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[aozora]

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You fell for your bestfriend who has been treating you like a brother/sister all these years. Kahibaw kang dapat di mahitabo but you could not help it. How do you deal with it? Do you think you need to let the other person know? Or will you stay silent hoping not to break your friendship? Then he/she finds another one. How do you deal with it? Fight for what you feel or let go of the friendship and get a new life?


opinions please.

let him come to you, let him learn that he needs you.
cut the supply so that there will be more demands.

i think mas high ang chance kaysa you just tell him out of the blue.
but then, the chance is still very small. 1/20 chance.

if you tell him directly sa imong feelings, there's a possibility that you will get rejected and worst the friendship will not be the same again. it will feel awkward after.

pwd pud ka mag sideshot, ask him kung ngano wla pa cya girlfriend. what type of girl he likes.
and ask him, what do you think of me? hhahahaha... btaw, risky ra kaayo.

[chrisgon]

haha i just did tell him. but no reactions, just an ordinary look. i guess we're meant to stay this way. but no problem with that

at least you told him nah, tutal like WEI? said, wa man pod mawagtang nimo if ingnan nimo xa, at least n ds way it wudnt be too hard for both of u, especially nimo, na maka express ka niya kay karun kahibaw xa... and if naa na xa bago or kakita xa uyab, at least he knows na how u feel niya...

cge lang sis, if he really likes u, then anha xa nimo... just b urself nlng, dnt ever change, kay dha mu nagka amigo tungod sa imuha attitude, maybe dha pod xa madevelop tungod anah. ryt??

[reydawnne]

naa mawagtang nimu miga. wat f magpalayo na cya nimu after nimu pagconfess? like u sed, u treat each other like brother and sister. so inanaa nlng usa. hwata na cya mismo mkarealyz na gnhan diay cya nimu.

[Bigben2007]

Ang mga babae na jud diay ang angay mosulti karon.

[Ryan747]

Ask him how he feels about you. If just friends then friends it is.

[RainDrizzle07]

You fell for your bestfriend who has been treating you like a brother/sister all these years. Kahibaw kang dapat di mahitabo but you could not help it. How do you deal with it? Do you think you need to let the other person know? Or will you stay silent hoping not to break your friendship? Then he/she finds another one. How do you deal with it? Fight for what you feel or let go of the friendship and get a new life?


opinions please.

been there.. .done that... ^_^

I express my feelings towards him.. I wrote a poem & a letter as well telling him bout my feelings,
na na usab na ako tan aw nya.. and after that pagka ugma I talk to him and told him in person na I am just expressing my feelings and not expecting anything in return, I'm hoping na nothing will change in our friendship..

up until now he is still my bestfriend, though we seldom see each other nah..unlike before coz we are both occupied with our work,pero they (my 3 guy bestfriend) still see each other every saturday...I am always on OT, anyway this happen 7 years ago.. ^_^ I was 17 at that time.. ^_^

pero honestly,I think it also depends on how you deliver it (experssin & all) and how would the recipient will receive what is bein express, as a best friend or a friend to that person, I feel/think that you already have an idea how she/he would take it.

but then again.. for me.. mas maau jud nang magpa hungaw.. kay sa mag cge ug panghupaw ^_^

Express but don't Expect (this maybe hard to do for some, the expecting part, but really if you just want to express and not really expecting anything in return, its really easy..) kay when you do expect that's when you put a strain sa inyo friendship..

ako after nako g express to mura nalang ug wlay nahitabo nako.. and good thing that my best friend is really cool with it as well, like it did not even occur.. hahaha.. which is I am very much grateful as well coz I know I will regret losing him as a friend

kay karon panahona...lisud na kaau pangita ug taw na who

- will be there through thick or thin, thick or thick & think or thin..lol

- will libak you harap harapan.. and even though they know what they say will hurt you.. go ghapon.. ( you just need to be really open minded, aron dli ka masakitan or to really see their point) ^_^ pero I do have this attitude sad that I only listen to people who matters

- can really read through your facade ^_^

[esotericlove]

thumbs up jud ko nimo sis kay na kaya nimo! hehehehe

[julz23]

thumbs pod kohh..hehe apil2 lagi..............

[anjerika]

hahaha yeah. infairness one night i couldn't stand it, so i called him up to tell him everything. and guess what he told me? "daan ko pa. sauna ra ko nakabantay ana. so tinuod diay tong imong mga mwah mwah... hugs...love you... etc" he just laughed, but he didn't say anything about his side. felt like a clot just went through my brain, coz it felt like nakaingon siya nga "anad na ko ana." waaaaaa

i think i have become a victim. after all, he had a history of being a chickboy.

reactions please.

[ethzneuron]

magbasul rana miga kung dili ikaw pilion...basaha ni puhon after mga 10 years from now.

or naghunahuna pana siya kung mo-serious naba siya sa imo...chikboi man kaha.. ka-char!