Is there such thing as CONDITIONAL LOVE?

[edgeknife]

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this topic reminds of a song "somebody" by depeche mode. if you listen to the song very well, it's like he/she wanted to share, share the rest of my life. Pero it found out that dili pa jud diay ready for a relationship. it's like ganahan siya sa tawo but medyo magmahay siya once na-iyaha na.

So, I believe there is such thing as Conditional Love. Sometimes hindrance kaayu ni.

[if_i_aint_got_u]

i feel bad for you @Tess... pero sagdi lng oi... yaw jed pagukod ana lakiha... naa pa lage daghan dha!!!
YES... naa na jud ni xa karon.. ive been to this and until now... ang nka lahi lng sa akoa ang condition mn gud-- d xa mo commit nku for he dont want my life to be complicated as him... im stupid jud noh!!! (he's married, separated but not legally).... chaonz, luv lge... and i dunno if, im still waiting for him or waiting to fall out of love on him...hahaaaaaaaay... ka faet jud ani ois...

[Chiwawa]

maybe...

[punkLOVE]

Yup.. thats the sad reality of it all.. bec. really LOVE dont mean changin who you are to be
who somebody wants you to be.. having to live up to somebodys expectations.. or conditions so to say..

[radj]

heheheheh.. like me! im picky!.. so its PICKY love.. heheheh..

[radj]

pero once ive picked... hihihihi... semi-unconditional na... semi lang oi.. lisud kaau nang purely selfless type of love..

[tess2006]

i feel bad for you @Tess... pero sagdi lng oi... yaw jed pagukod ana lakiha... naa pa lage daghan dha!!!
YES... naa na jud ni xa karon.. ive been to this and until now... ang nka lahi lng sa akoa ang condition mn gud-- d xa mo commit nku for he dont want my life to be complicated as him... im stupid jud noh!!! (he's married, separated but not legally).... chaonz, luv lge... and i dunno if, im still waiting for him or waiting to fall out of love on him...hahaaaaaaaay... ka faet jud ani ois...

to if_i_ain't_got_you

wala man untay problema... we are both single man unta... wala pud siya'y gf.. all i want is a relationship for the mean time.. commitment in a gf/bf relationship... dili magminyo na... mao na dili gyud ko kasabot sa dagan sa utok niya sahay... kung magkita mi, we do things only gf/bf would do..ang gusto lang nako, we will make the relationship clear and official...that's all...

[if_i_aint_got_u]

to if_i_ain't_got_you

wala man untay problema... we are both single man unta... wala pud siya'y gf.. all i want is a relationship for the mean time.. commitment in a gf/bf relationship... dili magminyo na... mao na dili gyud ko kasabot sa dagan sa utok niya sahay... kung magkita mi, we do things only gf/bf would do..ang gusto lang nako, we will make the relationship clear and official...that's all...

pareho btaw ta tess... we also do things like gf/bf stuff... kpoy bya jud kaau na nga sitwasyon... wala mn pud ko ngdemand nga "mgkami jud for the rest of our life"... nahan pud ko at least... kana naa pud "commitment bah"...but d xa oi.. aw.. i have no choice... keep waiting to fall out of love or waiting to be mine... arggggggg.... wer 6 months doing this..but ingon ani ra jud mi permi until now...im just waiting for the time na, fade akong love ani nga guy and i find sum1 whom i can call mine... gkpoy ug kpoy pud ni nga sitwasyon oi... d lalim ni gugmahaaaaaaa.... ahehehehhe!!!

kaya lage ni natu tess... lets volts in.... bwahahahaha... yaw na hilak dha.... alkanse nka daan... imo pa jud hilakan...

[junmar4]

WALA. If conditional man gani, it's not love.

[seaferry]

Love is unconditional.
so there's no such thing as conditional love.
Maybe the guy didn't want to take risk yet.
But don't give in whatever he does to you w/out
making your stats official.
Be wiser than him.
Don't make things easy for him para ma challenge
siya. that will make him think again!