Do you still go out with your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend? Why? Why not?

[Arshen]

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sometimes coz wer just neighbors

[R_sQuArEd]

correct me if i'm wrong on this guys,
those who wants to stay in friendship with their partner after break-up or rejection are still clinging for the possibility of a second chance.


that is why, if you want to get exclusive with your girl/boy, you should make it sure that there are no exs lurking in the background. (this may answer sa "why not?" in a different perspective)

i don't mind my gf has male friends but never with her exs. at least no communications at all dapat.

and for guys who are staying for a second chance, move on and don't waste time!

well i think it doesn't necessarily follow that if you are friends with your ex you are still expecting a second chance...one concrete example of this kind of relationship in showbiz is with ogie alcasid & regine going or should i say singing for ogie's "ex-wife" michelle van eimeren...my point is that you were friends even before you were lovers...it's just a matter of saving the friendship...i am still currently going out with my ex and i am not expecting a second chance from her...we were good friends before we became lovers...my friends are even amazed because i still go out with her even though we really had a very bad break up...

[yahnot]

sa ako 1st ex kay dili...cold war mi ato..nka sala man sad ko ato gd..

sa 2nd is ok lang..magtagad ra mi kung mgkita man gni sa dalan..but wa na jud mi commu.. ^^

[beyee]

i agree with aozora...

1st 2 months after my ex broke up with me, he always comes back to "hang out" which i agreed to his set-up coz i was so inlove with him that time but i left him for good coz i felt i am just fooling myself to please him that i wasn't bitter bwt the break-up that i agreed to what he wanted... so i told him, he can't simply have his cake and eat it too coz morag swerte ra au sya that he can do stuffs wid me na morag kami pa but dili diay... though it hurts me so much not to answer to his calls and SMS but i'm actually doing myself a favor -- to love myself even more...

bahala'g ingnon ko na bitter k dili ko makig commu nya but ang ako lang, nagpabilin lang ko respeto sa ako self na dili nya dapat ko nya sayun-sayonon abi love nako sya... and besides, i respect his gf k kibaw jud ko unsay feeling na gdungan mi so ako nalang nagpalau...

mao na uyon ko ni aozora na if naa nya'y moabot nya cge japon commu sa ex, likay nalang ko k we'll never know unsa'y ma-happen nya nila duha and i can't compete with that... basta sa ako, i'l go into a relationship with no EXtra baggage jud... clean slate dapat...

[wulf13]

hehehehehehehe depende sa break up gyud, pero if ako lang d ko sugot na magcge pa japon hang-out akong uyab sa iya x hehehehe ok lang chat or text pangumusta labi na friends sila daan pero hang-out hehehheh i dont like that hehehehehe sorry guys

[dropdeadgorgeous]

in commu with my first and recent ex but not most of the time... i'm definitely not seeing any of them anymore after the break-up! i'm so allergic to the word infidelity..

[R_sQuArEd]

well i think that defines hanging out and going overboard...if you really trust your current bf/gf then why worry? as they say "insecurity has no cure"...

[f3a_champ]

Dili na jud angay especially kung naa na ka lain uyab. Likay nalang sa gubot and be fair to all.

[Blackjellybean27]

correct me if i'm wrong on this guys,
those who wants to stay in friendship with their partner after break-up or rejection are still clinging for the possibility of a second chance.


that is why, if you want to get exclusive with your girl/boy, you should make it sure that there are no exs lurking in the background. (this may answer sa "why not?" in a different perspective)

i don't mind my gf has male friends but never with her exs. at least no communications at all dapat.

and for guys who are staying for a second chance, move on and don't waste time!

sowee aozora, i disagree.

my ex and i dont live in the same city, naa sya negros and i'm here cebu.
but whenever i go home to bacolod, we see each other. nothing there anymore except friendship nlng. after all we were together for 10 years or so.
i dont have any plans whatsover of going back to him. As in NEVER! hehehe... and I'm happy with my current beau. but for the record i don't text him ha as in makig meet jud ko niya. if we run into each other that's it. we go out for lunch, then coffee afterwards.

i think it's a common misconception that ex's cannot be friends because they have hidden agendas if they see each other. well, some maybe. but not all

[R_sQuArEd]

sowee aozora, i disagree.

i think it's a common misconception that ex's cannot be friends because they have hidden agendas if they see each other. well, some maybe. but not all

so true...funny how it seems...hehehe