why is it hard to start when you ended so hurt?

[tazzapril]

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before, i was with the same situation as u are ryt now, , , ,i was xo0o freakin hurt, , ,that no such words could best describe what i felt, , ,i thought he was my everything that i cudnt make it without him, , , that tym i look so wasted, , , tagay here tagay there, , , thought i really cant get over , , , til such tym i realize that it's wrong, , , that i shuld accept the harsh truth that the person i cant live without can live without me, ,
so i kept myself bz, , ,in order for me not to think bout him, , ,i tried to be positive as much as i cud, , there are guys hu courted me, , , , but dedama Ox coz i am afraid to get hurt again, , , but then i realized that i shuld open my doors and give myself a chance to be loved the way i deserve to, , ,

Now am in a relationship again, , ,and hopefuly d nah masakitan parehas sauna, , , ,

Girl, just try to be positive, , , keep urself bz, , , hang.out with frnds, , pero d magtagay huh?? hehehe be strong i know u can do it, , ,coz d mana ihatag ni God nga trial qng d nmoh kaya, , , ,show to ur ex dat he's wrong for hurting u, , , Ayaw anang imo lng sugton ang guy kai panakip butas lng, , , samot na kah complicated, , mkasakit kag tao ana, , , , naa gani manguyab, , , ing.na lng, , wait til ur ready to love again, , ,char, ,, pero d to atik huh, , , hehe

[beyee]

you need to be whole again for you to move on and start anew.. so it all takes a lot of acceptance of your new change/status in ur life, willpower to pick up the pieces and finally take those baby steps as you live your life without him.

[faleshna20]

its maybe because, you are deeply inlove with your past and there's a lot a good and bad memories that lisud e.let go.. kanang dili ka kaimagine nga imo maexperience sa next nga tawo nga imong makarelasyon ba.. sometimes momatter jud memories and experiences sa past relationshp.. mura macompare nimo gud.. .. para ra na nako ha..

[lovelygirl]

ANa jud ng life..ok ra oi if mangeta ka ug panakip butas.ky basi diay ma develop raka...

[Tirong-say]

It is so hard if you will confine yourself into that portion of your life, we could not dictate other people's preferences and emotions and what we have is the right to choose what's better for us and our personal pursuit for happiness. We do still have the option to be happy, do we?

[Githyanki]

Well the truth is that we are more vulnerable to being hurt by someone we love, we trust them, we share confidence, we are intimate, we let our hair down. We are easy targets when they don't live up to our expectations or they do something unexpected and bad, or seemingly uncaring. Does it have to happen? No, but chances are it will and it is part of life, and love and maturing in this existence called life..

[lovelots23]

just always think that "there's a lot of fishes in the sea". so, same with guys, they are so many so forget your ex-bf he is a "bolinaw". be excited of the big fishes coming on your way, basin shark d i ang next so big diba?. basta look forward for the best and be excited for a new experience.
count the experiences and not the person, then you will enjoy life.try to be busy with things you like most and enjoy a lot. me, before, nag schooling ko ug different field and that was a good experience.one of this days you will sing this song "i remember the boy but i don't remember the feeling anymore" hope it helps.

[granz]

part nana of being inlove and growing up... murag package nana cya bah

[ozracing]

ako pwede ko nimo gamiton..huhu...

pero ayaw nlang kay bain ma inlove nya ka nako...hehehe...mohilak napud ka

[edliZjOhn]

ako pwede ko nimo gamiton..huhu...

pero ayaw nlang kay bain ma inlove nya ka nako...hehehe...mohilak napud ka

hahaha! magkatawa man sad ta ani oi...naa mna gani ko special kaayo na friedn ron, ayg saba hapz! istoryan ra pud xa...then katong bag.o pa gani mi nagkaila murag comfortable na kaayo ko niya ba...aheheheeh! kabalo na sya kung kinsa xa...preha man sad mi wa nagdali kay gikan man sad siya sa grabe nga sakit sa iyahang lovelayp...ako mahadlok pa man sad ko kay wa pa ko ma.compose ug tarung...