Will you sacrifice your true personality just to please someone?

[dimplesheaven]

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no.. better stay of what you really are... its hard to pretend..effort ka au ana n mogawas ra ghapon madugay imo color... in love, it is best to be loved for what you really are...

Yup..too much effort . When it fails, the blame game begins and it's too painful to handle especially if you have given so much...

[coolguyiam20]

a^^mao jud..ngano mgpapretend pa mn??
ngano mgpacute2 mn ka sa imong batasan??ipakita nana.
like kung sabaan ka nga taw..ai pacute2 nga para ingnon nga hilomon ka..eheheheh

[vahnhelsing]

Yup..too much effort . When it fails, the blame game begins and it's too painful to handle especially if you have given so much...

ug magpretend gani moresulta ghapon... but when you do try to pretend be sure nga kaya nimo barugan imo gipakita nga kabag.ohan... some people change for the better when they fall in love...
but for the sake of pretending.... wa nay au..

[dimplesheaven]

a^^mao jud..ngano mgpapretend pa mn??
ngano mgpacute2 mn ka sa imong batasan??ipakita nana.
like kung sabaan ka nga taw..ai pacute2 nga para ingnon nga hilomon ka..eheheheh

Naa man sad gud situation that would entail na you have to be a different person ,depends on whom you are with.. Kay as they say " birds of the same feather flock together"... Sometimes, we are not our real self jud...

[dimplesheaven]

ug magpretend gani moresulta ghapon... but when you do try to pretend be sure nga kaya nimo barugan imo gipakita nga kabag.ohan... some people change for the better when they fall in love...
but for the sake of pretending.... wa nay au..

So true, problem sad when you have change for the better, they won't believe, especially if an impression on you has been made already. Yah, I've learned not to change for anyone else but for myself...

[xinevirtucio]

according to my bf, just because you got into a relationship doesn't mean you have to change your partner, there is nothing you can do about her personality all you have to do is deal with it and live with it.

the point man gud if you scarifice yourself, your partner will only suck you dry and you will end up losing everything not only your partner (if di jd xa maplease) and of course your sense of self.

i've been to that kind of relationships all to many times, probably since i got into college....yet no matter how i try, no matter how much i sacrifice and change myself, these men/boys still end up leaving me...

point is: like i said....if the cant take you at your worst then they don't deserve you at your best.

remember...learn to love yourself before you love someone else. ^^

[vahnhelsing]

So true, problem sad when you have change for the better, they won't believe, especially if an impression on you has been made already. Yah, I've learned not to change for anyone else but for myself...

thats the risk.. i dont mind kung unsa ila say.. im thankful nalang nga nausab ko for the better tungod nila.. way blema, masakitan jud ta sahay but one thing is for sure.... everything happen for a reason...bisan kini ato post post.. naay reason ani.. nakalearn ko ninyo...weeee.... lamats!!!!

[emnace09]

take me as a whole package..

[public7enemy]

use your brain first if he/she is really deserving to be please by you.... peace men.... hehehe..

[Egoist]

Ari ghapon kos definition love is self-sacrifice, di man tingay nag.pa.aung.ingun(pretend) ka kung magbag.o ka para sa imong hinugugma. kanang m.ana nga ingun ani man gyud ko dawata nalang, maypa mangulata nalang ang hilig mangulata sa tao nga iyang hinigugma kung maglagot. I could have slap/leave/blame you but I choose not to,even if I am used in doing that, because I love you. hehehhe O agree ko ana 360 degree magchange hehhee pero admit pud ko lisud na bsag nahigugma pa ka