i love my husband like a wife should, but i love you like a lover would

[cptn_star]

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this is sugar coated CHEATING.

[victoriassecret]

@KASAAC: murag lover boi kau ni sya... hehehe..

i would have the same advise sis... sort out nalng your differences than add more problem to your problem... I had this same stage... pero I just opened it up and found ways to bring back the spark again... ga uyab uyab mi ron sa ako bana in short

Age is just a mind over matter - if you don't mind it, it doesn't matter

[Jul142009]

the way I see it, the feelings you got for your husband is because of the respect you got for him knowing he is your husband.. the feeling wherein you are oblige to be a wife ofcourse... while with the other you are feeling what you wanted to feel and that other person is making you feel young again.. (really necessarily means to age ok)

but, I guess there are sometimes wherein a relationship becomes a routine... seems like to be a lifestyle anymore rather than of a feeling already. it tends to be there.. your partner is there and you too but deep inside you know that its the feeling of being scared to be alone or being scared to start all over again the reason why you still with that person.. Or maybe you just dont wanna hurt that person but in the long run you are hurting him already...
should and would are two differnt words..
hope you sort it out.. hope I am right with what the way I understand your post.hahaha

yes sis, "should" is relative to being obligatory, while "would" is more on being natural and true to oneself.

[r0mm3L]

love like lover? u mean lain?

covetousness this is a sin

kong naa paka sa mid east ani, stone to death naka ani

[Jul142009]

this is sugar coated CHEATING.

you are on autopilot sir? pls check ur chart, perhaps you are off course.

[kensh1n]

you are on autopilot sir? pls check ur chart, perhaps you are off course.

TS. Nice reply to Captain..
Just rekindle your gf-bf moments with your husband.
Do what you both do when you were on those days.
It may sound awkward but give it a shot.

[Tirong-say]

Teach your husband how to become the lover that you yearn for,
kung DMD, then make your lover your husband,
you cannot have both at the same time, you must give up either one
of them.

[Jul142009]

Teach your husband how to become the lover that you yearn for,
kung DMD, then make your lover your husband,
you cannot have both at the same time, you must give up either one
of them.

u dont waste words boss. thank you.

doing as suggested will hurt and destroy so many souls around us. we can not do that so easily.

[epoaxlan]

forget about the lover and concentrate on being a wife to your husband instead..

[Tirong-say]

u dont waste words boss. thank you.

doing as suggested will hurt and destroy so many souls around us. we can not do that so easily.

Yeah agree,
that is why we have to be strong sticking to the right way,
so that nobody will ever get hurt.

Clinging to a principle of becoming a very ideal wife
I think is such a very nice strong point.