need your opinion guys,, please lang ayaw nang binuang.thanks!

[more than just a talk]

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thanks sa inyo opinion guys! it helped me a lot

[more than just a talk]

ts. dili mana sala sa imong gf kung dili maau ang iyang upbringing. what is important is how she is as a person karon. can u choose your parents? no!! if u r just a kid, can u be on your own? no! but no matter unsa pana ang nahitabo sa una if ang taw nga involve gusto mo change and make a difference in her life, possible kaau ni. mao na ang importante. kever ug unsay isulti sa uban taw. mag depende ba diay nila ang imong kalipay. im one person who doesnt have very good childhood memories, it affected my self confidence a lot pero i strive to make it different, and i am now. higugmaa lang gyud na siya pag au ug ayaw binuangi kay maluoy sad ka, halos iyang life pulos na lang sad events, lipaya pud. goodluck ninyo

thanks yvonne parehas diay mo experience sa una.. nasulbad ra man ta ni iyang depression if iyang gi sultian tanan tawo nga nag hatag nya ug kasakit ang problema pero mahadlok cya mu confront..na trauma na cya since bata pa..

[tJc]

first of all bro, despite everything you knew about her, her past etc.. YOU CHOSE HER! Everything is a matter of choice.. no matter what others may say, at the end of the day it's YOU who matters.. it's your life.. and if your family really loves you they will not stand in the way of your HAPPINESS.

No matter how jaded, or flawed her past was, the fact that you still chose to be in her life speaks volumes of how much LOVE you have for her. Love isn't only about seeing the good in someone but also seeing through the bad.

If you know in your heart and mind.. that's She's the one for you, the one whom you'd want to spend the rest of your life with.. waste no time in making the rest of your life start right now.

Cheers!

[more than just a talk]

sakto ni ilang mga tambag bai... kamo man ang magkuyog sa dayun, so, ayaw na huna2x ang ipang storya sa uban tao.. kay kana sila, wala jud na cla mabuhat...dili gihapon na sila mo appreciate nimo kung mas maau nga girl ang imo pakaslan.. mangita gihapon na sila ug bati.. pasagdi nalang na sila.. ang importante kay happy mong duha...

thanks sa imung tambag bos..

[z3robeLow]

bwahahahahahahaha....
abi nako unsang problimaha...
parents ra diay..
non - issue naman ni brader oi.. sori ha..
sa laktod pag storya, dili ang imo parents iyang pakaslan, ikaw..
kung love gyud nimo siya ayaw na pg huna2x kun unsa man gani ang reaksyon sa imong parents ngadto kaniya..

basta tambag ni butong... mao na na! +1 ko ani;

[hunyanggo1977]

advice her to approach a professional. and be with her during the entire process. in that way you can show her how much u cared and how willing u are to assist her. then after that, with the help of a professional she will heal and learn to accept her past...

[Klave]

Nindot na imo bro, hinog na kaau imong love para niya.
You may just be overconscious kay you may be missing the sad times. (Yes, some people are like that)
Naa gyuy type nga tawo that likes to care for people, that's why they fall for the more troubled ones.
I can only say you have a good future, your resolve is very strong, perhaps stronger than most people.
A strong resolve is so evident it touches people's souls.

[more than just a talk]

advice her to approach a professional. and be with her during the entire process. in that way you can show her how much u cared and how willing u are to assist her. then after that, with the help of a professional she will heal and learn to accept her past...

we already did that bos, pero kulangan pa cgro iyang session ky magbalik2 ra iyang depression. ug wla ko ma depressed cya.. sabtonon gyud ni akng uyab bos.. mubalik cgro mi ug session.. we just need time for her to heal all the wounds of the past.. lamat sa advice bos.

[more than just a talk]

Nindot na imo bro, hinog na kaau imong love para niya.
You may just be overconscious kay you may be missing the sad times. (Yes, some people are like that)
Naa gyuy type nga tawo that likes to care for people, that's why they fall for the more troubled ones.
I can only say you have a good future, your resolve is very strong, perhaps stronger than most people.
A strong resolve is so evident it touches people's souls.

agree ko nmu ani bro.. dli ni kaluoy akng na feel nya kundi love.. ive known her for quite a long time.. inside and out kblo nko sa iyang kinaiya.. sabtonon lagi usahay. dali ra manlu-od

[cheesiee]

if you really love her and you're afraid to loose her then it doesn't who she was in the past. you said it yourself everything was the past. what matters is NOW. people can't judge her of who she is; and it's nice to know that you have accepted her whole heartedly w/out thinking what's in it for you. BASTA ikaw ang magpakasal niya and if your parents wont like what has happened in the past sa iya.. FIGHT FOR HER. you guys have been thru so much. and it's worth fighting for you man pd. =)
goodluck !