Would you allow your gf to go out with her friend's male friends?

[Sanosuke]

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Well, depende man gud na sa tao bay... For me, I allow my gf to go with her female friends, but going out with other males which you don't have any background, depende pod sa situation.. If it is for business, or work related, ok ra kaayo nako. Pero if just lingaw2x lang, like laag2x, d ko mo sugot bay... Lalaki gud ta... sometimes, labi na if chicks ang babae, mo trip paman tang mga lalaki gani bisan naay BF ang girl...

Naa pod uban mga chicks, kay abi lagi dugay na sila sa ila BF, mo kiringking jud ang uban... Pero if mao na jud na ang batasan sa girl, then we can't help it na diba? Tanan problema ma solve man siguro sa eksakto nga storya...

[jugs_06]

@visionplus:

i agree with diem.. sometimes it's just a matter of maturity dude.. or maybe because your gf didn't expect you react that way hence, the negative reaction from her..

[visionplus]

@capt, thought about that bro but, i was just trying to get her to see the view from where i am. i don't think doing that makes me rude. and trust me, what she was expecting was a positive response from me. she was almost like just letting me know about it as if they're on for the ride already. that's why i thought what i did was better than asking her instead not to go.

for sure she would be riding with someone from this guy's friends, so this guy will of course have time with my gf's friend. just to be clear, i wouldn't mind if she'll ride with any of our friends, or our friends' friends. but not with somebody she would've just meet. especially on a trip like that. that's an issue with me.

@Sanosuke, yes bai if its business, work or anything as long di laag2x never would i be reacting like this. and to think this guy is not even her friend really, they just got acquainted coz of a college friend.

@jugs, yeah maybe i might need some tweaking with my way of thinking afterall...

thanks sa comments mga bro, keep 'em coming...

girls pwede mo mo-enter diri para naa sad mi views coming from you. thanks...

[diem]

As for me, its okay for my girlfriend to go out with her friends and their other male friends but I'd warned her to be careful though.

Just remind her about that don't let the drunk drive, don't go drinking too much or don't accept any drinks because they might have sleeping pills or rophynol(roofies).. there are a lot of bad guys out there who use the face of friendship who are shallow enough to take advantage.

I have the miserable honor to be related to someone who's been a victim of such an experience.

[captpoloy]

@capt, thought about that bro but, i was just trying to get her to see the view from where i am. i don't think doing that makes me rude. and trust me, what she was expecting was a positive response from me. she was almost like just letting me know about it as if they're on for the ride already. that's why i thought what i did was better than asking her instead not to go.

for sure she would be riding with someone from this guy's friends, so this guy will of course have time with my gf's friend. just to be clear, i wouldn't mind if she'll ride with any of our friends, or our friends' friends. but not with somebody she would've just meet. especially on a trip like that. that's an issue with me.

well bro, i would say its all about trust. and when you really trust someone, you have to be okay with not understanding some things. you may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you do not trust enough. i think this is what is missing...

[visionplus]

as i've said, it's not my gf that i don't trust, it's the other guy. the other guys that all of them girls also don't even know. you're still right about my trust issue, but i think i might need a little more time to learn to trust these guys.

[visionplus]

@diem, that's one of the things i'm afraid bro. my gf going out with someone she doesn't know, although they'll be going out with a couple of friends. still i'm not comfortable with that idea.

i'm sorry to hear about your friend bro. sometimes, there are just instances that i feel the need to doubt somebody's intentions.

[sæmunder]

Hell noooo

I just don't trust them

[Streetcar]

I have a somewhat strict principle when it comes to this. I for one, a lady, will not be going out with other men, especially strangers i do not know. I am not used to that. I will only go out with a boyfriend and no one else. With lady friends, that's alright by me. Not with men. If i have to be out there with other men, my bf has to be there with me too.

[Ms.Beau]

i totally agree with you, visionplus. you have a valid reason to be concerned. it's just too bad your gf doesn't see any danger in what she's doing.

i suggest you email or write her a letter explaining your concerns. and pray also that she'll come to her senses.