Bitter (Ex)Wife can't move on

[silogan_ni_siomai]

naa pa na siya sa denial stage... maabot ra na sa acceptance stage kadugayan..

[yvonne6]

we really cant judge the person for feeling that way. we were never in her shoes. we were not there to witness what really transpired. it maybe a defense mechanism of what she is going through, who knows. besides, there are 2 people involve here, the ex husband and ex wife. been in this situation so i can relate. my ex would make up bad stories about me to gain sympathy from people and people wont think that he is the bad guy. however, he can only tell his story to people who didnt really know what truly transpired. if i talk badly about him, its because its just the truth. i have all our kids with me, 3 kids with no financial support from my ex from day 1. does not even communicate, send text or card when its Christmas, kids' birthday or graduation. if i tell people about this, does it mean im bitter? i dont think so. so we really cant judge. just let them be and they are entitled to their feelings. in the first place, this is one of the most painful experience one can have. for those who havent been through this, its easy to say things. but for those who had been into this, we can all relate

[nitwit]

advice?3 WORDS- GET OVER IT!

[Jack_Ass]

[QUOTE=yvonne6;11172383]we really cant judge the person for feeling that way. we were never in her shoes. we were not there to witness what really transpired. it maybe a defense mechanism of what she is going through, who knows. besides, there are 2 people involve here, the ex husband and ex wife. been in this situation so i can relate. my ex would make up bad stories about me to gain sympathy from people and people wont think that he is the bad guy. however, he can only tell his story to people who didnt really know what truly transpired. if i talk badly about him, its because its just the truth. i have all our kids with me, 3 kids with no financial support from my ex from day 1. does not even communicate, send text or card when its Christmas, kids' birthday or graduation. if i tell people about this, does it mean im bitter? i dont think so. so we really cant judge. just let them be and they are entitled to their feelings. in the first place, this is one of the most painful experience one can have. for those who havent been through this, its easy to say things. but for those who had been into this, we can all relate[/QUOTE

I know my friend man gud Yvonne and i know she is just being pathetic. As in akoy gigubotan sa iyang life. Dili maminaw sa uban advises and mo end up na hinuon nga siya ang naa sa losing end. Actually, dili niya ipakita or ipameet ang iyang anak sa iyang ex-hubby mao walay support. Ang ex-hubby niya one time asked me, that was long time ago, nga if kabalo ko asa akong friend nagpuyo, unfortunately wala pud ko kabalo kay di pud mo tug-an akong friend. sometimes gani mag duda pud ko ani niya. haaay... if mag kina unsa pa gyud, mo duol or mo text nako kay mao ni, mao na. Naa pa gyud siya uyab ron, sorry about the term, kabit siya ron sa old guy nga pamilyado. so very complicated. no matter how many times ako sya ingnon nga pag move on lang and dalion niya pag settle aron wala nay samok. daghan pa sya ganahan buhaton para maka bawos....

[love_lorn]

Tell her to get over with it. Tell her to stop doing those things and just pray...

[yvonne6]

na, bogo ng bayhana oi. ngano gud nisugot siya nga magpakabit ug pamilyado nga lalaki? sus, ako, bahalag manghod nako ang guy kay dili mana sala sa Ginoo, pero never jud ko mopatul ug minyo nga lalaki noh. taas pa intawn akong respeto sa akong self, dili pud nako tagaan ug kauwaw akong mga anak oi. tanga siya, sige siya yawyaw utro pa diay to siyang hugaw sa tanang hugaw

[LeeLeePot]

hurted egos can be very dangerous

hell hath no fury like a woman scorned

i pretty much know who the wife is. heheheh! but yeah, to the ex-husband, you should research a counterpart for this oh-so-true quote... HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED. after all, pride is all that she got. what a pity.

[Jack_Ass]

na, bogo ng bayhana oi. ngano gud nisugot siya nga magpakabit ug pamilyado nga lalaki? sus, ako, bahalag manghod nako ang guy kay dili mana sala sa Ginoo, pero never jud ko mopatul ug minyo nga lalaki noh. taas pa intawn akong respeto sa akong self, dili pud nako tagaan ug kauwaw akong mga anak oi. tanga siya, sige siya yawyaw utro pa diay to siyang hugaw sa tanang hugaw

usa ra akong ma sulti ana yvonne, siya ang nag start ug post dinhi sa istorya and wala gyud siya nagpapugong... kabalo gyud ko nga ni tingog napud ang lain side mao habwa gyud ang hugaw ani... and nakabasa ko sa lain thread nga maka ingon gyud ko nga murag "siya" ang gipasabot kay pareha man ang story sa story sa akong amiga... haayzz... mao ni akong gi expect nga mahitabo... sorry sa akong friend but she made a very bad move here...

[Jack_Ass]

i pretty much know who the wife is. heheheh! but yeah, to the ex-husband, you should research a counterpart for this oh-so-true quote... HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED. after all, pride is all that she got. what a pity.

you do LeeLeePot yeah, sad to say, she's like that. miski asa pud siya work kay naa gyud siya kontra, miski silingan naa pud daghan. ako sorry pud niya, di napud ko ganahan makigkuyog niya sukad nahitabo na kay maangin ko....

[hanzheyteta]

lesson learned: don't tie the knot if you don't know the person well enough.

for the woman, move on nalang. better be civil with each other especially if you have children.