
Originally Posted by
Chel Fernandez
because once we get hurt we become blinded of the other things that matters... we become too focus on the pain that we wanted it to end fast... and yet it cannot so some choose to end their lives... little did they know that if they choose to fight the pain and heal... there are more greater things than just the heartache...
one does not see reason when we are in pain...
and many of those cases have no one for them to help them to make it through... (when i say no one, i am not referring to those people who just pass by and think less of the situation but i am referring to the someone who will convince and talk to the person who are broken)
when pain is in silence it is most tragic...
Very true! I think the key is for the person to have someone to support them, hold their hand and be willing to listen during the break-up phase when the rejected person was in his/her most intense pain. Unfortunately, not everyone can have a very good and tolerant friend.