how do you react?

[:: UnKnOwN ::]

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the question is, why would he kept it from you? why not go with him/her? if he/she won't let you.. then by all means dump him/her! you don't wanna find yourself on the losing end, do you?

[deadlock]

honestly ill think nga unfateful cya sa ako why cant tell the truth kung wla cya dautan nga gibuhat.......mag freak mao mana ako problem dli ko kahibalo mo baliwala og inana nga situation

[gangrene]

hmm..? what would you feel to your gf..or bf.. he...she going out in a night out such HALO or wherever.... lain iya pangahid and will go home earlly but she...he.. didnt and you got worried but she.... he.. didnt text nor call until you give a call and find out she.. he.. is in that place.. what would you think? or react?....

ooppss, igo man akong bana ana oi.... well. he's what happened sa amo....
he said: i'm going out with my colleagues...
i said: ok, i can't go, can't i?
he said: no, it'll be an all boys nyt out.
i said: ok, wat tym wil you be back?
he said: around 11, i can't stay late coz i ahve to be early for work tomorrow...
i said: ok, just txt me when ul be back. i'll open the door for you...
he said: ok. see you later honey...

after a while, i woke up in the wee hours of the morning knowing that he's not home yet. so called his cell.... no answer on the first call... still no answer on the second call... then i finally got a reply on the third...

"hello" a FEMALE voice answered (take note: i can't hear anything on the background)....
i said: who's this?!!!!
he said: oh, that's me, y are you calling
i said: don't change the topic, i swear i heard a female voice answering your phone...
he said: what are you talking about, r u dreaming there's no one else here except friends....
i said: ok, let me talk to your friends..
he said: they're already asleep....
i said: LIAR!!! your up to something! you can never hide that from me!!!!
he said: are you nuts? you don't really trust me, do you you're sooo selosa.... you never give me a chance to be with my friends.... blah blah blah.....
i said: now it's all me? you come home right now! let's talk this out!
he said: i can't, i'll go home early around 5:30.....
i said: B*****IT! you stay with your bitch in your whole lifetime... and don't try to bother me or your kids again! let's call it quits!
then i hanged my line... never answering his calls.... so he texted me: " DON'T LEAVE, we'll talk"

he returned home in a short while.... but we never talked. he slept in the next room and left early for work that day....

2 days after the incident, i finally got my shot (some anonymous angel gave me a very good reliable tip. so i set up a trap. i know the girls name so i pretended to be her (using a new SIM).... all the while he thought it was her (ha! ha! ha!)..... and i finally got my proof....

after that i took all the liberty to "take a leave of absence" (with my kids of course)..... he panicked, cried and vowed never to have extramarital affairs again....

as with the girl? we met (on my leave of absence).... i advised her to leave coz it wont do her no good.... she says she can't coz she love my husband.... i threatened to get legal actions if she won't (making her license void of course...), she was not threatened, instead raised he voice against me...... what did i do? I SIMPLY SLAPPED HER AND POINTED A FINGER AT HER SAYING "WALA KAY K KAY KABIT LANG KA!!!"....then i left the store where we met.....

[rhonex]

well we have a lot of things to talk about be sure to answer me frankly or else.......

[unofficialplayer]

gangrene

wow. what an experience. thank u for sharing. must be hard for u.

[gangrene]

yep.... quite hard at first, but i learned to rationalize.... and i learn a lot from that experience

[AVriLRockZ!!!]

depende.......hinuon makalagot jud most especially dili motubag sa calls or wat...

[greystoke]

tsk.......maybe dili ka nya love......muo ng....ngita sya ug lain reason.....hehehheh..
or maybe biyatch lang gyud sya...

[Greyfox]

You can forgive - but to forgive someone doesn't mean you have to take up all his crap again again and convince yourself that nothing is happening. LEAVE that guy oi. you're too good for him.

[Lord_Ac]

Bcin higpit ra kaayo ka sa imo GF/BF? Maybe that's why mangilad nalang?