For me a crush is just superficial, more on admiring ra ni sa physical appearance of someone. Sometimes we admire a person tungod buutan, bright or kahibaw murespeto nya kung dili siya gwapo we wouldn't really call it crush. I don't know lang sa ubang girls
Para lang na nako kay akong mga crush mga gwapo man but I don't have plans or hidden desires to want to have a relationship with them. If ever one of them would court me, damn if I won't be flattered but it doesn't mean mu-jump ko into a relationship with him just because I have a crush on him (buhat rani sa mga uwagan)

Besides if I have a boyfriend, dili man mawala akong pagkacrush to whoever they are and the relationship won't stop me from admiring somebody I find attractive on the outside (lahi sad na nga storya kung lustful ka toward others, pasabot dili ka faithful sa imong uyab and your a big B!).
For sure the guys can't also help admiring girls who are HOT even if they are already in a relationship(naa na na ninyo guys if naa pa moy laing plano about your crush)! ahahaha naa na sad na sa girl kung lahion nimo ang pagsabot if your bf has a crush on someone or wala kay salig sa imong uyab and sa inyong relationship.