is it over?

[joan624]

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unsa mana nga issue nga permi ninyo awayan? issue ba jud kaha na? or inyo ra gidako? nganung dili man mo pwede magkasinabtanay?

up lng ko ani mga pangutanaha ni sis KASAAC.. palihug tubag TS.

[chitchatchix]

istorya ra na ang kuwang ana.. dapat before ninyo hunongan og discuss ang isa ka topic.. dapat, cleared na ang inyong horizon..kay kung dili mo mag istorya tarong.. ahw.. miski pa'g abtan mo'g pila ka-tuig.. aw.. mao gyud na..

********* lang na nin.u.. dapat mag istorya ang isa.. maminaw dapat ang pikas.. dili mag dungan istorya..

[murdocman12]

naa ko'y 2yr + na nga uyab. unya mag.sige mi away sa same issue, if not everyday kay every other day. unya kapuyan man gud ko nga same issue amo awayan ba murag wa na gani sa sakto.

do you think n.lessen ako love niya?? mao man pud daw iyang n.feel. pero i know in me nga wala jud. kapuyan lang guru ko sa issue.

Even lovers need a holiday... thats the best thing to do pra mk hibaw mu if you still love each other...

[emailroy2002]

say sorry, and don't ever talk about the issue again..

jus't like pressing the reset button.

[Klave]

It would help if you would say what exactly you are fighting about...
Wala ka muspecify kinsa sala?...
and it seems like both of you are simply looking for a way out...maypa magbuwag mo...if you don't plan on seriously working it out...

This has more to do with bad habits...
The chances are ma-minimize ra ang problem but dili gyud exactly mawala...

It wouldn't be much of a problem if...
It doesn't compromise anyone's sincerity in the relationship
It doesn't attack the relationship itself

If wala mufall diri nga situation then you should come up with a compromise...
examples:
minor vices but addicted na ang tawo...smoking drinking...
you can say...at least kung kuyug ta ayaw lang sa kay maasthma ko...

[lovelots23]

same issue, balik balik kay walay magpa ubos.mao na amo nabulagan.gamay nga issue but dili ma fix bec. of pride. walay mo surrender, puro gusto masunod..so, na "the end" and relationship.

[emow]

@ TS: kaon polvoron kung magaway mu...para wala nay mayawyaw na bati....pwede pud siling kulikot.

btaw, padung na mu buwag ana.... natural death of a relationship. puro cguro mu bati ug batasan. Puro tag-as ug pride ba...tsk3x...

[cjmagowan]

1st if its not rude to ask... unsa na issue inyo permi awayan??

naa man jud tawo usahay na bsag kasabot na d jud nahan musabot.. daghan man gud makit.an ug rason y nahitabo ni/kana... knahanglan jud kag taas ug pasensya sa mga tawong n.ana...

if ingon cyag na.less iya love dha nmo... maybe dako cguro imo sala nya.. or if wa kay sala ky excuse na niya inyo away to get out from the relationship with reasons that ur bf only knows.

cool down nlng sa mo duha... or better cool off nlng sa mo. then if the situation seems ok na.. then talk mo.

that way bacn mkahuna2x mo sa sakto na d ipaagi ug away..

mudumot man gud ksagaran laki maong n.ana na...

[scorpia]

say sorry, and don't ever talk about the issue again..

jus't like pressing the reset button.

I'm not sure if this is an easy thing to do bro.
I'm almost in the same situation...
more than two years... and still arguing over the same issues... good thing we don't do the cat-and-dog-fight.

[Bruhita]

I have been through this.. let me ask you TS.. this cycle will never end until someone breaks it.. you will be complaining about it over and over again.. pull the roots if you don't want that annoying weed to grow back.