Are you lucky with your man/woman?

[chrisgon]

aguy sis. murag no-win situation ka ana..

pero despite of it all?? do you still ove him?? communicate pman kaha xa ghapon??

btaw, ok ra na sis, if both of u are really meant for each other, then love will find a way, char!!!

[touch_me_not]

don't fret sis.. at first i dont believe in them telling me na huwat lang daw kay maabot ra na... but it does, and its true. there are just things w/c will come in ur way unexpectedly. ma shock lang ka kalit. and it pays to be good, nyahahaha...

pero ambot lang i havent been good lately pero g tagaan man ko ug tarung.. close jud mi n bro cguro. nyahahaha...

i hope so...ive always been good...BRO knows that...heheh....but lately GONE BAD....he gave me one before...i started with i think for me was a perfect boyfriend...hes the one ang ma imagine naku sa checklist..and i considered myself that time SO LUCKY...but i'ts just that....we had the "right love at the wrong time".....hehehh....so sad for now that he can never be mine again..char...then the next relationshps including the current one were far more different from the 1st one....that's why i consider myself UNLUCKY...LR jud...as in lahi ra..hheheh...plus im into a complicated relationship.....what the hell has happened to me?...cguro mana man ko sa LUCKY mao unlucky na sad ko....heheh..hmmmmwhen can i ever be lucky again?...heheh...

[chrisgon]

sus sis, everyone of us here sa kalibutan has thier shares of ups and downs sa relationships. me for example has undergone same situations sa imuha. and i can say that, it realy moves you. it converts u from sum1 hu u least expect to be. u'll get out of control on things jus because u want na makalimut ra ka. and trust me, complicated relationships will always remain complicated. been there na jud, and wa ra jud ko'y maabtan.

wehter its complicated or not, we do learn somthing out of it d bah?? so try daw doing these things para maka get out ka sa unlucky nimo na situation:

1. hang out with the right frnds
2. dont go to places na feel nimo d maka benefit nimo
3. if d nimo malikayan na mga things (1and 2) den stay at home and do things para pawala sa laay.

its not that mag ermitanya ka but these things helped me a lot. i used to do opposite things ana sauna kay i think it wud help me cope up. pero mura c bro man gud maru kaayu magcge lang ug tanaw nimo.. hehehehe... kusog mo ihap sa imuha sayup.

smile sis!!! dugay pa mu end ang kalibutan, 2012 pa, nyahahaha...

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[im_ur_girl1984]

aguy sis. murag no-win situation ka ana..

pero despite of it all?? do you still love him?? communicate pman kaha xa ghapon??

btaw, ok ra na sis, if both of u are really meant for each other, then love will find a way, char!!!

yes i still love him.. naa pa sya dghan sala nko.. cheating and lying.. but it's too hurting to write here.. malouy lang mo nko.. i forgave him and still accepted him.. pro now when im alone and start to recall all those things na iya gbuhat na sala nko, makes me think na he's not worth it sa ako mga hilak.. grabeh na kau ko nasakitan.. sguro tonight makigbulag nalng jud ko.. sakit kau pero i have to.. this is not healthy for me.. nawala na akong trust sa iya.. i thot he's the right guy for me coz he's really into me katng bag-o pami ngkauyab.. ako nalng sguro ang mu let go.. kung love jud ko nya then he'l find a way na mkauli sya dre pinas to be with me.. if not.. then it was never meant to be.. ouch..

[chrisgon]

yes i still love him.. naa pa sya dghan sala nko.. cheating and lying.. but it's too hurting to write here.. malouy lang mo nko.. i forgave him and still accepted him.. pro now when im alone and start to recall all those things na iya gbuhat na sala nko, makes me think na he's not worth it sa ako mga hilak.. grabeh na kau ko nasakitan.. sguro tonight makigbulag nalng jud ko.. sakit kau pero i have to.. this is not healthy for me.. nawala na akong trust sa iya.. i thot he's the right guy for me coz he's really into me katng bag-o pami ngkauyab.. ako nalng sguro ang mu let go.. kung love jud ko nya then he'l find a way na mkauli sya dre pinas to be with me.. if not.. then it was never meant to be.. ouch..

well sis, if its unhealthy for you ne den better let it go. i think der r a lot of guys der willing enough to take care of you. pero before doing that, better talk to him sa and be open to him, tell him everything coz sumtimes us guys are not really in to "tag-an-tag-an" type na dili dayun mi kasabot. we also need to be reminded of sum things about ninyu kay usahay tungod feel kaayu namo na kaila mi ninyu, we neglect things like inuha emotions.

think it over sis oi, annugon pod baya... pero like wat i said, if it unhelathy na, better let it go and save urself the burden of always crying. sayang ang luha. angay ta maglipay kay pasko na. jeheheheh


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[im_ur_girl1984]

well sis, if its unhealthy for you ne den better let it go. i think der r a lot of guys der willing enough to take care of you. pero before doing that, better talk to him sa and be open to him, tell him everything coz sumtimes us guys are not really in to "tag-an-tag-an" type na dili dayun mi kasabot. we also need to be reminded of sum things about ninyu kay usahay tungod feel kaayu namo na kaila mi ninyu, we neglect things like inuha emotions.

think it over sis oi, annugon pod baya... pero like wat i said, if it unhelathy na, better let it go and save urself the burden of always crying. sayang ang luha. angay ta maglipay kay pasko na. jeheheheh


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ey thanks sa imo advise.. yah il call him tonight.. at first hesitant pa kau ko kay sayangan ko sa amo relationship.. mas dghan amo na share na laughter maski sa tawag, tx and chat rami.. pero lately wa najud sya kapugong sa iyang "biga", nangita na sya ug lain.. maski mi ingon sya na mas love pa japun ko nya kaso lang layo au mi.. well i think this is the right thing to do.. il be ok.. hopefully..

