what if dili ka bet sa family sa imong bf

[rAiNe_]

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dapat ipakita nmo nga worthy ka.. everything will be alright..

[yanix101]

dli btw iyang fam imng minyoan

Korak!!but its so sad man gud but dont have choice,wait na lang nga molabaw pa ko nila siguro in that way ma accept nako nila.

[yanix101]

dapat ipakita nmo nga worthy ka.. everything will be alright..

yeah thanks for the advice gurl...wait na lang ko sa right time and maybe theirs a reason y in ani aki love story karon.

[yanix101]

you have to prove to them that your worth it for their son. Work hard and do good deeds heheh

yeah..ana na lang jud tingali no choice and prove to them na mali ilang mga nakita nako and deserving ko sa ilang brother.thanks for the advice friend.

[yanix101]

Just be urself and let them discover the true you... U don't need to fake anything.. As long as u stay together sa imo bf and permi mo magkita sa family sa imo bf. magkapikot man inyo distance ana until they feel comfortable with you. sa sinugdanan ra na or kng mangigi ang parents sa imo bf, dawata nlng sa... they just wont allow their son to end up on some garbage. so just prove urself that ur worth something.

Dont be discourage.. there is HOPE in everything.

but how?n ever since wala pa nako ma meet iya family but i know nga dili ko like coz of her x gf na doctor na close friend sa iya sister.so mas feel jud nila ang doclor than me.still hoping that one day ma meet nako iya family but at the same time mahadlok sd jud ko ma meet tungud sd lagi nga naa nami gap sa iya sister.huhuhu

[emow]

you may have to adjust to your bf's family as you will let them slowly get to know you.... you may have to fake some moments to try to cope with certain situations. Fake enough not to come out totally as a different person.... It always helps if you will put effort in trying to win affection of his family...just little spontaneous things that would make them fond of you....in time, they will fall in love with you.... at the same time, your bf should try to win the hearts of your family.... if you feel you did all your best and they still won't accept you, then just accept that fact but still continue to love your bf if your relationship with him is still good.

[cjmagowan]

but how?n ever since wala pa nako ma meet iya family but i know nga dili ko like coz of her x gf na doctor na close friend sa iya sister.so mas feel jud nila ang doclor than me.still hoping that one day ma meet nako iya family but at the same time mahadlok sd jud ko ma meet tungud sd lagi nga naa nami gap sa iya sister.huhuhu

don't compare urself sa ex sa imo bf. ever person is unique... I think before ka mu.face sa iya parents ky develop sa nmo imo trust and confidence ky if u try to be somebody during the meeting sa iya parents... mugawas kag trying hard ug plastic pgka.tao. mao to niingon ko nmo na just be urself. dli mana tungod kay doctor,abogada,dentista,nurse ka ug uban pang mga propesyon dha mas maganahan ang parents sa imo bf. unless kng ang family sa imo parents is matapobre or just craving for wealth. then mka.ingon ka na u wont fit with them ky d man ka ka.level nla. what i mean is u dont give a crap to those families nga matapobre ug ngitag datong.

so mao na... maybe u can talk to ur bf about it. he should be able to help u with that. and i dont think ur bf would allow things to happen to u that would give u a bad reputation man ...

and just be friendly and show respect f mag.meet nmo sa iya parents. that way u should earn something and they might even like u there and then.

always remember : to have a successful and happy relationship and marriage. ur not only building a relationship and ties to ur partner alone but also to his family and relatives. its like when u get married u are not only marrying that person but the entire family and clan.

[shey0811]

be yourself... but also learn to be sensitive to their feelings..sometimes you would go to the extent of being a politician..after all, you want to show to the one you love that it's not only he/she that matters but also the family she is from. this way respect is fostered as well as trust between you and your partner's family...hope he/she does the same to you...

[bowee]

they say 'blood is thicker than water...'

the family is always be the family.. nomatter where, how and what you do, they would still be there...

if your bf's family doesn't like you, then don't force yourself in one.. Don't strain or have the effort to please them because you would just end up on their eyes as a pathetic individual trying to win their hearts and favors...

You know the best advise is the advise that you and you alone can follow...

If you think they really won't accept you.. then by all means, leave your bf and entertain another guys...

it would be useless to love someone yet the people behind that someone doesnt love you in return...
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Always remember....

YOU ARE BECAUSE of WHO YOU ARE

[portal]

luoya pod sa gurl oi if biyaan niya iya bf bisan love jud niya tungod lang sa iya family...........what if d i b love jud sa guy ang gurl.....dapat iya pod ipaglaban iya gf oi.........sus ma accept ra man na sa family bha later on............ayaw lang pod pgpaka trying hard na e please sila.......sagdi sila na dli nahan nimo........someday ma realize nila na worth it pod d i ka sa ila anak......harhar