she left me for some other guy...

[KASAAC]

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...sad story, pul-an na guro ang babaye pero ang nakaparat lang kay wala nya tarunga ug sirado ang inyong relasyon tsk tsk so sad bai, padayun nalang bai ug ayaw na lang lingi-a ng pait nmu nga kasinati-an

[orochimaru700]

ingon ana gyud na ang relationship ts, dli gyud permi sweet, naa gyud na sour. Kung nibuwag nmo ug kalit without explaining, 4 sure gpul.an na. Just move on, pasagdi nlng to iyang style nga dali r kau sa panahon, g ilisan daun ka, that's definitely a 'biatch' attitude! Tsk tsk. . Divert yourself into things, hobby nga mka palipay nmo and especially imo limtan cya forever. .

[pablingz]

TS, im really sorry to hear about sa imu relationship.
Only one thing ako masulti nimu TS, just move one and ayaw na pag expect na magkabalik mo. i know lisud, been through that before with my ex na 3.5 years mi...

i know na sayon ra au isulti na move on but lisud jud na buhaton... just think bout this TS, after a month mo nagbuwag nag entertain dayun siya ug lain, that only means na naka move on na siya, let go of her, mingle with the opposite *** BUT NEVER engage in a relationship if di paka ready, luoy sad baya ng himuon nimu ang girl ug panakit butas... sakto na imu gbuhat TS na gi busy nimu imu self sa work and with ur family and friends,maka help jud na to ease the pain.

just feel the pain TS, mawala ra na in the end. there's no way that you can beat the pain that youre feeling right now so better feel it. thats how i able to manage the break up with my ex.

derive pleasure from pain...

hope you'll be okay ra nya TS.

[cody_bigz]

lisuda baya jud aning part na kalimtan oi... kai bsag unsaon nimug kalimot... naa na jud nahabilin na scar sa dughan...bsag unsaon ug busy.. naa jui time na ma hunahunaan nmu xa... ang ako lang.. let time goes by and start with a new... kai paets.. cge kag pilit sa past. dli ka move on.

lgi brod, kalit2 kau..ana jd bsag unsaon nko di jd ma wa sa huna2..

[cody_bigz]

yes prolly na pul-an na cya nimo thats why..things happened for a reason.at least nakabalo naka while 3 months pa after break up..try to accept thngs lang gyud dear...keep busy.go out with friends and change your number if pwede para d ka cgeg long nia bah...

it is hard pero u have to do it.life is too short, focus ur attention on others things na worth it.

along the way you will meet a lot just take it slow.

thanks sa advise, actually mao pd na g.ingon sko mama atleast it happened now nga sau2 pa..im starting to accept the things that happened between us but i dont know how to move on and let go or if there's even such coz right now i really don't think so mka move on or mka let go ko ani...

[laura]

salamat sa tambag bai...o cge mi ug away a2 nga tym murag halos di nami mgka sinabot, pro dba sa tanan relasyon naa mn jd na ang away. for me its jst a matter of patching things up and dli jd rason pra mg buwag, aw bcn sakto ka gi pul.an njd cya nko..ive been trying to forget her but..easy to say..so hard to do.

ana jud na xa bro . .basig napul.an 2 xa nga ng cg mo away . . . think positive nlng nd pg partey!ky sooner or later mka limot ra ka nd u would even say na kalood nko..trust me .. been der!ahhhaha

[cody_bigz]

girls perpective here : I read your thread TS and murag na imagine jd nako ang imong mga gi pang write. na sad sad ko . Na bored lang jd tingali to xa TS sa inyung relationship. Basin clingy ka nia? dili bia mi nahan ana. We want independent men who can make decisions on there own. We dont like someone nga sige lang pananghid. ( at least for me !!) Basin imo xa gi tuok ug ayu sa relationship? basin controlling ka?

