Too much complications..H-E-L-P me!!!!

[coolguyiam20]

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labi na kong naglibog ani cool este lester!!! hahaha!!!

@miss murag bati sad ug makigbulag sad ka dayon just for that reason... sama sa gipost sa isa kaistoryan mas maayo magistoyaanay mog tarong ug ngano ingon ana inyong sitwasyon..
lisod ug moresort dayon ka sa ingon ana nga decision... naa jud mga laki nga dili showy sama sad nga naay mga girls dha!!!! nga dli showy!!! heart to heart tok mo...
ayaw sa ug entertain ug lain nga guy until maresolve ni imong problema coz for sure you'll be adding more pain and problem to solve..

OT:bulaboga sa pangan oi..hahahah
masters strikes again..paminawa na TS..

[mataid]

Hey...It sounds like you are in the tweenties?....Reason?...Your thoughts are still immature...( dont be offended)

You have to understand that a marriage/relationship must have one common goal and purpose...
Have you consider jotting down yours before you commit?....If you did not, the way your partner treat you does not preempt for separation, worse making yourself to fall on the same crevices again....You are at your worse vulnerability....Instead of entertaining outside world...Being married is your world now...He is your world now...So far your thoughts and rationalization makes me believe that you dont know yourself that well, worse you commit and let this husband of yours get into your life suppose to be for- forever.

There are a lot of people/relationship pretty similar situation as yours, but that should not be your basis to make decisions and falling in love or out of love. Do not be confuse of what you see and hear in public about other relationships PDA.

Drop your fantasy and dreams of being in "lala land"...DO NOT EVEN consider going out with some else, no matter how you reason it out, its not the solution of your problem..it will just going to get worse.....

Talk to your husband in all honesty......like ALL HONESTY TO UTMOST SENSE.

Thanks for the reply.
I am not offended. I am open for all your opinions, ideas and advice. Yes, you are right. I am in my 20's. I understand your point. One (two rather) of the reasons why I thought about giving the marriage up is that, he told me that I should get a another f&#$*%g husband. Tarong ba na if taron sya na bana? Wala ra man unta to sa akong mind ang bulag2. Recently lang, he asked if I want a divorce. I didn't aswer him back.

I think you're right. I should talk to him in all honesty. This is also my problem..kay mag away mi, igo ra ko mohilak and hilom rako. Wala jud sya'y madungog na storya from me. I don't have a courage enough to speak my mind.

[vahnhelsing]

OT:bulaboga sa pangan oi..hahahah
masters strikes again..paminawa na TS..

hahaha.. lester hatag sad dha ug advice uy....
weeee.... taas pa baya kag experience kaysa nako....
hunahunaa lang sad nga ikaw ang iyang bana....weeeee...
kay murag bulag man padulngan ani....expert bya ka sa bulag..

[xanxed]

too compicated... but kaw lng nmn maka2long sa sarili mu. if you think living with your husband is a hell then stay away with him... i'm sure you'll like it....

[xinevirtucio]

Hey...It sounds like you are in the tweenties?....Reason?...Your thoughts are still immature...( dont be offended)

You have to understand that a marriage/relationship must have one common goal and purpose...
Have you consider jotting down yours before you commit?....If you did not, the way your partner treat you does not preempt for separation, worse making yourself to fall on the same crevices again....You are at your worse vulnerability....Instead of entertaining outside world...Being married is your world now...He is your world now...So far your thoughts and rationalization makes me believe that you dont know yourself that well, worse you commit and let this husband of yours get into your life suppose to be for- forever.

There are a lot of people/relationship pretty similar situation as yours, but that should not be your basis to make decisions and falling in love or out of love. Do not be confuse of what you see and hear in public about other relationships PDA.

Drop your fantasy and dreams of being in "lala land"...DO NOT EVEN consider going out with some else, no matter how you reason it out, its not the solution of your problem..it will just going to get worse.....