[touch_me_not]

sus sis, everyone of us here sa kalibutan has thier shares of ups and downs sa relationships. me for example has undergone same situations sa imuha. and i can say that, it realy moves you. it converts u from sum1 hu u least expect to be. u'll get out of control on things jus because u want na makalimut ra ka. and trust me, complicated relationships will always remain complicated. been there na jud, and wa ra jud ko'y maabtan.

wehter its complicated or not, we do learn somthing out of it d bah?? so try daw doing these things para maka get out ka sa unlucky nimo na situation:

1. hang out with the right frnds
2. dont go to places na feel nimo d maka benefit nimo
3. if d nimo malikayan na mga things (1and 2) den stay at home and do things para pawala sa laay.

its not that mag ermitanya ka but these things helped me a lot. i used to do opposite things ana sauna kay i think it wud help me cope up. pero mura c bro man gud maru kaayu magcge lang ug tanaw nimo.. hehehehe... kusog mo ihap sa imuha sayup.

smile sis!!! dugay pa mu end ang kalibutan, 2012 pa, nyahahaha...

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baliktad man gud ang nahitabo sa akoa bro..i was once a good girl but when that that thing happend to me...dha nako nagsugod ug ka bad..pero d jud bad as in bad...murag nalihis lang gamay akong mga principles sa life...hehehe....and yes the experiences are worth learning especially in making me become a tough person but not as tough as a stone..heheh...at least now i know now how to handle my sensitivity....

thank you so much for the tips bro...im slowly getting myself out of this complicated situation...though it takes so much strenght...im doing number 1 for now...number 2 naglibog pa ko asa ko moadto nga makabenefit ko...for no. 3 that's what i used to do ever since...."stay at home"...reading...watching movies and television shows....so murag naanad na kog ing-ana nga lifestyle...mao karon laag na sad ako getry ug buhat..hehehe...

but i believe BRO has plans for me...never has it occured in my entire life so far that i blamed him why...not ever since coz i know how amazing his plans are for me and for all of us....GOOD LUCK to me!...heheh...i know in his time...i'll be lucky...heheh...

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR CONCERN BRO I REALLY APPRECIATE IT !...GOD SPEED YOU!...

[chrisgon]

@touch_me_not

ur welcome sis, always glad to lend a hand.

[im_ur_girl1984]

i know sum1 man gud sis na nakaagi ana na situation, they were supposed to get married na pod, ang guy went to other pace to work nya ang girl went to the states para magprocess ilaha mga papers did2 para after sa kasal mgkadungan cla ngad2.

th problem is dat ang guy naka kita ug lain did2 sa iyaha g ad2an, and he said to me: "when loneliness gets into ur system, the first person of opposite *** na maka comfort nimo mao na xa imuha ka cling-onan" the guy was a very close frnd of mine and i told him to let go of the girl sa pikas kay minyuonon na xa.

hopefully ur bf has sum1 na makaisturya niya did2 like his frnd na suod to give him sum piece of advise and aron pod d xa laayun did2...

well hopefully ma ok ka sis.. kip in mind dat pipol here in istorya are always here to lend a shoulder for comfort...



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thank u kau.. i almost cried reading ur advise.. il try to be happy.. as of now, work and haus rko.. my family were all in cagayan.. alone rko dre cebu that's why it really makes me sad.. sya ra unta to akng perme kasturya.. now.. il try to be strong.. dli na muhilak.. let go and move on.. i hope it will be a "merry" christmas for me maski wala na sya.. ay duty man diay ko graveyard on xmas eve..faet..huhuhu cry and cry sa akong drama ron.. 2010 i hope it's a happy year for me..

[chrisgon]

ey thanks sa imo advise.. yah il call him tonight.. at first hesitant pa kau ko kay sayangan ko sa amo relationship.. mas dghan amo na share na laughter maski sa tawag, tx and chat rami.. pero lately wa najud sya kapugong sa iyang "biga", nangita na sya ug lain.. maski mi ingon sya na mas love pa japun ko nya kaso lang layo au mi.. well i think this is the right thing to do.. il be ok.. hopefully..

well, if sayangan ka sa relationship supposed to be cya pod unta, the feeling is no longer mutual. and it's always different sa inyu na side na sa phone or text/chat ra mu mag communicate, maski gane kami lake, i for one, gnhan jud kaayu na pirme ko kita sa ako gf. lisud jud ug wala.. like my friend told me once "when loneliness get in to you, firs person of the opposite gender will be the one you'll cling on for companionship" dha na nga part masayup ang mga tao, dha pod mandaut ang relationship.

im sure u'll be ok.. naa ra pirme mga istoryans to offer a shoulder kung magtulo na imuha luha sis. pero u shudnt be doing that. life's too short to settle on those things. be happy... mura jollibee.


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