Blacksheep of the family

[nolex]

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nothing except to respect his/her decisions in life...

give more love..... maybe they just need attention & care..

[n`gel]

Naay gitawag ug karma. Ug siaw kang anak, imong anak puhon mas siaw pa nimo.

But most considered blacksheeps are just different, dapat lahi pud ang pagdisiplina.

[kris8jenn]

n'gel: bitaw... not all black sheep can be disciplined the same way.. kung bunalun nimu ang uban ma discipline, and uban mu rebildi samot. Kung mu sakay sad ka sa iyang kabuang and uban murag ma reverse psychology and they'd do the opposite, and uban sad kay mu gara... I guess you just have to know your black sheep and find a way to deal with them.

[Bahalina-boy]

Bla Bla Blacksheep. pasagdaan nalang mausab rana cla kadugayan..

[hayLey]

all i can do is change...
bcoz im the blacksheep...

[baby_jenie]

try to emphatize and understand why cxa na ingana. who gave him/her the tag na "blacksheep"? i depends man gud sa upbringing pud sa iyaha..tan awa ang root why cxa different from the rest of the siblings..basi kulang sa care or unfair treatment..

[Gwynhuever]

most of the time the so called black sheep...mao ni ang mga sensitive kaayo nga members sa family...so sensitive nga di nila makaya ang "normal" nga bickerings...frustrations....mao nga superficially they appear maldito/maldita...but they are crying for understanding from the inside...lahi lang ila paagi to catch attention...but they are basically crying out for love...need ni sila ug more outpouring sa family attention and love...usahay lang makalagot ila paagi kay sige supak2 and hatag "problema" ....ako lang sad na opinion ha....

[tambuk]

most of the time the so called black sheep...mao ni ang mga sensitive kaayo nga members sa family...so sensitive nga di nila makaya ang "normal" nga bickerings...frustrations....mao nga superficially they appear maldito/maldita...but they are crying for understanding from the inside...lahi lang ila paagi to catch attention...but they are basically crying out for love...need ni sila ug more outpouring sa family attention and love...usahay lang makalagot ila paagi kay sige supak2 and hatag "problema" ....ako lang sad na opinion ha....

well said. beautifully said.

...all the love in the world can't be gone, all the need to be loved can't be wrong. lalala haha

[lordoking]

I would respect and accept them of who they are.

[cool_operator]

the eldest among the 5 siblings, my brother is the blacksheep of the family.
he has all the ugliest stuffs in life.. alcohol, drugs, gambling, wot else? name it...
but i, we didn't isolate him. i love my bro not because i can do nothing about it but to accept that he's my brother, but because i love him. love can explain all these thoughts in your minds. i didn't blame anyone why he's living his life in misery, i just admitted to myself that maybe because he's just too weak to fight all the pressures that his peers had pushed to him. but i know, underneath his tainted image, a loving and cheerful heart resides beneath his chest. if mouli ko sa amo, dili jud nako siya kalimtan dala paralubong.. last december i gave him black levis 501 pants. he said to me, i was the only one who truly understands him despite of all the things he had done. now i can see he's moving on.. he had realized that it was not the kind of life he wanted to live with. he's starting to withdraw his vices and i guess and i hope i'm not wrong, he had successfully resist the drive to do drugs.. last nako uli, nindot kaayo among bonding whole family..... cge mi laag sa ako kuya didto sa handuraw tan-aw bisrock......