First Cousin Relationship

[ryoken]

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it's legal in other countries, many countries consider cousin relationships...i have no problems with the legal issues, we can migrate to other country accepting cousin relationships..the only issue i'm struggling right now is the acceptance especially with my family...

[ryoken]

i'm accepting the fact that it might be puppy love..hehe, but the feelings were so strong..can it be puppy love? still confused..

[I-lab-Iero]

Your regrets do sided with your feelings at the moment,
I'm so sure that both of you will fail if you wish to place it aligned with society,
for it is not really acceptable, it is as simple as that.
Then what life is there in store for you and your cousin.

The feelings now is so overwhelming,
it is dedicated to the wrong person,
then if it is erroneous from the beginning then it shall be until the end.
and your kids will also suffer on such an error created,
and it will be very painful, no uncles, aunties, grandpas and grandmas for them.

[hobie]

Strong feelings can be so deceiving, that is why our brain is situated over the heart para di ma clouded with strong emotions from the heart

[ryoken]

i don't want to conclude right away that it would be a disaster until the end.. if there is really a true family then no matter what storms they will always be there no matter what unless if there is no strong bond between them. There have been many cousin couples like us who had the courage to admit to their families, at first it was really hard, their family are against it but they still fight for it, they had normal kids, later on their family learned to accept them, i have read so many stories about cousin couples, and it gave me hopes. but i can't hide the fact that criticisms do discourage me and made me confused at some times..

[ryoken]

i know many of you would disagree because you don't experience this kind of situation. i understand and respect your opinions. but now, i only knew the fact that i'm inlove with my cousin, and we're more likely to fight for it. but i'm still having doubts. hope to have a sign!!! i want a sign from God if he's letting it..i know He has plans, everything that happen to us has reasons that only God knew. sometimes i'm thinking why it happened to me, before it didn't even come in to my mind to have a relationship with my cousin, it's like a whirlwind..

[I-lab-Iero]

The problem is you already have each other's identity and it's known,
storms are mishaps created naturally, but feelings need to be created and nurtured,
it is simply man made. It is quite very difficult to justify if your family is to be consulted
they will be forced to sacrifice dignity if they would agree.
In society we also preserve what so called chastity, integrity, good virtue in order
to be respected.
You place the entire family in such a very awkward predicament.

[ryoken]

i know many of you would disagree because you don't experience it. sometimes i think why it happened to me, i never thought of having a relationship with a cousin. everything that had happened to us has a reason and only God knows it. i k now God has plans for us..i want a sign!!! A sign from God if He's letting it. as of now, i only knew the fact that i love him so much and we're willing to fight for it.

[ryoken]

thanks for the advices,, i would consider them,,i'll just let time pass by and hope someday i could decide the right decision for me.

[ryoken]

Requesting you might want to visit this siteCousin Marriage Resourcesi want to know your opinions about the topics being discussed there,, maybe you could change your mind and might agree with me..hehe, i realized i have no companion here, all of you really disagree..hoping someone can defend me..but thanks for the opinions anyway...