Talk to your husband in all honesty......like ALL HONESTY TO UTMOST SENSE.

i totally agree with this.for better or for worse...wa man guro niingon pag kasal nga...if di naka malipay...pagbuwag mo...wa mana sa marriage vows dba??

bitaw oi...di man gud pwede ibasis ang intimacy lang sa imong kalipay, kai kung buot hunahunaon naa pai dghan diha nga di gali hapit mamarayg ilang bana nila pero naningkamot ghapon cla nga masalbar ilang kaminyuon.

bitaw.....di au ko ka relate..single paman ko..pero...im learning from my parents,di man gali cla hapit magkuyog kai cge larga akoa amahan,di sad sweet akoa amahan,pero wa jd ko kadungog ni reklamo akoa inahan...

sipyat lang ka..ni entertain daun kag lain..mao mana ang weakness nimo ron..matud pa ni i-c-u-p.

undangi sa na imong kabuang dha..unaha sa na imong problema sa imong kaminyuon, di kai magdugang kag problema...lisod bya sulbaron nag dungan...gud luck nimo...

remember...LET YOUR HEAD ROLL OVER YOUR HEART....sa imong sitwasyon ron.

[mataid]

LOL..thanks for the laughs guys..at least, makapawala mo ug kaguol kadyot..hehehe

He's Australian. He doesn't want to take me to his country even just for a holiday. Kay he accused me na mangabit daw ko if naa nako didto. Grabe ka insulto ni ba. Sa ako kalagot, i told him na..if gusto jud nako mangabit, kay dili ba diay nako na mabuhat bisan naa ko dinhi sa pinas. I told him pud na mag bakasyon ko sa ilaha, gi ingnan man nuon ko na.."In your dreams.." Tarong ba ni?

Suggest pud ko nya na mag bakasyon mi duwa, para unta matambalan amo problem..pero gi ingnan pud ko na.."ok later when we get rich"..grrrr..asa man diay akong hago sa pag dala sa mga gamay namo na panginabuhi?! hahayzz..

[coolguyiam20]

OT:@vhan:hilom na anang tawag nko oi..sabaa xd ana oi..
mreact nlng ko dri sa inung mga gipangtambag..eheheh..

@TS:lisoda xd ana imong bana oi..dli mn gud na prho og pinoy gud..
kung sa pinoy pka..dli ka ingon ana on jud..dli mn ta kasabot ana sa ilang kinaiya gud..
bcn ingon ana iyang pgtoo sa mga pinoy gud..or nka.experience nga giingon ana og girl..
mao mahadlok cya..faetz jud ng sitwasyona..

[mataid]

@ xanxed: I hate to admit it..and it's weird, the idea of staying away from him makes me feel better. LIke karon that he's out of the country, nindot ako feeling..Kana feeling na mura kag nawalaan ug tunok.

@ xine: Salamat. Wala pa man ko nag padala sa akoa kabuang. We're good friends. We haven't talked about beyond that. Pero if ako jud tugutan, naa jud padulngan. Mao ask kog advice sa inyoha.

I'll talk to him when he comes back. Wish I have the courage to do so (without shedding a tear while talking).

Daghan kaayo salamat sa inyo tanan.

[tamse]

if i were you i would like to talk seriously with my husband. clear it. if he wants to try to work it out or lets end it all... kapoyan man gud ko anang mag huwat sa wala.. dbuh? but hey, maybe kuwang ra na ug spice inyo marriage dbuh? sayang ra sad .. seduce2x lang dayon..char! haha.. but really... talk it over. be honest and clear it all.. kay kung di mo mag talk, aw.. mag tagna2x nlng ta ani...

and you said na mo hilak ka when you talk..well, you're like my mom. but be strong sis, if you cant clear this now, you will be then in pain till you take the risk... but since he asked, and if you want a divorce.. well, i really dont like those stuff...kung ako nimo? well, ill let him go, ill go separate but in papers, hmm.. i dont really like the sound of it.. coz you see, when you enter stuff like this, you have to think... thats why if possible you must think a thousand times before you get into this we called "MARRIAGE LIFE"... good luck sis!

[vahnhelsing]

hahaha... ana ba...hatag sad sa imo advice cool....

weeee... mao diay, murag trap man imo gisudlan miga... nakasugat kag self centered guy. that happens when you marry not knowing the guy totally... that is the consequence, as of now talk to him... if still he shows the same character towards you then you might take the last option.. divorce...
but please never be involve with someone else right now... gamay nga delicadeza lang...