I need your advice on my one-sided love

[makie]

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There are some people with natural charm and they could really make somebody of the opposite gender fall so easily and seemingly effortlessly. However, the thing here is that you should never let your emotions rule over you and instead of concluding that you're "in love with him". Take note, the more you think that you're in love with him, the more you'll fall in love.

Think why are you attracted to him so much. You might say that it's something unexplainable but think and analyze more and deeply, you'll just realize the reasons why you're so drawn to him. Is it because of some of his actions? His character? His looks? Or maybe just simply because you share a lot in common? If you could pinpoint it, think if it's deep and reasonable enough to consider it "love". I tell you, normally, it isn't and it's just infatuation.

Take note, the more you think about him, the more you reinforce your emotions about him. Instead of daydreaming, focus your attention into something else more productive and don't let your emotions get the best of you but at the same time, enjoy your time and whatever level of friendship you have right now. Who knows, he'll be drawn to you too sooner or later. If you want some tips on this one, maybe I could share a few to help you but be sure to know your limits especially when it comes to relationships.

[d_designer]

ayaw lang palabi gurls...go on in your studies...

[monrayz69]

babae mn sd gd ka sah?? ky kun ako ana?? sulthan mn nko! para mapagawas jd bah?? lisuda sd gd kun babae tsk tsk

[bheymine]

Normal ra na sa imong edad.
ayaw lang padala sa tama kay sigurado ko dili pa na love.
hormones ray nagdictate sa imong mind at this age.
and every 20 minutes these hormones rushes to your body.
so you think you are in love
but you really are not.
it is just a bunch of chemicals running around your body
which if not fully understood--it will you confuse you as having a feeling of being in love.

everybody goes through that stage.
ignore it.
mao ning daghan magminyo og sayo tungod ani.
abi nilag love pero dili diay.
pero ulahi na kay sayo man nabuntis ug sayo nagminyo.

ayaw sag enter dai!
imong trabaho mao ang pageskwela.
dili lalim sa imong ginikanan ang pagpaeskwela nimo.
eskwela osa gyud,
ayaw sagulig bigabiga ha!

thanks for the advice MR. I really appreciate it.

hmmm nainlove naman pod ko b4 and wala man ko nagpabaya sa ako studies and wala ko plano nga magbinuang ug skwela or pabayaan akong pag skwela tungod lang sa love. I can handle myself man pod. labaw nga wala pa sa akong thought ang pag-asawa or magkaanak this time kay I know dli pa right time. I just like/love him. that's it.

pero thank you kaayo!

[bheymine]

babae mn sd gd ka sah?? ky kun ako ana?? sulthan mn nko! para mapagawas jd bah?? lisuda sd gd kun babae tsk tsk

yah babae. mao ni ang lisod sa babae kay awkward pod kaayo ug ikaw manguyab or muadmit sa guy nga inlove ka sa iya!...

[bheymine]

ayaw lang palabi gurls...go on in your studies...

thanks... yah i know my limitations man pod. studies jud ang priority nako...

[bheymine]

Suwayi kuno pakigmeet nko ug pakigkita nko prmi, bcn mausab imong hona2x...
kung cya genteman, aprochable, nice, friendly and inteligent, ako kay sincere ra intawn. Saman? waiting for reply hehe..

Hahahaha I'm not really into that kind of thing... kanang makig meet meet specially if wala ko kaila. hehehe pero thank you kaayo sa reply...

[bheymine]

to everyone, thank you kaayo....

[bheymine]

knock-out... Official na. Sila na jud.
the least I can do is to be happy for him... (ok cge malipay nalang ko)

[Rajzh_niX]

sometimes we misinterpret our feelings and generalize it all up....so in your case, wag padalos2...enjoy the friendship first and maybe kung unsa imong mafeel mwala ra sad....coz kung ang lalaki nimatch sa imong "ideal man", you will always fall for him that you sometimes neglect kung unsa sad iyang laing batasan or traits...and maybe you'll somebody much better....