What to do? Guy friend nakabuntis!

[Missmary]

Bear in mind also that some girls delileberately get themselves pregnant to ensure financial support from the guy. It's a gamble that more often than not, backfires (guy walks away anyway, and she was left holding the baby). Tell your friend not to marry (if he is really feeling conscientious) unless he can prove the baby is his. Remember, there is no divorce in the Philippines and annulments are very, very expensive and di pa garantisado na it will get granted. There is more trap in marrying than letting the girl go through with out marriage. She knew what she was doing and she knows the risks. She gambled. Let her lose.

[Missmary]

so ang guy nga imong friend ang chinese? dili ang girl?

ok. ingna cya walay rason para mag minyo kng dli niya love. padulong ra gihapon nas bulag. uso na man tawon na ron nga mabuntis ang girl. it's not a question of cultures, it's a question of "kaya ba niya buhion?" if dli niya kaya supportahan ang bata -> minyoan nlang para mahilum. hahaha
pero kng kaya.. ayaw lang paminyoa, hatagi lang kwarta sige. hekhekhek

Agree on all points Surefire. Marriage to save her "honor" (if there was honor in the first place) will open a can of snakes and will only lead to further misery to both of them and the child, just like my cousin. Don't let him fall into this trap.

[tikotakz]

bigaon na na girl bro... wa tah kbalo dli nah iya.

[Missmary]

ingna nga mirisi nya ngano btaw ngpadala cya sa iyang biga.

Tinoud gyud! She probably thought your friend was stupid!

[poyshe09]

bigaon na na girl bro... wa tah kbalo dli nah iya.

^ Mao jud, ug usa pd ug minyo-an na sa imung migu nang bayhana basig ma tudjokan napud nag lain haha.

[ayki]

to make sure that the child is truly his, do a DNA test on the child. if it is his, then he can't do much but be there for the child... this doesn't necessarily mean that he has to marry the girl, but he does have to provide financial support for the kid since it is his responsibility as a FATHER.

[THE KID]

ingna siya nga akong i adopt ang bata..........

[Pandas.Box]

bigaon na na girl bro... wa tah kbalo dli nah iya.

Ana jud na. Ngita pa mi pamaagi para mahibaw.an if iyaha ba jud ang bata.

[Pandas.Box]

to make sure that the child is truly his, do a DNA test on the child. if it is his, then he can't do much but be there for the child... this doesn't necessarily mean that he has to marry the girl, but he does have to provide financial support for the kid since it is his responsibility as a FATHER.

Yup, ma.o sad na ako giingon.. Pero I think expensive sad ayo ang DNA test sa? But then again, bahala nag maguba ang bulsa kaysa maguba iyahang life forever.. Mas costly jud.

[Pandas.Box]

Agree on all points Surefire. Marriage to save her "honor" (if there was honor in the first place) will open a can of snakes and will only lead to further misery to both of them and the child, just like my cousin. Don't let him fall into this trap.

Sige lng, karma will take its toll on her.