What do you think about this?

[rAiNe_]

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sis i think di ra ni mao imo issue..
murag naa man guro ka lain na thread about sa imo husband japon if my memory serves me right..katong hubby wants annulment thread..
murag dghan naman au kag issue ana imo bana ui..

anyway, istoryahe imo bana.
ingna di mamuyboy kay pag minyo nya nimo wa man ka nag papretend na datu
unsa binuybuyay diay ni ang kaminyuon, di bah ug unsa naa niya imoha na sad, vice versa? i mean sharing bah..

boyae na sis ui, ingna nga ug di nya kaya, datu man kaha cla pakuhaa xag maid moatiman sa anak..

[kidlovejeayanne]

first, let me start by asking you a question, karon ra ba ni gihimo sa imong bana nimo? if permanente na ni nya ghimo, then you have some grounds of leaving your family and your kids..

Second, the humiliation you got from your hubby doesnt deserve any utmost respect to you as an individual at all, warrant at least by law.. it's total disrespect to you as a person jud.

Now we go to the core of your relationship. Your husband belittled your capacity because your marriage to him in the first place might not be founded on a strong bond of love at all. Perhaps it was just because you might have gotten pregnant and he was force to marry you right then and there. But whatever the odds are, he doesn't and in no way insult your capacity to insult your moral standings or your family background. He might have had this mental attitude already that you married him for his family's richness and sorts of.

Now, in respect to your husband, we really don't know the two sides of the coin unless he can also presents his case here as well, Perhaps your husband might have fed up already with your 'too personal beckonings' that have irked him to force his long hidden ill-wills for you in the long run.

Whatever the case maybe, moving forward, I would suggest you talk to your husband and still work this relationship up.

There are too many broken families nowadays that the reason falls only to being TOO PROUD for each other's comfort. I am not saying though that you concede and bow down to your pride. All I am saying is if you can talk to each other as a decent and respected individual that you both know of each other before, then perhaps it's never too late to say sorry at all again.

The fact your husband said sorry to you, means he has accepted his faults. It would be your end of the bargain to mirror yourself as well to ask yourself also if you have done something bad also to him, and to correct your mistakes as well.

Again, work this relationship if it can be work out.. if it can't be anymore.. it would be your choice to decide eventually..

Just remember, there are no BEST advices or GOOD advices here in this type of problem.. It would be your HEART and your MIND, that would eventually later on makes or breaks the problem.

pang Noy Kulas kaayu c sir bowee oh.. thumbs up!..

[Blackjellybean27]

I learned my lesson the hard way, just like you TS. I learned that we shouldn't rely too much on the guy we married and trusted our lives with. Dapat naa jud ta atoa savings, and earnings, etc.. because that's the only saving grace we have if things go wrong. at least naa ta magastos for ourselves.

[jonz]

i think wala pa mpul-an imong husband being single.... pila nmn diay inu edad.. dili dyd na sa edad ang pg mature sa tao.. mostly women mature more than man at early age and vice versa in some cases.. women ang emotional and man are logical, dreamer... bsn wla pa ka get over imong bana sa single life before you get tied up.. wala pa cya ka let go being single... Im not yet married but Im practicing of letting go of a single life ky hapit nko ma minyo..its expanding responsibilities .

[luke0917]

sis, kuhaa nlng ang mga bata den pagsabot nlng mo sa imo husband, lisod na ingon ana kay mgce jud na pang boyboy nmo, even if mubalik ka niya, maboyboy ghapon na sa iyang nahatag nmo.

[bellah]

kuhaa to imo mga anak oi....nganu man d-i wala kay bana,kaysa mag antos ka ato niya....

[gbzane]

Get the kids and leave him to die. anyway, naa man iya mama mo atiman niya. the devil lies sa mga ginikanan nga instead motabang sa mag asawa nga mag uli, mo sulsol na hinuon aron mag away, magbulag.

[jangska]

think b4 you act mam. consider tanan possible nga butang inyo anak ug uban pa. pero kung di na gae mada kuha nalang ang mga bata nya biya.i imo bana.

[Tirong-say]

I concur,
It's just a simple misunderstanding, that he ended up ranting those very foul words.
it would be inevitable that a more complicated scenario would occur in the future,
and then what would happen next?
In that situation I guess what you need is just a simple apology and mere TLC
I guess that would settle things up, but he ended in the wrong way.
His mentality is way beyond what a husband should be.

[elf]

kafaet sad aning imung sugilanun sis woi... biyae na kay faet kaau ng mag antos ta labi na in.anang klaseha pag ka bana....