friends or lover? asa ani nila?..tabang!!!

[yenice]

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dle mn sa mahadlok ko ug pili nla..

ang aku lng ky d ko gnahan masipyat ..ug mgmahai n d end sa kong mga gpili..

[emow]

sis, what are you trying to accomplish? to get back with the guy? or to get over him?

personally, i've been in a similar situation before.. my friends were anti-bf.. but i stuck it out with my bf.. only to realize 4 yrs late that my friends had been right all along.. sometimes, your friends can give you a clearer picture of the situation.. kay sometimes blinded ka by love..

but you save yourself a lifetime's worth of what-ifs....

[emow]

dle mn sa mahadlok ko ug pili nla..

ang aku lng ky d ko gnahan masipyat ..ug mgmahai n d end sa kong mga gpili..

i see...then simple ra kaau imu buhaton...pag toss ug coin... it seems you can;t decide it yourself man... masipyat man gyud ta sis...dili gyud na makalikayan... you should stick it out with ur ex first... discover him more... its alright ra cguro with ur friends, its only you making it hard... save yourself from what-ifs... you could be mistaken..but you could also be right....

[reginakrys]

but you save yourself a lifetime's worth of what-ifs....

right, that's why i made the decision to stick it out.. i was only trying to make a point nga sometimes your friends can be right regarding the advises they give you.. they see things that you yourself cannot realize..

[reginakrys]

to answer the question on your thread title, you don't have to choose kay your friends SHOULD be there no matter what..

[Daiquiri]

Your decision TS, Weigh things accordingly then decide.

[yenice]

mau pd lage na ang problema nku..
nag libug ko f should get over with him bcuz of my friends or to stay with him because of my feelings..
f i should be selfish not valuing the efforts of my friends pra lng mka get over ko nia and be with him, or give my friends the credit, and leave him...

[reginakrys]

mau pd lage na ang problema nku..
nag libug ko f should get over with him bcuz of my friends or to stay with him because of my feelings..
f i should be selfish not valuing the efforts of my friends pra lng mka get over ko nia and be with him, or give my friends the credit, and leave him...

if you choose to stay, you should make sure both of you are willing to make it work.. dli kay one-sided lang nya ikaw ray ganahan makigbalik.. ayaw lang pasagad ug go just because your heart tells you that's what it wants.. think hard if naa ba jud future inyong relationship.. and for you to be able to think clearly, it might be a good idea to distance yourself usa from the guy para ma-lessen ang strong emotions that could lead you to faulty decisions..

[sushikandi]

Nganu dli man ganahan imung barkada sa imu bf? Imu diay barkada ang uyab sa inu bf ts? Nga ikaw man.

[THE KID]

huna2a og maau dai...f deserving pa ba balikan ang imong bf.....its not ur barkada hu is going to decide...its u....ingon ana man jud ng uban barkada...mo laban dayon sa amiga...without thinking sa side pud sa laki...i evaluate sa og maka au pa ba nga mgbalik mo...f dili na jud...aw...i love u goodbye....