What to do about a daughter who has been doing NOTHING since graduating from college?

[BloGgerGurL]

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maybe she still doesn't know or she's still trying to figure out unsa iyang gusto nga work or career.

how many months na diay sya stambay?

[sui.caedere]

so the problem really is getting her to just... work? AND interview problems pud?

the problem is actually getting her to be a responsible person. kay karon, she just does not care about anything.

[sui.caedere]

maybe she still doesn't know or she's still trying to figure out unsa iyang gusto nga work or career.

how many months na diay sya stambay?

two lousy years!

[irishe]

sobra pas istorya.

mayta nagpakita efforts to make herself useful sa balay, or pang apply pero wala man. we have internet connection at home, pero maski browse and job hunt wala gyud.

anime nuon ug downloading movies, expert ni sya.

TS, try nalang kaha paputol ana inyo internet connection kay mao mana iya gikawilihan pag ayo gud.. ang iya attnetion naa ra anang internet.. mao ra nang storyaha anang mga studyante nga di nalang mosud sa klase kay magsige ug internet.. mao na halah putla daw inyo internet tan awa ug epektib buh.. heheh..

[twistedANGEL25]

When diay ni grad ang imung daughter?

[sui.caedere]

TS, try nalang kaha paputol ana inyo internet connection kay mao mana iya gikawilihan pag ayo gud.. ang iya attnetion naa ra anang internet.. mao ra nang storyaha anang mga studyante nga di nalang mosud sa klase kay magsige ug internet.. mao na halah putla daw inyo internet tan awa ug epektib buh.. heheh..

naa pa man gud sya manghod nga need internet so we can not be without internet connection. besides, dili na ko maka post diri ana.

[nongski]

2 YEARS?!

My real-life solutions:
1.) Go to the Gym - maka-alive-awake-enthusiastic ni siya sa tao.. I tried going to the gym everyday katong ga college pako.. grabeh. I used to sleep late kay mu duwa man pud ko pero sugod ga gym ko, murag 8pm tulog, nya grabeh ka sayo mata, mga 5am. PERO, ALIVE, AWAKE, ENTHUSIASTIC kaayo ko.. mas gana pa ko mu kaon, mas "happy" pa ko.

2.) A wise professor told me atong summer, "Being an example is the best sermon." Pero mao lagi, if dili gyud mu tagam.

3.) Cut her "addiction". Maybe addiction na cya. Dali raman mahibaw-an if addiction. Remove what she normally uses nya mu withdrawal nya cya. And that crucial moment is when you talk to her kay vulnerable naman cya ana. Pero talk in a non-threating way.

4.) Enroll her in a Master's Degree program?

5.) COMBINE ALL THESE!! XD

bitaw, TS, grabeh ra pud nang 2 years.. even for me who was a bum too after graduation. Maybe she has a relationship online or something bah.. with a guy or sa internet ba. Also, the internet can be filtered man. You can filter out the sites para the sites she visits, dili cya ka sulod.

[zrach]

First, was she the one who chose her course or did you pick it out for her? She might not have the motivation to do anything because she wasn't the one who chose her life path.

[sui.caedere]

When diay ni grad ang imung daughter?

last march 2009.

[rubz_bix08]

igo man pud koh ani....it has been 2 years pud since i graduated but within those 2 years i was in and out of a job and had 1 business....and now tambay pa jud koh....and karon la pa pud koh nang apply kay gusto kog job na nahan jud koh and kana di ra koh mo resign dayon....

umm ts since that 2 years la pa jud xa nka work bisag once? try to talk to her nicely lang and help her discover what she really wants to do....