Pobre ra man mi sir, maam...

[sweetguy16]

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wala pako kaexperience ani..
pero ingon pa sako mama "dili sala ang pagkapobre, ang sala kung dili maningkamot ug magtrabaho"

korek jud bro.

[Dark]

haha... been there brad... though dile ka au sila dato but...
maka feel jud ka nga datu sila that was my xGF and mg 1st love ayeeeee...
ahak... we didnt end up to be in a good relationship kai lagi, she often
goes out with friends with cars, ako tawon uyamot ra... akong ginikanan...
her tito was a supervisor in a custom-broker ambot sakto ba kaha na nga spelling...
mao manai nag buhi niya coz her parents died... sa sunog...
karun kai we just broke up kai larga na xa sa Australia... nag bulag me nga
wala nag away, nag bulag me nga peace rajud ka au for the thing nga
basin mag dugay xa adto... whew... even though u could feel u are really
love niya sa iyang mga tito tita ok ra ka au... but preasured jud ka au ko
itoy jud ka au ko when naa sa ila... ang problema lang jud is u cant even
be who you are when there around you often think nga unsa kahai ilang
huna2 nho... or they might hate me a lot kai uyamot ra ko... hehehe...
anyways... if you feel that as of now baliwala raka... try og paningkamot...
at least if ur college try to graduate... mora ipakita nimu ba... nga kaya nimu
xa ma buhi for hard work... ana lang gud brad... love concurs all if u have it...
ana lang... but as of now all i can say... lisud jud na nga relasyon...
hehehe but just be happy... be happy when shes around... ayaw lang jud
pa itoy2 be proud of what u are... be proud kai dile ka adis2 or dile ka stand by
be proud she chose you despite of being them to be rich... heheeh

[Peace]

@TS:
Ang importante sa usa ka relasyon is ang panaghigugma-ay. Ang imong uyab, gidawat ang imong gugma sa imong pagka-ikaw. Kahibaw na siya daan nga ingon ana ka, gidawat ug gitando ka niya despite of that. Mao nay dapat nimong huna-hunaon.

Ang kapobre, dili magpasabot nga ingon ana nalang gyud ta hangtud sa hangtud. Mentras kita may kinabuhi, aduna kita'y "endless-posibilities" para sa pag usab. Matud pa bitaw nila, nag-sige pang boxing, wa pa ta kahibaw sa ending. . .

[aozora]

Leartes,

para sa ako lang, what matters most is how your gf thinks and feels about you. it's about acceptance. if you're being accepted for who you are, other things do not matter for her anymore. if you're being loved, keep it alive for as long as you live. for what is important in a relationship is not about your love to your partner but it's about the love given from your partner.

don't even bother bringing or discussing that topic with her or else you will just be seen as a weak person. even though (maybe) she will sympathize with you, but in the end she will just find it as an excuse against you (that you are weak).
now, show her what you can do but don't give it all. (i hope you know what i mean)
cure your insecurities!

maybe naka up ko para sa imong decision kung mopadayon ba ka or dli.

[entz_fire]

abi nako ug sa teleserye sa tv rani tinood diay ni? goodluck bro!

[WengIA]

bro' naa ra man jud na nimo kung makaya nimo og swallow ang mga istorya sa gawas og maovercome nimo imong insecurities.padayon jud'. kung pabor ra ang parents ..mas maayo.

pero para nako nakaexperienced naman jud ko og di nako kalevel nakaingon jud kog grabe perteng lisora jud..labi na gikontrahan ko sa ginikanan' ..mao ako karon makabantay ko nga dili nako kalevel ang girl masking gamay lang nga lamang, dili nako mopadayon.grabe sad kaayo ko insecurities sa akong life dili matabang.

[Snowfly]

I cant wait till my husband could read this thread hehe....na kilig baya ko nga naka hinumdum!

Okay, I met my husband when I was still first yr.h.s.in an exclusive school for girls. He is a self supporting college student here in Cebu.

During vacation time he worked w/ his papa as a laborer w/ a P6/day salary at our farms irrigation system. My dad was a District Engr. in our province that time and mom is the principal at the elem. school. He courted me the old fashioned way,,,yan ang uso noon,,,,love letters, fruits or peanut kisses,flowers and harana at night.

I admired his sincerity and most of all his being a hardworker,,,,and I told him to follow his dreams and just come back when he is already prepared para walang masabi ang parents ko coz my family knew him in a different eye.... as barkadista, pala inum and bugoy bec. of their status in life.

Iya diay to nga gi timan an akong gi sulti. I Had lots of admirers then, but my goals are my priority. Wala na mi communication for 5 and a half yrs. after that,,,,but.......

One day, I received an overseas call from him that he is arriving and requested to meet him at the airport. Syempre, I was very excited. I was wearing my white uniform coz gikan ga duty, actually, wala nako maka ila niya coz he is very desente na jud,,,,then suddenly somebody hugged my back,,,ohhh God nag kurog kurog jud ko kay wala ko maka sabot sa akong feelings when I saw him again.....and dili man pud mi uyab baya.

When we were already at the car, he held my very cold hands and said,,,,," will you marry me? I wont take No for an answer".........Gosh!
.....and to make the long story short, I am happily married now to the best husband ive ever known, we got 3 professional children already and 1 still in 3rd yr.college, we both traveled around the world bec. of his job and a business too that can sustain all our needs and wants in life.
Am just sharing this to give some ideas/insights that - Our status in life pobre ka man or mayaman, is never a hindrance nor an assurance to reach our goals in life. How we take Life is often dictated by what priorities we have, and Life being so vast, offers everything!!!!

[ethzneuron]

^^ kanindot sa istorya ninyo maam.. pang-MMK.. salamat sa pag-share.

[bad-jaw]

you have d reason to be insecure bro, it's natural, but consider it as a challenge, instead of bowing your head to surrender, tell them that " pobre ra ko sir/mam but tanawa lng unya ugma".....ayaw lng katingala anang mga datu kay ubos gyud na sila ug pag-tanaw natung mga badjao....they can deny it million times but it is reality.....importante maningkamot lng bro unya ipakita lng nila nga love nimo ila apo...basta love man sad kaha ka niya.......

[touch_me_not]

i kinda have the same situation here brad...i never thought that he we have different stats in life at first with my bf, coz we do hang out at the same places, i thought we have the same lifestyle, but then as time goes on, i get to know him even better about his family, though wala ko ge introduce...(only his mother knows about me)...murag layo raman diay kaayo me....so there, starts the feeling of insecurity, fear...and then thats the reason also nga everytime he wud invite me sa ilaha, morefuse ko..and then magpdungog dungog xa nga nahan xa moadto sa amoa...no comment ra ko..daghan sad ko alibis...so i dont know, asa me kutob ani...that's something we really have to work on and we really have to talk about..(and we both really hate to talk about it)..but he knows, already what kind of life i have...and so far so good paman ang dagan sa rel..i dont know if this will work out for a lifetime commitment...sometimes it's really hard..mae tag kami rang duha magkasinabot ra me but if involve na ang families, i dont know if everythings gonna be ok..thats one of my fears right now....