Are You Attracted to Someone More Similar or Different From Yourself?

[mighty_kid_05]

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wer very much different from each other. but i think ok ra jud kay we complement each other ba... example, super kaau ko ka tabian.xa kay hilumon...nya kung times na gae mag away mag yaw2 man jud ko.mu hilom ra xa. so that's the beauty of it kay dili mag clash ang among personality ba....

"opposites attact" but not true for all gyud.

[khymm]

hmmmm much better if you're similar...... like the saying goes "birds of the same feather, stick together" :mrgreen:

maybe not all simililarities but almost........

bitaw, agree ko ani.. pero depende raman na

[china25]

hmm, i never reALLY thought about this but i'd say its not an issue whether you both have the same personality or your personalities totally clash. For me, compatability is the key and its important that you complement and bring out the best in each other.


so as long as you can co-exist harmoniously, then your differences wouldn't matter. :mrgreen:

nasa pagdadala yan ng relationship.

[Innosaint]

My boyfriend and I are very similar. We have loads in common, sometimes it's even scary. But I love it, I've never felt more connected to someone as I do him. I can't imagine being with someone that I didn't have a decent amount in common with.

Not that we're always alike. We do differ on things. Like how we handle situations. If there's a problem, I'm the type where I want to talk it out, fight it out, whatever to get it resolved one way or another or I can't feel right whereas he's much more laid back and would rather take the "sleep on it, you'll feel better in the morning" approach. And yeah we've clashed sometimes because of it. There are also some interests we just don't have in common. Like he's very into games and gaming and while I like it to an extent, I'm just not a gamer and not that into it. And I'm an avid reader, and would prefer a good book over most other mediums and he hardly ever reads unless he has to.

I would say I'm probably more mature than him as well (despite him being almost 9 years older than myself) and it's pretty noticable, but actually that's one of the differences that I like that we have. I like that he's more childish than me, it keeps me more grounded and he helps me relax when I'm taking myself too seriously and can't realize it myself.

I don't think I could ever be with a complete opposite. Not that I'm saying it doesn't work, as I'm sure it does for some people but I need common ground otherwise I just feel awkward and lost with someone.

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[Fern]

ka korny


ana man gayud na!!! opposites attract.... ako...pervert pero akong ka fling fling nga chick conservative kaayu....and yet dawat niya nga pervert kow ahihiihihii ana gayud na ang gugma noh.....

PS; dili pa nako cya GF......

[Mabix]

ka korny


ana man gayud na!!! opposites attract.... ako...pervert pero akong ka fling fling nga chick conservative kaayu....and yet dawat niya nga pervert kow ahihiihihii ana gayud na ang gugma noh.....

PS; dili pa nako cya GF......

er, what are you getting at?...doesn't make sense

[earljahn]

bothways...

[dotskie]

a little bit of both.. hehe

[happyfeet]

ako... my bf and i are different in many ways.. pero naa sad mi similarities. so both lang.. balance.

i like him so much bec. he si SO SO patient, while ako, i have a volatile temper. then cya kay dili kaau seloso while ako selosa kaau most of the times. pero pareha man mi mubo ug kalipay then pareha mi naa mi mga dreams in life. and i think that's what make me so attracted and in love with him.

[fha]

im attracted to someone different from myself...opposites attract..someone who will compliment and who will fill something up things which i dont have... :mrgreen: