how will u accept it?

[a_girl]

mao sd tigale sis naa xa bisyo.. daun blind kaau ka xa dre cge suyup..in anah sd ako bf sauna sis...as in graveh kaau ka hook sa ya drugs somtimes mo ask ko nya asa ya palabihon ya bisyo or pamlya.egu rman xa mu sulte pamlya but laau rakau ya huna2x..di jud lalim na mu dagko ag mga bata daun kahibaw na xla tanan na bisyonado. la papa...naa man gud posiblty na ma buhat na nla somday its bec of curiosity..naa ramn na nimo kug gi unsa nimo xla pag gabay tanan peru wa jud ta kahibaw sa panahon kay karun open nakau ag mga bata sa mga binu-ag....peru sis ayaw sd pag antos oe di na sakto u hav d ryt to b happy..mas mau gne kay naa naka mga anak to comfort u in times of mu buwag njud ka nya..xa rmn gud ag mu dced tanan kug mo stop na xa sa iya bisyo..dha nmn gud na maka feel na naa ka sa iya syd in tmes of he ned somtg but kug wla gane,naa na sa ya mga barkada..ryt?if u lik to be a martyr one go on...but gav urself a litle respect and hapy..especialy sa mga bata.. try to talk wd hm..peru mao sd lage siya sad ba ag tinood nimo ka atubag..buhe na patay man ako term anah nla kay buhe xla but patay ag utok lagpas kaau xnsya na sis..mao jud na ako na bantayan ako bf sauna..so akog gi buhat jud nkg buwag jud ko nya ato..now naka kita naku ug guy na mo undrstand naku and most of ol wla jud bisyo ag perme huna2 work rjud for d future sa amog bby wa jud ko gamahay na nikig buwag ko atog bisyunado.think sis...for d sake lg sa mga bata..and always pray..^^

[Monmyhand]

just accept it that no more heart to heart talk is possible with drug addicts. their brains have been re-wired by the drugs. they do not always mean what they say. they do not always listen to what is being said.

if you are married, annulment is one realistic option. let us face it, life is about choices. he made his. he destroyed his life. if you stay with him, yours and that of the kids could be destroyed too. but then, that is a choice too. yours to make.

drugs is a one way mistake people make. there is no turning back.

how i wish life had a rewind button so we can push play again and make things right next time...gosh, that s just the poet in me talking out loud.

[unique]

thats a difficult situation jud sis, but i can say that there is always light somewhere, try to join religious communities together as a family, i know personally of some people who are just like in your case and they have made it and have become one happy family, of course life is not easy but they dont have to go back to that situation again.

[raizene]

hala sis pwede mana xa nimu ipa rehab din mg work ka sa layo, have ur kids adto sa imohang parents...pwd mana xa nimu pa buahan ug court order na dili xa makaduol sa inyong mga anak unless dili xa mag bag-o..but murag nindot sad ug gikabuangan imohang bana dah,, dili babaye hehehe butang man....

[Kishin888]

cant you let him stop

[icon_king]

lesoara ani nga situation. maghuwat nalang gyud ka nga mausab sya

[gkoopir]

Hi Sis, dapat imo jud pasabton imong mga anak kong unsa ang situation ninyo karon.
You can tell your child about the situation nga para mausab ilang father they need to be separated from him.
Ask them if they like their mom to be battered again?
Don't let it happen nga ma apektohan ang mga bata sa iyang bisyo. Basin sungongon silag maayo sa mga friends or classmate that their dad is an addict. dako kaayo nag epikto sa mga bata.
Palayo lang sa mo sis, until acceptable na jud siya. Better talk2x nlng sa mo sa phone while your away.
Yaw lang jud sa padala niya.

If bun-ogon pa gani ka niya you can go to court pra makafile kag case para mawarningan or dili na jud ka niya mahilabtan. e-secure jud imong mga anak.
Pray always You have a big problem but we have a much bigger GOD

[vanix09]

btaw2.. pait jud na.. murag lisod kaau na dawaton.. pero if LOVE is there, then naa rajud na nimo.. XD

[tangadsangig]

Talk to him and make him aware nga aware ka. And ipa rehab lang na cya. Naa may rehab ining duol sa IT park, lahug. Mu pick-up man cguro na cla. Magsagol na cla diha ug ang alcoholic. Ang bana sa ako kaila gawas na sa rehab and wala na baya pud mubalik sa iyang alcohol. Ambot kaha unsa pud feedback sa mga drug addicts. Give it a try lang.

[danzteo]

jesussssssssss paita ana oi...........