Why is love intensified by absence?

[farmboy]

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i don't know if LDR na imo or if one sided na, but, i do know how it feels to be yearning so much
it can even lead to depression
like having to cry almost every night over your pillow cause you know you have to move on,
remembering almost everything about him and even associating every single thing on him even if it's totally unrelated
and having to talk o your friends and interrupt them unconsciously by saying something about him
which reminds me mau ng sge kog pangaway diri sauna just to divert my attention
cause entering into that debate thingy would require me to read articles and hinder my mind from thinking of him lol

it's totally a very painful process
i even thought that if i endure the pain then it will eventually fade
or to a point that i have to keep on hurting myself until i will give up
but then it won't really work

and then seeing him happy with somebody else would give me that much jealousy until such time it made me realize that i will never be able to give him that kind of happiness...

i have to accept that it won't work
nothing can make it work

he is happy with her
he is unhappy with me
it can't be helped.

that's jut how it is
my purpose ended there

my life is not all about me
it includes letting people go and accepting defeat
and my life didn't stop there
i still have dreams to achieve with or without him

so don't be such a crybaby TS
it's not like you lost your body,
you just lost a part of you...
but you can still live

OMG.. I never thought I'd read a post of yours like this. I can not help but come out from lurking and say something.

.... so you accepted defeat?
because you see him
happy with another being?

[yiennahs]

OMG.. I never thought I'd read a post of yours like this. I can not help but come up from lurking and say something.

.... so you accepted defeat?
because you see him
happy with another being?

don't take it too literally,
i accepted the fact that he is better off with that girl because he is happy there
do you really expect me to beg just to get him back because i want to?
or to keep on pestering with their relationship?
lols, i'm not that kind
once a person is in a relationship with another, we should learn to respect their happiness and privacy
don't be that selfish to interfere even if you really love them,
it's not always about you you know hehehe

[farmboy]

don't take it too literally,
i accepted the fact that he is better off with that girl because he is happy there
do you really expect me to beg just to get him back because i want to?
or to keep on pestering with their relationship?
lols, i'm not that kind
once a person is in a relationship with another, we should learn to respect their happiness and privacy
don't be that selfish to interfere even if you really love them,
it's not always about you you know hehehe

in that case, i think you won

[yiennahs]

in that case, i think you won

unfortunately, i was not able to get his heart
but i really admire him for getting mine

OnT,
absence makes the heart grow fonder because you are able to appreciate what you had...
only then can you see the real beauty of love

[megle]

F*ck that Long Distance Relationship! Grrrrr! (bitter gihapon)

[farmboy]

absence is just too much of a pain
the mind intensifies the loss
the heart magnifies the emptiness

[kimleeKINO_choi]

Love love love...daghan najud nangabuang ani. Kaning gugma--gi-among pako! LOL
TS, that's life. Dawata nalang lagi. heheh

[kuyabog]

Love love love...daghan najud nangabuang ani. Kaning gugma--gi-among pako! LOL
TS, that's life. Dawata nalang lagi. heheh

si kim affected ani lab lab lab? unbelievable...

[rAiNe_]

same.. so hard...
Im in an LDR relationship and since he left(though naa ra xa Phil) seven months ago not a single day nga wala mi nag text or tawag..
lisod kaau labi na if naanad naka sa tawo. there were things you've shared together nga ma miss nimo.
sa ako side ultimo moagi sa bhaus sa ako bf sauna di nako mabuhat.. mingawon ko..
tanan nako buhaton makita nako xa,.
murag laay naman if wala xa, murag boring ang life.

ana jud ni xa bro, ang kamingaw ang nakapa intensified sa feelings nimo..
pero okay ra na, it will prevent you nga mag binuang.

[seagull]

dats da sense of da word 'I miSs yOu'