What if dili ganahan ang parents sa imong boylet or girlet nimo?

[Githyanki]

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hahahaha.. bitaw... musuol man sad usahay gud... di kaau masabtan... i believe i did the best i can to please them but it seems not enough...

Find out why the mom is acting that way. Maybe it's not you as a person, maybe it's something that they symbolize you as. No matter what you do, if you don't find out the root cause, everything will be for naught.

[Sand Man]

What will you do if you've been in a relationship for quite awhile already but somehow can't get along with the mom of your partners? how will you deal with it and what will you do?

Basic rule in courting -- at least sa mga sinaunang panahon -- is adto jud mi mamisita sa balay sa babae. (Very common sensical, and you can play this to your advantage.)

And the first rule sa suitor is to win over the mom of the girl.

Ang papa man gud sa babae usually inig lingkod nimo sa sofa tutukan jud ka (either directly or pinakilid na tutok), then interbyu portion -- taga asa ka dong? kinsa imong papa/mama? ga-eskwela ka? moinom ka? -- then human ana lingkod ra ka sa sofa in silence. You know very well na even if wa jud sila gatan-aw nimo, you are scrutinized from head to foot. Very tense uncomfortable experience.

Pero once sige na man ka adto, you become familiar to them. Then kung naay occasion invited na ka. Then usually naay inom hagaron dayon ka sa papa ug tagay. Siyempre, mo-object imong uyab (kay sa iyang nahibaw-an di kaayo ka moinom), then moingon iyang papa "OK ra oi. tan-awn nato asa ni kutob imong uyab". Siyempre sad, dapat kamao na ka moda ug alcohol (ibutang sa tiyan, dili sa utok, etc.). So typically kay edaran na man ang papa so dali rang nahubog. Knock down. Tulog una. Gasuka pa gyud... ikaw pa jud ga-agak pasud sa ilang balay (pogi points).

Ig balik nimo sa ilaha amigo na kaayo mo sa iyang papa. Pwede na dayon nimo ingnon "Saman ka? Gikatulgan man ko nimo!"

Pero ang pag win over sa mama. Very difficult. It needs tandem effort from you and your uyab.

Pero I tell you -- once ma-win over nimo si mama humot kaayo ka (bisan pa ug di mo close sa papa). Ug naay okasyon sa ilaha, si mama pa mo-una² ug ingon na ipa-invite ka. Then once makahibaw si mama na mamisita ka, lutuan pa ka ug spaghetti nya ang manghud na lalake sa imong uyab mao pa ang suguon papalit ug Coke!





How is it with the courting style nowadays? Naa pa ba mamisita sa balay sa babae, or murag pina-Amerkano style na ron?

[cookiepie_rescuer]

Find out why the mom is acting that way. Maybe it's not you as a person, maybe it's something that they symbolize you as. No matter what you do, if you don't find out the root cause, everything will be for naught.

uhmmm... how will i know why she's acting that way? i mean how will i know the root of her actions?

[Githyanki]

uhmmm... how will i know why she's acting that way? i mean how will i know the root of her actions?

Ask your partner. But choose your words carefully.

[Sand Man]

Ask your partner. But choose your words carefully.

Duda ko aning TS dah.

Let's iron out some facts: TS, these are serious questions -- Are you a boy/man/male? Also, please name an actor na may-ong nimo ug facial features.

[areukiddingme]

tsk!..complicated if thats the case...but based on my experience, sakto bya jud ang parents....

[ronchiejames]

looking from the point of view of your parents and based on their experience... ingon ana na cla, kay nakakita cla og something nga wala nila mauyoni... you cant blame your parents they are just looking after you, they always want the best for you.

[kimleeKINO_choi]

maglisod ko ani nga thread dah...hmmm... ipakita lang jud sa mom niya that ur intentions for her daughter are true.

[cookiepie_rescuer]

indeed.. lisud jud cya... i mean, sa pag deal sa attitude nga in ana... lisud jud cya kaayo.. hehehe

[nilbud]

bahala cla ang parents f pwed layas lang