life...

[jiro]

Leave him alone. let him learn from it.

this is one great experience for him.

Been there, done that.


(unless you're inlove with him) ^_^ ahem! complicated. well thats your affair and i'd say do whatever you like. we wont interfere with your affairs

[jiro]

>>I think that's it What is your impression of this girl?

she's cute.. lol. Not her fault by the way. Do you like a "wuss" kind of guy?


>>I think that's it What is your impression of this guy?

Ditto.. he's a wuss

[josh_ryanne]

I could be wrong but my instinct tells me that someone's in love with their bestfriend. hehehe

[Innosaint]

I could be wrong but my instinct tells me that someone's in love with their bestfriend. hehehe

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[josh_ryanne]

hmmmmmm sad. :mrgreen:

funny how people usahay search for love sa lagyo, they don't realize and notice na naa ra diay sa duol sa ila ang ilang gipangita. murag sa "search is over" ba sa survivor.

[JawBreaker]

well i'd say...
tell him of course, but be considerate.... coz right now he's blinded.

or maybe... josh_ryanne is right.
maybe you're the one who's blinded...
char!

[josh_ryanne]

hey how come another forum has a similar post

http://members.lovingyou.com/showthr...1&pagenumber=1

and the one who posted this is a guy. are you one and the same?