manghilabot mo?

[epoaxlan]

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advise lng but if d maigo sa advise aw wala natay mahimo ana..

[schizophrenicpanic]

Let Mother Nature Take It's Course....
Matod pa sa The Beatles.. LET IT BE!!

[arvinbenitez]

kong friends jud mu ana nila, try lang to advice them, talk to them, but dont impose something nga kinahanglan nilang buhatun... dili naman na sila bata para but-an sa ilang gusto.. kahebaw nana sila kong unsai sayop ug kong unsai sakto... para if ever naai mahetabo nila, wala ka nag kuwang sa imong pagka amigo...

GOD BLESS US ALL...

[TEDA]

ask for confirmation lang sa
been there, done that

lisod itago...
lisod pud hilabtan..

LISOD ITAGO - kai syempre friends gd. then for almost 24hours na mgkuyog, syaro di mkbantay. pero for me, as a girl sa kanang "rumored relationship" well, mas nindot nga mangutana jd mo directly. dili kai tubayan pa ang uban storya. bati man gud. FRIENDS gud. wala man sai mamatay kung mangutana lang

LISOD HILABTAN - obviously, its none of our business but kai lage friends, mas ganahan ta nga himutang sila ug wa silai msakitan lain taw. but how can we tell whats right or wrng if at the firs tplace, we want our friends to be happy and by that alone, they are happy for themselves.

[cassiopeia]

leave them be. its not your problem.

[davidsky]

pasagdi na cla basin happy cla ana hehe

[davidsky]

pasagdee cya...........

[areukiddingme]

storya lang mo..dili man cguro na panghilabot..pero kung feeling ra nimo na naay sumthing..yaw nlng..unya na if a confirm na nimo bout nila duha

[sHenZee03]

There are many ways to get your concern and messages through to them without giving them advice which they don't want or maybe need.

If I were in your situation, I'd simply ask both of them questions. And I'll leave the thinking/realizing part up to them. So I'd ask them the following:

1. Are you both still in love with with your gf/bf?
2. Would you do anything to hurt them if you do love them?
3. Would love mean hurting other people just so you can show others your love for someone else?
4. Would you rather let the one you love go so they may move on and love again or would you rather let them suffer day by day because you'd rather keep the one you have been loving and the one you're loving now?
5. Is it really love that you feel right now? Or are you just confused because of the distance?
6. Would you choose to lie in my face and your other friends' faces so you can hide whatever it is you are hiding or would you rather come clean and slap us with the truth?

Afterwards, I'd say "I'm not making judgments or saying anything. I'm simply asking questions you guys might be able to relate with."

I have been in this scenario before and all I did was confront both of my friends with similar questions until they cleared their heads and decided to be just friends because they were just overwhelmed with how great they blended with each other's personality. What may have worked for me might not have the same results with you but it may be worth a try. It all depends on how you play with words that will eventually make them spill the beans.

[tatajhun]

bro pasagdii nalang na cla kai wala kai labot ana nila gawas kung imong relatives or igsoon ang ilang kauyaban.