Whom should I give my heart to?

[bowee]

PS...

I think the 3 year itch in your relationship is slowly eating you... and making a distraction to a new feeling isnt worth nga ebaylo lang nimo inyong 3 years (sa imong BF)...

Make and rekindle the fire that was there before sa imong BF, TS... kuwang lang ninyo ang FIRE sa inyong relationship to bring it back... and again, Entertaining a new FIRE... WILL NOT solve the problem... It will just burn you in the end...


Cheers..!!!

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Is the new guy worth it? If let's say, you and your new guy end up together can your conscience justify your actions, your choice?

Will you have peace of mind and disregard the thought that you hurt the guy who stayed with you through thick and thin? How will the people, your supposed families, react? are you ready to face the consequences if ever?

If you think you can/will then do what makes you happy, but that happiness might be temporary. Whatever your choice is, make sure that whatever the result is you won't end up blaming others but yourself.

Give your heart to someone who deserves it, to someone you cannot live without.

[akosabni]

if you can't decide, i suggest you let the 2 guys meet. introduce your bf to your IT friend/crush. your bf knows what to do, if he wants to win you back.

[beyee]

It's understandable what you're feeling towards the IT guy coz it's a fresh new feeling and the "kilig factor" makes it more appealing to you whereas the feelings you have for your partner of 3 years are somewhat "comforting and familiar" -- en toto, no more ooomppft and the kilig is no longer there. That's why it's inevitable that what you feel for the IT guy somehow is building up coz YOU TEND TO NOURISH IT instead of channeling it to a "friendship and platonic" zone. What's worst, you start to bicker on the trivial stuffs you have with your partner -- lesser time with him. Unknowingly, you are using this in a negative way which causing your gap now with him. You fill in the void of missing your partner through self-gratification by entertaining this IT guy. To take away the guilt, you justify it by saying, my guy has no time for me and this IT guy is giving me all the attention blah blah blah...

Let not the new feelings overwhelm you too much TS coz you're the only one jeopardizing your relationship with your guy who's been there for you all this time. Let not a simple dilemma hinder you from being creative in rekindling the passion between you and your guy. You're lucky that you only have TIME as a prob whereas the others who are into LDR, they worked so hard to work things out amidst the time and distance. So keep your act together and not blame it on time. Adjust to the new sked and be more OPEN to any trials in your relationship.

God bless, TS and your partner.

[nijazared]

All you need to do TS is ignite the fire once again- a good weekend escape every month would probably be a good idea...
I've been in a similar situation before, and I was in your BF's shoes, my GF left me for the new guy, and it never really worked out between them, my ex-GF then tried to get back with me when it was already too late...But who knows, it never is really for us to say since anything cannot happen.
Just ask yourself, would you rather start all over again because of your crush? Are you prepared to throw away 3 years away? Are you ready to throw away what is proven and tested and go for an unknown?

[ArCkz]

Your embracing ur weakness

[schizophrenicpanic]

Kahibaw na imung NEW GUY nga naa kai BF (for 3 years)
madugay mapareha na ani nga thread ae.. https://www.istorya.net/forums/love-i...ml#post9916255

dapat pahibaw-un jud lagi na nato atong mga maamigo, ma close or mawhatever kung aduna ba tay mga kalambigitan. Sus, batia jud ana oe... ilis lang ang 3 years abi man wa nay time for each other like what you had before? ingun ana na diay na ron? tsktsk...

[Iamalbertrebs]

This is the weakpoint of youre relationship, its up to you whether to embrace it or fight it

[Moongoddess28]

TS, do you really LOVE your BOYFRIEND?

If the foundation is strong, then it should not be ruined just like that. =)

[raizo.wizzy]

stay away from temptation.....