Should I Let This Bother ME?(edited with links to previous posts)

[InChaos]

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YES gihapon

[baby_jenie]

are u sure?
if ur happy then there shud me no doubt in ur heart dba?
dapat no questions asked na on ur side kay hapi man kaha ka?
now, il ask u agen...
ARE U RELI HAPPY deep within ur HEART

[InChaos]

uhmm lisora imo pangutana oi.. pwede next question? hehehe

btaw di ba diay normal na mo ask ko questions like the ones above? of dba mangita man jud ta ug security or gusto ta makahibaw ug unsa jud ta sa iya life, or plan dba? di ba daiy dapat ipangutana ning mga ingon ani? should it be just something na like let it flow?

tell me, what can i do? or maybe what should i do

[baby_jenie]

kabaw ka, ana man gud ni...
ang akoa ba dapat lang imo jud cxa i ask kung unsa jud diay imo bili sa iya life
kay sus pirti raba paita mo invest ug feelings then human...humantikaan diay to
prangkahi siya na u need to know d truth and u have the right to know the truth kay kamo man kaha?
magkadugay magkalalom na imo gbati towards her then cxa diay wala ra, dba mas sakit na? mao dont let her make excuses na kesyo mao ni mao na...
usahay rba kanang ingani na replies nagpasabot na dli mi sue sa amo feelings sa guys...sakit pero tinuod ni!

[baby_jenie]

age sa nimo beh?
are u still in teens pa ba?

[InChaos]

no. above 20's na me. im older by 6 yrs

i know na i really want to know these things. pero i dont wana make the impresion na gi pressure sya nako or namugos ko or something...

[baby_jenie]

no. above 20's na me. im older by 6 yrs

i know na i really want to know these things. pero i dont wana make the impresion na gi pressure sya nako or namugos ko or something...

wat do u mean older ka 6 years, sa imo gf older ka by 6 yrs?
namugos? how many months naman di mo?

[InChaos]

3 months pa tawn

[baby_jenie]

3 months pa tawn

nah mao diay...
now, bout sa imo post na shud this matter bother u..ikaw mismo u know na d answer and if ako imo i ask, il tel u na bothered jud ka bro!
sa imo palang username na g use, murag something not good is goin on in ur life sa karon..
the ex husband, u said na they are always fighting dba? hehehe...kami cge pod raba mi fight sa ako hubby. if they are not together anymre..if bulag na cla...y shud u keep the relasyon "secret", para unsa man?
are u super doper sure na she is not living with her hubby anymore?
naka adto naka sa ilha, even as an officemate lang?

[n`gel]

Naa ko follow-up questions:

1. Did the guy ask her to marry her and she refused?
2. La na siya love sa guy?
3. Are both their families hoping nga someday magpakasal sila for the sake of the baby?
4. Does she show you hints that she's still hoping nga ma-okay sila with the guy that's why she doesn't want her relationship with you become known?

I know daghan kaayo factors i-consider kay dili sayon nga sitwasyon but I understand why this is bothering you, it SHOULD bother you inlove gud ka and she's important to you kay ug wala ka ma bothered that means dili ka seryoso sa mo feelings para niya. She's truly captured your heart and for all she knows she needs to pay more attention to you than her relationship with the dad nga walay klaro coz I can see how much you truly love her.

When you said you don't wanna see her get hurt anymore I thought, that's the sweetest love there is. Kung masakitan ka when the other is feeling pain, kung ma happy ka when the other is feeling joy. She ought to see that InChaos. That's one rare love.