dae, puede rani nimo?

[Vihengz Strings]

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(akoa raning opinion ha)

ideal marriage: you marry the person because it's your CHOICE
I said choice not love
because when you marry, you commit
and commitment doesn't just involve feelings
it's a choice because if you don't feel love for the person you're still there for each other
that's IDEAL marriage

real marriage: you marry the person because everything is perfect
still not love
perfect because you think it's the right time
no one just marries for a reason of love
considering nowadays nga ngkalian lain lang ang circumstances sa life
real marriage involves security and long time planning before doing it

so I couldn't give advice
just suggestions
reflect on it carefully
i-consider imung self (pinaka importante imu jud nga kaugalingon)
then consider the child
and lastly consider ang guy (iulahi jud ang problema)
timbang timbanga
give it a time and give it a try (not for months but for years or more)
it takes time, a lot of time for the guy to change(sa iyang own willingness ha)
so choose wisely (mura'g mu botar ba)

[yvonne6]

thanks sa mga comments but this is not my situation. i just wanted to find out if my take on this matter is the same as others. much appreciated

[fern-pewee]

lalake ko pero di na pwede oi.. kauwaw pd na nga ako lalaki ako tambay nya ang babae ang ng work....yay! hunahunaa nlang unsay ika sulti sa mga relatives ug family sa babae....ang sa babae ayaw pd sa pa buros....kai adik2x bya na! good luck kung mkig ger2x ka sa ing ana nga status...

[AntitaniC]

I can only quote this... "Action speaks louder than words"

no more, no less.

[iGecko]

kun ako babay, mangita ko ug laeng mas naay sense of responsibility woi.

[_hizuka_]

drug adik? barkadista? tambay? unya makigminyo nimo? unsay gipaabot nimo na mahitabo? himala? ...

[Muchokoi]

nka agi ko ana TS..duha ra ang mka usab sa taw na ingon ana..its either love or lose..hehehe

[yvonne6]

not me because i perfectly know what i want and definitely not this kind of man. i know someone who has just started a relationship with this kind of man and they are now living together and the guy has asked his family to marry the girl. mao na, ga huna2 mi, mo work ba kaha ni ilang relationship.

[Crimson_Viper]

mag adik.adik nlng uy ug ma.o mn gani na

[yvonne6]

^^u mean, mag adik2 silang duha? or magpadayun ang guy sa iyang bisyo?