He can? Can't change?

[black_mamba]

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dawata xa kung unsa xa.. ayaw anang change2x....

[Genocide]

Bitaw. kong unsa ang pagka ila ninyo mao nana.

[ain]

One common problem with the social environment is that you perhaps fear what people may think if you make change. Well, in my experience people are seldom as harsh as you think they will be. They are most often supportive or simply not that interested/neutral to you making changes.
People are most often focused on their own goals and challenges in life. Or what other people may think of them. You are not the center of the universe.

[treize]

People change when they CHOOSE to. No matter how you WANT to change, if you do not make the conscious choice, then you will not make that change

Agree with this, but change isn't that easy. One can only acquire this by being mature, and maturity can be acquired through bad experiences or failures... My POV.

One common problem with the social environment is that you perhaps fear what people may think if you make change. Well, in my experience people are seldom as harsh as you think they will be. They are most often supportive or simply not that interested/neutral to you making changes.
People are most often focused on their own goals and challenges in life. Or what other people may think of them. You are not the center of the universe.

Nice post.. I've read that here... 6 Reasons Why People Don’t Change, and What to Do About That

[maddox_pitt]

still depends on the guy himself..we can't force someone to change for us..it's not healthy..they should do it for themselves...

[jimmy128]

I like how nikki points out that you can't change a guy by becoming his lover.

[kurdapia.nikki]

honestly.. i don't know what it is with some women who insist on changing their men. peace ms TS. .. it's a universal issue man.

my thought is that: just let them go through their course. they will change when they see a reason to and, as jimmy says, when they choose to change.

Says there on my post that WOMEN CAN'T CHANGE MEN.

I like how nikki points out that you can't change a guy by becoming his lover.

Thanks.

[jimmy128]

Says there on my post that WOMEN CAN'T CHANGE MEN.



Thanks.

Based on experience?

[kurdapia.nikki]

Based on experience?

Yes. I had this 2nd ex of mine. We were 3 months back then.
He was a bad guy. Hehe. Really bad.
Kanang DOTA jud. Cutting classes.
Then I influenced him to join some religious activities.
Cause I was inclined with it man.
So yeah, invited him.
And after that 3 months of being his girlfriend
GRABEH! in 3 days sa retreat na usab sha!
like whattttttttt?
3 months vs 3 days?
grabeh

[jimmy128]

Yes. I had this 2nd ex of mine. We were 3 months back then.
He was a bad guy. Hehe. Really bad.
Kanang DOTA jud. Cutting classes.
Then I influenced him to join some religious activities.
Cause I was inclined with it man.
So yeah, invited him.
And after that 3 months of being his girlfriend
GRABEH! in 3 days sa retreat na usab sha!
like whattttttttt?
3 months vs 3 days?
grabeh

I know what you mean. God is good (For those who don't believe, ayaw nalang comment)