Unsa inyong buhaton ani?

[Sol_Itaire]

whether pakasal mo or dili dapat buhion na ninyung duha inyung anak.

[Morcego]

saboti lang na ninyo TS..kung di gyud ka pakasal be sure u can provide sa needs sa bata puhon.

[madwolf]

Well....you can get married and finish your studies. Though its NOT that simple because of your obligations but you have to. Ngano man intawon nag padala man sab mo sa gibati? Nimabdus man jud then face it. Be a man. Even if you'r not ready but you have to.

Sa time nga inyo to gibuhat, inyo sad untang gihuna-huna unsa consequences. tsk tsk tsk.

Imo nalang jud na pakaslan kay looy ang babaye then you have to work/study hard because your going to be a father soon mao nay reyalidad sa imo sitwasyon ron.

[kaZzzPer]

This girl was my 1st love but nka uyab ko ug lain coz nag buwag me for a year but nag balik meh karon kay 1 yr ug 7 months meh sauna kay 2yrs...i love the girl and she do love me buotan cya ug nka graduate na cya ako wla pa...gusto cya pakasal meh kay para wa nadaw ug samok ug storya para mag puyo nalang meh...but di pako handa financially kay gusto nka if mkasal di dinalian insist cla na bisag huwis lng daw said sa iyang father..but di ko ganahan pa kay nag skul pako ug magsalig gihapon sa ginikanan..my plan is ang baby lng sa unahon pagawson then after na mo decide palipason sa tanan ipa kalma sah..but ako gf sge hilak kay sge cya sultian pakasal kay basin daw bayaan nako...libog kaau..I do love her but im not ready to all but 100% will support the baby..

i just want to tell you that you're like making excuses by the way you reason out. i still don't understand why dli ka magpakasal even sa huwis ra kutob. you said you love her and will support your baby 100%. is that sugarcoating? to me your talking about yourself as a full pledge husband and father or just plain talk? i'm telling you this para maka defend ka in front her parents. i think her father wants an insurance from you that you are the father, that you will support, etc...

offer something concrete like [fill in the blanks] we will get married months after i graduate on ____ and save ____ (amount of money) for the wedding occasion. ug uban pa. (if parents will support everything - i say your just making excuses kung dli ka magpakasal)

in short, make yourself convincing and honest. cya nmn kaha ang babae sa imong kanabuhi, kung naa kay pagduha2x, mao na ang problema.

[Saickiek]

imu nang gibuhat so panindigi migo! nanu btaw kompyansa kaayo ka.hehe .V..

pero naa rnah nimu. its your Decision. Pero huli bya ang pagsisisi bai.HAHA

basin malain nuon na imung uyab mangita nag lain naaah. tagam ka anah.xD

[clickstart]

i just want to tell you that you're like making excuses by the way you reason out. i still don't understand why dli ka magpakasal even sa huwis ra kutob. you said you love her and will support your baby 100%. is that sugarcoating? to me your talking about yourself as a full pledge husband and father or just plain talk? i'm telling you this para maka defend ka in front her parents. i think her father wants an insurance from you that you are the father, that you will support, etc...

offer something concrete like [fill in the blanks] we will get married months after i graduate on ____ and save ____ (amount of money) for the wedding occasion. ug uban pa. (if parents will support everything - i say your just making excuses kung dli ka magpakasal)

in short, make yourself convincing and honest. cya nmn kaha ang babae sa imong kanabuhi, kung naa kay pagduha2x, mao na ang problema.

ok bro thanks for commenting...I will think all about it and plan well..

[Saickiek]

i just want to tell you that you're like making excuses by the way you reason out. i still don't understand why dli ka magpakasal even sa huwis ra kutob. you said you love her and will support your baby 100%. is that sugarcoating? to me your talking about yourself as a full pledge husband and father or just plain talk? i'm telling you this para maka defend ka in front her parents. i think her father wants an insurance from you that you are the father, that you will support, etc...

offer something concrete like [fill in the blanks] we will get married months after i graduate on ____ and save ____ (amount of money) for the wedding occasion. ug uban pa. (if parents will support everything - i say your just making excuses kung dli ka magpakasal)

in short, make yourself convincing and honest. cya nmn kaha ang babae sa imong kanabuhi, kung naa kay pagduha2x, mao na ang problema.

kamao jud oh! HAHAHA nice 1.xD

[Tre]

matawag ka ug gago ana kun imo talikdan imo responsibility bro imo mana gi tuyoan so panindigi..

[cjmagowan]

well... i'll be honest, if pride and respect would pursue then marrying her is the only go. but think of reality and logic. in your situation right now, it might be an excuse or not. marrying in not so ready or completely not ready stage would not be the best option.

I think it's better for your families to sit and talk and set alternatives since both of you are still studying. it's better for anyone of you to get on with your studies. Like you said your are going to support the baby anyway and your family is somewhat willing to support the baby for you. Get a job and think of marrying later when all is well. be practical and logical. marrying later doesn't mean you are going away from your responsibility but setting a better example on how you are going to support your own future family.

for short: marriage is not the answer to your problem, instead another question for you to find answers. and the problem would go on after that. So think before you act.

[reginakrys]

Guys need advice for this..Buntis akong Gf karon for almost 2 months na nya nkahibaw na iyang mama ug papa ug akong mama pud...then gusto sa iyang papa na pakaslan nko akong Gf ,,but im stil not ready pa kay nag skwela pako im 22 yrs old my Gf is 21 ..ako unta plano kay kng mkahuman na ug mka trbaho..kay wa tay ikabuhi pero ang bata supportaran man namo mo tabang akong mama..need ba jud na pakaslan dayon guys even di pka ready kay nka buntis na?

pls give your comment on this...thanks

to answer your question.. NO, dli need pakaslan dayon just because nabuntis.. but i have a question for you.. do you see her as your lifelong partner? and does she see you the same way? if so, wala ra man tingali problem magpakasal mo.. pwede ra man magcollege nga married.. pwede ra pud civil wedding lang kay dli kaayo gasto.. and of course your parents would understand the situation nga nagskwela pa ka, so they won't expect you to be financially independent na.. plus it gives the girl and her parents assurance pa nga you'll be there jud and desisido jud ka to stick it out with her..

pero if you have doubts jud, ayaw nalang sa.. sturyai lang tarong ang girl and sabot mo sa inyong plans.. then sturyai inyong parents unsa inyong plans..

by the way, kinda ingon ani pud among situation before.. but akong parents wala namugos (heavy hinting lang.. lols).. kami duha ngdecide nga pakasal mi and we have our plans for the future..