Ako bitaw jd panan.aw sa girl: NA BORED NA JD XA.

thanks for the time reading my situation and for the empathy, lgi sad jd kau..

m not clingy mn in fact i make the decisions most of the time not just for myself but for our relationship as well..

i dont think so na bored xa coz by that time we just celebrated our aniv, it was okay and we had fun, things went well, ok jd kaau 2 den kalit lng..

wa sd cgro xa na tuok oie kai sugtan mn nko xa mg laag ug inom kai ka agi pd bya ko ana k2 ng skwla pko so kasabot ko nya, we have the same school pd, lisod amo set up kai ng work nko xa skwla pa so im not w/ her all of the time...

what happened was she asked permision nga mg inom cla, i agreed and told her just to go home before 11pm kai curfew na sa ila bhws, babae bya and i want her to go home sa sakto nga oras and di sd ko gnhn ma sirad.an xa and ad2 m2g sa bhwas iya classmate. i ddnt txt her pra d xa ma samok and so that she wud enjoy..i txtd her almost 11pm na to reminder her of the time and to check on her, she ddnt reply, di ma contact iya fone..d following day na xa ni txt mga udto na and she said na lowbat dw iya fone, kadlawn na sila na human ug inom and dd2 na xa na2g sa bhws sa iya classmate..

xempre ng duda nko kai nganu wa mn xa ng remind nko nga padung na xa ma lowbat and how would i really know asa xa na2g and what happened..ambot di ma likayan mg duda..so ng away mi a2 and she broke up w/ me kai gusto sa dw xa mg lingaw2..paita! sayop ba ko a2? am i being higpit a2?

i trusted her so much and at times i was complasant coz i know shes good, buotan xa but after what happened i never thought shes the girl that she is right now..grabeh dali ra kai xa ka puli, ing.ana lng ka saun pra nya..

[mar_cebu08]

ei....bigzie...i never thought this was really serious....murag okay ra man ka gud when we are at the office and when we are hanging out..tama jud suggestion sa mga estoryan...(previous comments)...dapat you have to let it all out...like u cry it out dude...

just enjoy ur life...ingon pa man nila...its not ur loss...if the girl just know how much u love her...u deserve someone better dude...kanang mo treat nimo fair and mo love pud nimo d way you love or even more...just dont rush things...i know moabot ra na nimo...

mag ride man ta ds weekend..let it all out bro...bisan mga bugal bugalon...kanang uban nato mga barakada..i know deep down they are concern sa imo.....there is more to life than this one...or than that girl...

[cody_bigz]

bahak! nahinomdum nalang ko sa ako mga utang dah.
ana jud nah, halos taan muagi jud anang mala soap opera nga sugilanon sa gikabuhi, aw! kinabuhi diay. pang handumanan sa usa ka awit.
seriuosly, "it's her lost, she doesn't know what she's missing."

haha mao jd sakot ka bai...tambagi ko noy kulas!

[cody_bigz]

bro ive been through this.... and i can tell how hard it is to move sum ppol even take years just to move on... y?... its because they wont let the person free from their hearts.. free from your self... let go bro... it is hard but you have to...

if for her its over... or yeah maybe na boringan na xa... lets just say ingon ana.... give urselves time bro.... as our fellow istoryan said get ur self bc.. and stay away from things places and songs u used to hear or sing... pero even if 100% we do this avoidance believe me when its goin to get into ur brain and heart(ur memento's/memories together) it will get u...

just pray bro.... and have faith (dili c faith nga taw ha)

i know u were left hanging in the air until now... maybe it isnt time for her to tell u things and maybe for her ur not ready to hear those harsfull words... 3 years bro isnt long mura rana 3 hours sa hands sa ubang gurls... think magbuwag man gani na nag golden anniversary na.... or 4 years nang uyab...

bilog ang mundo bro... explore give ur selves time and freedom... ur hurting and i can feel u man.... be strong dude-dong...... ur not the only one hus feelin the same pain as of now .....

ya have to let go bro... let go and move.... try it...

thanks brod..very much appreciated..maybe she did'nt have the courage to tell the truth to me but i still want to know the truth than to go around in circles..at least if kbw ko sa tinuod i know where to got and what to do..simple rman unta kai ko ka storya mka sabot rman unta ko...aw iya pud to..