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    then why did you mention all those factors above if none among those diay ang reason why ga ka fall out of love naka sa imung husband....I was just assuming that one of those factors ang root sa imu problem and i picked that pina ka non-sense one.....
    why are you mad at me?? I was just expressing my insights, after all you started this thread so you must be open with everyone's opinion.....

  2. #12
    Quote Originally Posted by 0+1-1+1-0-1+1 View Post
    i have no idea seems like feel nako gusto pako mgka BF ehehe





    im 25 pero deli halata im look like 15 ingon sa ako ka office etc..




    5 years,,



    guys thanks ill just drop by.. 2 b continue tom..


    heehehe..being young at 25 is not a reason. It is within you, your mindset, your deffinition of hapiness againts your commitment in marriage. lets us all be reminded that marriage is a binding contract, you are obliged to live in a married life.

    having bf is good but another lover is suicidal. pwede ka patyun sa bana nimo anah.. for lesser penalty if caught. in other cultures its a free ride. Anyway, we all have decided in things we percieve as good and makes us happy like getting married. You should look back at those reasons now and see what is wrong now. that is "problem management"..talk and communicate lang gyud. Im married just rescently like you, I feel you. there are somethings I have sacrificed like freedom before eg..laag etc. But I always do that even more now with or without my partner. Some would say, mura daw meh ug uyab lang gihapon but we are both secure with each other.

    Others have the traditional marriage thing in mind. For me, okay as long as you deliver KPI's (key performance index), SLA (service levels agreement), financial OPEX and CAPEX..wahahahaa, murag kumpaya nuh? but this is true... "if you can measure, you can control and reach that goal - hapiness" even in married life and the next.

    -another 3 cents from me
    Last edited by BackEdge; 11-13-2009 at 11:03 AM.

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    Marriage is a responsibility,marriage should be forever,it's not just a game that you play...you should settle down for the right reasons, coz it's a lifetime commitment to love,to romance and to cherish though love requires us to take the risk to trust someone and let our guards down when that day will come when we get disappointed, after all this ain't a fairytale, this is real life...just don't be so pessimistic because in all relationship there's a downside on it.

    Happy relationships exist. You just have to look for the right person.

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    so far so good...can't complain...naa mn jud times na maglalis but we try 2 get things na ma.ok...=p

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    ^ k i try so hard to...


    I always do that even more now with or without my partner..
    ^ hee same here if mka lugar but i know its bad im wallow my own shame huhuhu ... ka faet

  6. #16
    Quote Originally Posted by 0+1-1+1-0-1+1 View Post
    ^ k i try so hard to...




    ^ hee same here if mka lugar but i know its bad im wallow my own shame huhuhu ... ka faet
    Hi friend..Married life is an upgrade..a higher level than being single. we should be more happy and contented with what we have now. We can do more than single ppl here and we have more moments everyday to be happy. From a stressful day at work, I always look forward of going home and spending time with my wife..we have simple things together..preparing dinner..sharing what we have in the office or watching together news and enjoy discussing current events or her favorite telenovela..(waaaaaa..duka kaayu ko perme maypa mag dota sad ko kadiyut). This is just an ordinary day made extra special because I have someone special. Soon if we decide to have a child...i expect it to be more special and exciting..hehehe. ka cute cguro!

    I can always see myself in those single ppl before..nah!..ive been there and done this and done that and even more or worst...hahahaha..I get to lose those naging gf's and the hassle i have before. bitaw, naa gihapon samuk usahay maski kabalu na sila menyu nako. But those are garbages dont need a minute of my time and now that I am giving my time to more important things in life...for my hapiness.

    3 cents again...ehehehe

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    ok ang married life nimo if morespect both of you, pero kung dili maypa balik single bahalag manimahong
    butakal! kay biktima nako ani nga scenario! dakoooonggg MAHAY! lami ilayas pero luoy mga BATA! dili na lang ang agianan kay naa daghan! maayo na lang kung naay life after death maayo na unta ug komportable,didto pero kung moingon na , segi continue the GAME kung unsay inyong kahimtang sa earth pa mo, mao sad diri! PATAY! makaingon ko na magpapatay nalang sad ko pag-usab! mwahahahahah!
    thats life! naay uban nindot ila married situations! naa say bati! for me makaingon ko sa ako self na bati ako married life! drama kaayo!

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    Quote Originally Posted by alwin View Post
    ok ang married life nimo if morespect both of you, pero kung dili maypa balik single bahalag manimahong
    butakal! kay biktima nako ani nga scenario! dakoooonggg MAHAY! lami ilayas pero luoy mga BATA! dili na lang ang agianan kay naa daghan! maayo na lang kung naay life after death maayo na unta ug komportable,didto pero kung moingon na , segi continue the GAME kung unsay inyong kahimtang sa earth pa mo, mao sad diri! PATAY! makaingon ko na magpapatay nalang sad ko pag-usab! mwahahahahah!
    thats life! naay uban nindot ila married situations! naa say bati! for me makaingon ko sa ako self na bati ako married life! drama kaayo!
    wahahaha..grabeh neh brod. dili ko ka imagine unsa imung partner gi-pili. there is no perfect partner man gyud buy base in your statements diri...think twice cguro ka before you have decided to settle for good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 0+1-1+1-0-1+1 View Post
    i have no idea seems like feel nako gusto pako mgka BF ehehe
    okay ra na oist, daghan man married people naay mga boyfriends/girlfriends on the side. and i think your husband feels the same way. na fade na pod iya love nimo and gusto siya magka gf on the side. they say that feelings in marriage are almost always mutual. isn't that good news after all? ahehehe

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    I hated my married life! yucks! married to that a$$hole for 8 years. I'm glad wla na kmi. ayyy for the record, i knew he was an a$$hole, but i thought i can change him. chaka na thinking wui. idealistic to the next level. hehehe. sos, i'm glad i woke up just in time. they were right when they said, love is not blind, only the lovers are...

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